Husband had 3 year affair-devastated

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wishiwas18 Sat 24-Aug-13 23:03:34

I'm new to mumsnet and wanted advice. I found out a few weeks ago that my dh has been having 3 year affair. He's left and moved in with her. Already!
I know I should be trying to come to terms with it but I'm heartbroken. We have teenagers who are coping quite well I think.The thing is we were in trouble and had talked about separating but I didn't know there was someone else. How do I get my head round this?
He seems to think because we'd discussed separation that "I need to move on". We were married over 20 years. I'm all over the place. One minute I feel quite strong and at others I'm a wreck.
Please help.

Supertrooper88 Sun 25-Aug-13 00:58:08

I am so sorry you are going through this at the moment.

You may get a better response if you post in relationships.

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