PLease advice - I want to start taking control of my finances as my OH as left me. he is continuing to pay same as before into joint ac which pays mortgage and household bills through D/D I pay all else - food petrol clothes outings kids clubs blahdey blah through a credit card - we each have one and he still has his card but the account is in my name.
I don't want to rock the boat but I want to start taking control. I know he will eventually need his own money to cover rent or whatever (when he moves out of his mums) and i know i can (for the moment) be financially secure with a minimum input from him.
HOWEVER - if i put the mortgage in my name will this be to my advantage in long term if i am seen to pay it or will it jeapordise my chances for remortgaging if i ve been seen to separate my finances so quickly. will it make no difference if i am paying but he still contributing to joint account?
Half of me wants to separate finances as soon as possible but part of me thinks I should keep taking his money as long as possible and put aside for future or for boys school residentials or something.
I am on a 1 year contract with no idea whether it will renew on the full time basis i am on at moment or on part-time basis or whether i need to find something new to accomodate being with children more.
so basically should i move mortgage to a different bank account and take it on or is there a reason i shouldn't do this???
TIA for any advice
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freida20 · 05/12/2015 10:42
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