That after 20 years of marriage, it is over.
I have never been best friends with my mil, but I have always been accommodating, polite and what I thought was a good daughter in law. I was the one who remembered their birthdays, arranged the gifts, even a surprize party one year. They do not live near us, so often they stay with us for a getaway for them, it was me that fetched, carried, cooked, cleaned and generally let them have a bloody 5 star holiday here. Sbtxh couldn't even tell you what date his own mothers birthday is as it always be me to arrange all that.
So what was her response to him telling her:
"Oh, well really, it was to be expected wasn't it"
WTAF.
Not once did she ask dh how I am, did the dc know, how are they about it. I didn't expect her to be gushing about us, but for fucks sakes, my life is crumbling around me, and that is all she can come out with.
My family also know, and they are reeling in shock at the news, we were the couple that everyone thought was rock solid, our friends are just as shocked.
I don't know why this has upset me as much as it has to be honest. I have told stbxh that she can fottfsof as far as I am concerned now. I think she is more upset by the fact that her weekends away to come to us are now not an option.
I just had to write this down, just to get off my chest really.
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isthismylifenow · 29/10/2015 06:31
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