My partner attacked me with a knife January 2014. Since then for obvious reasons he left the home and I was left to pay for everything by myself. Since that time he has never given one penny maintenance for the kids. He was sentenced to 15 months in jail, howerver he appealed and the sentence was reduced to 10 months which meant 5 months in jail.
Since March 2014, I have been using a lawyer to try and settle the split on our 2 properties - the family home and a buy to let flat we have in joint names. Talking to other people, I learnt that this is a quite straightforward case. But my current solicitor has already taken almost 7,000 pounds worth of fees from me and because I cannot afford to make any more payments on account she has insisted on me signing a document saying that I owe her in excess of 30,000 pounds for a matter which is regarded as straightforward and she also says that if the matter goes to court I will pay in excess of 80,000 pounds.
My solicitor is taking the case very slowly at present as I cannot afford to pay anything more on account and refusing to answer my telephone calls and meetings and also constantly postponing the court hearings. I have contacted a few solicitors but none were really interested in helping without money paid upfront. I do not have a penny to spare to pay for legal fees and my ex-partner is not willing to help sort out this matter.
He wants half of everything whereas I paid 300K towards the settlement of the mportgage and the money came from a critical illness insurance I had when I was diagnosed with Stage 2 Breast Cancer.
I cannot find another solicitor who will act on my behalf and be paid for it at the end when everything is settled and I can sell the family home or remortgage it. I would find the remortgaged difficult as my credit score is very bad due to debts left on my credit card which I could not afford to pay when he left.
Any advice please would be greatly appreciated.
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Carlito05 · 23/11/2015 16:48
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