A few weeks ago, I came to my mum's with my children. Initially, it was to get some head space away from OH but, as time went on, I realised that I had to end the relationship due to the way he treats the children. He is emotionally abusive towards DC1 and he is so angry with the baby that I had to stop him doing night feeds as I couldn't trust him around her.
Last week, I went to see a solicitor and described some of the things that had occurred. She told me to not allow him unsupervised contact as I see him as a risk to their safety.
Today, he has been to see his own solicitor, who has told him he is entitled to stay in our house until it goes to mediation, he can have unsupervised contact and residential contact. He blatantly hasn't told them the same story as me.
I also rang my HV today to log my concerns. She spoke to the safeguarding nurse and said that one of the incidences I mentioned would have been a police matter if I had raised it at the time, but can now only go on file due to the time since it elapsed (about six weeks. He shook our two year old.)
OH is now saying that, since his solicitor has given him the all clear, he intends to come to my mum's at the weekend and take the children out. Obviously I am not OK with this.
Where do I go next? What do I do? I'm going to tell him he's not welcome here and there's no way I'm handing over the children.
I want him out of his house but he refuses to go. Even though the 2 year old's activities all start again next week and our life is there. He has plenty of money so it's not like he can't rent somewhere. I'm on maternity leave and my contract has ended.
I'm guessing I go to my solicitor again? This time with my list of all of the incidents.
Help please.
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My solicitor has said supervised contact for OH. His hasn't.
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Blossom492 · 30/08/2016 23:52
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