My stbx & I separated in May last year, usual story - 'I love you but I'm not in love with you', illicit texts to a work colleague & general mid life crisis behaviour. He now lives with his parents, sees our dd's weekly and is generally living a single life. I've stared divorce proceedings and the forms will be hitting his mat next week. I've not told him yet, things have remained very civilised between us but I feel I'm being played. He's overly nice and slips back into 'family mode' very easily whenever we're with our dd's. This breaks my heart as I get glimpses of what might have been.
I don't see the point in being married anymore, he has a new life & I feel there's no chance of reconciliation but I can't help feeling that this will be the nail in the coffin for our relationship and things most certainly will never be the same again. I'm feeling incredibly sad & unsure but ultimately I know what I'm doing is for the best. Can anyone out there empathise?
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Divorce/separation
Started divorce proceedings, feeling sad
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Florabella22 · 12/01/2014 07:25
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