Lost...:(
I wrote about this before... There is more to my sad story.
I am going through divorce and we have received the court divorce acceptance but he still lives at home in a separate room for last 2 years. He was making plans to leave back in Nov -Dec but gave up as his girlfriend (our ex employee) asked him to stop any contact with me once they move in together... He refused for the 3 kids we have together....So, they broke up as she didn't trust him being with us both at the same time.
Anyway, he is now asking me for Sex saying that the 3 times verbal Islamic divorce he did back in October is not Valid and that I should give him what he needs. This is his Right and I should obey:((
After refusing, he left the house at 10pm telling me he was going to a prostitute that would cost between £60-£100 and that I need to put up with the financial costs (we share a business)....
2 days later, he started again on the same issue by saying that since I have been stubborn to give him sex, he will make sure that he will make me pay the price for refusing, he will make sure that I will pay physically, emotionally, financially by whatever way, he will make my life hell and will also with one phone call cancel the divorce the court has accepted.
He also said that he could stop me from using my phone and that I would need his permission to talk to anyone on the phone.
I didn't sleep well last night and was so anxious & on my nerves.
I called my solicitor this morning who told me that it was too late for him to cancel the divorce unless he has money to spend on a long process.
Mage puts my mind at rest somehow but knowing him, he will try to turn nasty:(
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Clarita12345 · 09/03/2015 21:33
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