We've had the house up for sale for six months.
I want to move an eight min drive into the countryside. DH wants to stay where he is.
I was promised two years ago if I still felt this way two years on, we'd move.
Now that there is interest in our home no house we go to look at is sufficient. We live in a four bed detached home and to be frank we just won't afford the equivalent out there.
This is fundamentally important to me. I wanted to move further away (20 mins) and I've compromised on that, as well as the type of house.
At the end of the day it's clear that he wants totally different things to me and now - after another house viewing failed to get him the remotest bit interested - I don't know where to go with it.
He thinks I 'have problems' and is saying I'm uprooting the family - DS is actually due to start full time school in sept and that's why I put the house on the market in Jan, to avoid that becoming the excuse which it clearly now has.
We aren't talking. I've taken my ring off. I don't feel there's a way back now. We want totally different things out of life.
Has anyone been through similar to this?
Of course I could just steam ahead but that's clearly not fair and I don't want it under those ridiculous circumstances.
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Don't want the same things. Causing massive problems. Divorce?
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howmuch2015 · 28/06/2015 14:40
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