I'm just working up the courage to tell my DH I want a separation/divorce. I've not been happy for over a year, nothing has happened but I have just fallen out of love with him and do not find him attractive anymore.
I'm not sure whether this will come as a surprise to him or not, but I am sure he will be devastated either way. I am feeling incredibly guilty and don't want to hurt him but cannot carry on with this marriage.
Anyway, I do need some practical advice. What are the things I need to think of?
We are renting and haven't really got any assets. Our tenancy is coming to an end and we have been told we will have to leave the property we are in early January so I feel now is the time to do it, so we can move straight into separate accommodation when we leave this property.
I earn roughly twice as much as him, but have checked the benefits advisor website and he should be fine financially on his own.
Is it possible to separate / get a divorce without getting lawyers involved?
Can we sort out our own child arrangements or do we need to get a lawyer involved here?
Anything else I should think of???
I am really hoping he won't put up with too much of a fight and that we can do this amicably...
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Practical advice for separation please?
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etttvatre · 13/10/2015 09:03
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