I am soon to be divorcing DH and need to consider how to split access to my DS who is 3. I am the primary carer and DH does not have his own apartment / house currently and will be staying at his parents until he decides his next move (which could be on his own or with a partner). I understand we both need to have quality time with our DS and I do think (although not a priority right now) I will need personal time to start rebuilding my life. I feel offering up alternate weekends will be too much for now because he doesn't have a permanent base and I think that will be too much for my DS at the moment as he is very attached to me as DS left us for over a year (although he visited regularly) and will be leaving the house in a week after being back for a month. Can you let me know what works for you or provide any advice? Thanks.
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