My ex and I seperated last year. He moved on very quickly (after two weeks) and whilst it hurt at first I now realise how controlling and emotionally abusive the situation had become. after initially agreeing to every weds and one day and night at weekend for him to see the children this changed to suit him to every other weekend. Now due to a change in his lifestyle and work he wants to change nights and see kids when it suits him. I've persisted in telling him it needs to be a set day as the children have got very upset when it keeps changing. They have set clubs in the week and I've worked it all around that arrangement. I have been flexible but once I do it he wants to keep changing it to suit him. if I can't do it because of prior commitments, I get abuse. he often tries to change it on the day the children are expecting him or night before. It's so frustrating as I feel like he is still trying to control everything- what do I do?
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