Hi
V short background - divorced 6 years, shared parental responsibility, child living with me but having regular set contact with ex.
2 issues in 1 here....
My ex has regular contact with dd, but this weekend refused to go to see him because she wanted to see her friends. She is 11.
We tried to contact ex by phone and email to let him know there was a problem and try to resolve it, however discovered my phone numbers and email have been blocked by him. I, and therefore also dd, now have no way of contacting him directly should a problem come up.
dd refused to go, despite my trying to persuade her, and stayed the weekend with me.
We have previously been to court regarding contact, so I am now threatened with disregarding a court order by him. However, I was quite happy for dd to go and did my best to persuade her to. It was her decision not to go, not mine.
Anyone else in this situation and/or know what happens next when a child refuses their contact time?
Other issue is his blocking of all of my contact. How am I supposed to engage in shared parenting with someone who rejects all of my communication? He insists that messages be passed through a relative of his and I am not to contact him directly. This seems silly and ineffective and means that in an urgent situation, such as dd refusing contact the morning he is coming to collect her, the only way I can get in touch is to contact 3rd party, wait for them to contact him, wait for him to reply to them, then wait for them to reply to me!
Anyone have any experience of this? Can an ex in a shared parenting situation refuse to communicate directly with the other parent?
Thanks for your thoughts!
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dd refusing contact time & ex banning me from communicating w/him
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hodgehegs · 28/04/2014 21:00
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