The scenario is that a wife chooses to have an affair with husband’s best friend. She then decides that she wants the totally inoffensive, non-violent, regularly employed, child loving husband to leave so she can move her new boyfriend in. Husband can’t stand the atmosphere so moves out and stays with relative nearby in cramped conditions. Wife changes the locks to the house and puts husband’s belongings in the shed. He still pays the mortgage (because of the kids) and a couple of other bills. He now has extra bills like rent, electricity etc to pay as well. Wife now living with new boyfriend asks for more money from husband and when he doesn’t have it, she stops him seeing the kids. Husband checks all of this out and it seems that because the wife has kids, she automatically has all the rights in the world to act in this manner and he can’t do much about it. Nothing has changed for the wife as regards accommodation, job, kids, money, (still drives husband’s other car) man about the house etc.etc. The husband has had his whole life shattered. Extra money to fork out, no regular contact with kids, etc.etc. It seems that the principles of sexual equality are non existent
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