The children and I came back from holiday Saturday night to find that h had bought a bed and wardrobe and built it in the playroom downstairs, he's claiming the downstairs bathroom as his and told the children not to go in there unless absolutely desperate and the other one is occupied.
Of course he let me in to do the washing fortunately.
He told me last night that I'd obviously had him thrown out of his house to get back at him and it had seriously backfired on him and that he'd moved back in as I couldn't look after our children properly. He's not going to pay any money for the bills and he works from home mostly!
I've contacted my solicitor but now have to wait patiently to speak to her and face the doom and gloom of going home to his dictatorial, aggressive nature. He's already balled twice at my son and my daughter is not happy that he's back. He's told her she can't sleep in my room and that it's wrong, she is 11 and is going to secondary school and they will think it strange. I told her there's nothing wrong if she needs the company and comfort of her mom there then she can stay it's up to her and her daddy can't stop her from doing so.
He is writing down everything and says the place is a mess and he's taken photos to show social services (I've made previous threads about my story to explain why the social services and police are involved).
I just need emotional support right now, I feel desolate like I've been punched and totally depressed.
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stbexh has moved back into the house - I need support please
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bella1968 · 01/09/2014 09:44
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