50/50

[Csunny2]

Bit of a back story to this- we (the children and I) moved out two years ago due to his violence nothing charged (reported to police - SS said move - which I did) have nisi 6 months ago. He has put in a court order for 50/50 how likely is this going to happen? He agreed on his own without my input that he only wanted them 10-6 Sunday's so it wouldn't ruin his social life!!

Is he effectively dragging us all through family courts now? Will it ever end??

Funny enough we are at the financials stage.

[Csunny2]

I have a lawyer who I will speak to but I wanted real life experiences. Thanking you in advance x

[financialwizard]

Without knowing how old the children are, how far away he lives etc it is impossible to say.

[Csunny2]

We left because of his abuse towards me.

[Csunny2]

Bump for the evening crowd please x

[Bellemere]

As per the previous poster, it's impossible to say without further details such as the children's ages, if they are 11+ what their thoughts are, what the current arrangement is & how long that has been in place, whether he lives nearby or far away etc. Abusers towards you would necessarily remove the possibility of a 50/50 arrangement.

[Csunny2]

Thanks - h is going for dual residency a good few years after we have left the house (he currently has 8 hours a week no overnights his choice due to not ruining his social life). The children are primary and one elder. H lives in the same town.