My h walked out sixteen months ago. He's moved to America. I've done everything I can to support his relationship with our 3 children.
He insists on phoning them every night , I've gone along with this as I want them to have good relationship. Last night he cldnt get hold of us at the precise moment he wanted, we were at neighbours, he sent a shirty email directed at me but sent to my eldest daughter and copied to me. Saying he wldnt be able to speak to them now as he was flying, I had no idea he wld be flying anywhere. Using the word 'insists' , she was upset but always tries to see best in people. The younger two don't always want to speak to him but she always does cos I know she doesn't want him to be upset or hurt his feelings.
I feel it is a huge burden for the children, an obligation.
What is ok? I think it's about his needs not there's. Other peoples experiences?
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Celynfour · 26/04/2014 13:27
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