I have a dear, beautiful, clever, resourceful and deeply caring friend whose husband has finally moved out after years of delaying. Our kids get on like a house on fire and I really love her to bits so they've been over to ours a lot when going home was just... difficult. This was honestly not a charity gig, I love having her over and enjoy the kids playing together - we have all become very close.
She says she is pleased that he's finally gone - for all sorts of reasons he's been a dreadful partner and parent. Things she told me about him scared me.
But I am aware that separation is probably one of those things where, if you haven't been there, you won't quite 'get' what its like and that feelings may change from day to day.What advice can you give me about how to be there for her and her kids now? I feel like a know-nothing idiot!
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How can I support friend going through separation?
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Bumbandit · 28/03/2014 09:38
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