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Worried sick

9 replies

Homely1 · 27/06/2016 23:16

In mediation and child contact sorted. It appears as though I held some info re child but I honestly did not. Emails lost in cyberspace. Will he take me to court over this?

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Homely1 · 27/06/2016 23:30

Anyone?

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MrsBertBibby · 27/06/2016 23:53

I'm not sure what it is that has happened.

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Homely1 · 28/06/2016 00:20

He's accusing me of holding info on DC when I did not. I cannot prove it

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FV45 · 28/06/2016 11:13

You need to give us more information.

If you sent an email, it should be in your 'sent' folder.

Do you have a solicitor?

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Homely1 · 29/06/2016 06:46

I don't have it..... I have been having issues, had to delete emails as mailbox full.

I'm so worried

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AnyFucker · 29/06/2016 07:00

Blood. Stone.

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Cabrinha · 29/06/2016 07:00

Stay calm.
Does the information make a difference to child contact?
Is it something you ought to have told him?
If so, email him now (sounds like he already knows?), make the point in the email that you did send it before, stay neutral. Don't blame him - if he really didn't get it, it's not his fault. Then offer to go back to the mediator if it's important. It won't look good if he tries to drag something to court and has refused mediation.
If this information that he didn't get makes a difference, surely it's fair to go back to mediation?

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fastdaytears · 29/06/2016 07:07

If it's gmail or similar then unlikely to be lost forever.

But this doesn't sound like a massive issue.

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Cocoabutton · 29/06/2016 07:08

The onus is surely on him to prove this. He will only take you to court if he is a vindictive idiot with money to burn.

Maybe just offer to discuss who has what info and how it is accessed and communicated at mediation. For example, school can send him stuff independently as he has parental responsibility. If this is being used as a means of control - ie he wants a detailed update every week on everything through you, consider this more carefully and say no

In my experience, you should consult on education and medical matters, but you don't need to discuss what friends are round to play or bedtimes or food etc.

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