We have nothing formally agreed, and haven't had for the past 2.5 years. He is now requesting every other weekend and one night in the week, which I am happy to agree to. However he is refusing to pick them up from school on his days, and will only pick them up from me after I've picked them up from school. This makes it incredibly difficult to arrange my own work as I work overnights. This new arrangement is going to make my working life even harder than it has been. Surely I am not being unreasonable by asking him to pick them up on his days, or for him to arrange for someone else to, for example a childminder. Am I ? I'm sure I'm not. At the moment I arrange for someone else to help me out when it's my trun and I can't do it.....aaaaaaarrrrgh.
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