Hi I asked my emotionally and verbally abusive husband to leave in October 2011 he was abusing both me and the DC. There has followed a stormy and confusing time but basically at my request he has had Skype and phone contact only with the DC since Jan 2012.
He has stropped and complained and continued to abuse us but at a distance. I have gained strength.
I am used to dealing with his rants and manipulation of the truth but have been taken aback by the official correspondence with his (new) solicitor who uses extremely emotive language regarding my conduct (which she hears about 2nd or 3 rd hand) in official letters.
Am I right to be surprised? is this usual? It seems unprofessional and that the stage is being set for some great showdown.
She is re-writing history (making me the reason that mediation was stopped whereas it was H's non-engagement that resulted in the mediator telling me there was no point in carrying on at that point). And stating as facts that she can only possibly have H's opinion on.
what is going on??
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H's Solicitor using emotive language
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foolonthehill · 03/07/2013 13:40
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