I'm just about to serve papers to my EA OH who I suspect has traits of a personality disorder. He's aware and in agreement about the divorce and we are working towards getting the house ready to market but I hate living with somebody so dysfunctional. This weekend he got drunk, lied about it and let the dc down - again. OH not going to move out and I do not have grounds for eviction.
I have seen a house that I want to buy. It is at the bottom end of what my settlement is likely to be. It was rented out and tge owner may be amenable to me renting it for six months with a view to buy. But then OH has a nice peaceful house where he can have his mates back for poker nights, generally slob out... Why will he then bother getting it nice or trying to sell it?
It is a bad idea, isn't it?
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Is this really stupid?
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Rhihhare · 08/03/2015 13:42
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