My ex husband and I have been separated for over a year now and both of us are happy with new partners.
He was very controlling and seems to want to continue this in our separate lives when it comes to the kids.
I am unable to communicate with him. I send him texts and emails that he ignores. I ask him if he will see the kids, or look after them in the holidays he refuses to be tied down to dates and times.
He also prefers for my kids to contact him to arrange seeing him (They are 12 and 14). I have repeatedly asked that all communication for seeing them comes through me, but he won't listen.
I haven't seen any maintenance since Feb, and then it was hit or miss. He says that if I go to CMS he will make sure I never see a penny.
He hasn't been working the last couple of months, so I have been lenient...but he has in this time managed to go away with his girlfriend to her home country.
What can I do to get him to make his kids as a priority?
Or do I have to accept that he is shit, and give up?
I feel bad for my youngest as he still thinks the sun shines out his arse.
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Any advice please on dealing with twat of an ex
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Ladygaggia · 06/06/2016 13:56
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