My ex didn't see his son for 7 months. He's not actually his son, the child was born using donor sperm but was adopted before conception..
We left after Ds first birthday because ex was abusive.
We went to court and there is a contact arrangement in place.
However, there was no discussion in court about whether or not I should know where DS will be staying when he is with his Dad. His Dad lives 250 miles away. In the past He has refused to tell me where he is.
I'm not happy for my son to be at an unknown address.
Would it be unreasonable of me to say he needs to tell me the address of where they are staying and if he refuses then not allow DS to go.
Ex has got a non molestation order against him for smear campaign against me. He's a horrible bloke. What will the courts likely do if I refuse to send him to his dad's on grounds that I don't know where he is?
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Can I refuse the contact?
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MyPeriodFeatures · 01/08/2016 04:53
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