Naming her in the divorce, any point ?

(11 Posts)
Mosman Wed 03-Apr-13 01:48:50

In my case she is desperate to put it all behind her, thinks DH is the most manipulative, self centred person she's ever met lol
She's fucking a married man, lying next to him as he bullshits me to cover up for them and thinks she's dealing with a decent human being ? What a twat. I think the penny's dropped now though and I'd rather spend £10,000 having a holiday

Monty27 Wed 03-Apr-13 01:12:19

Yeh my xdh's slut held things up monumentally becaused I named her and she did it on purpose to wind me up. Also they were in no hurry as the value of the marital home was increasing by the month at the time. 15 years ago...

However, I wanted her named for the sake of the children understanding what happened when they were old enough to understand iyswim.

Mosman Wed 03-Apr-13 01:00:12

He will and has admitted adultery so it was about making her squirm but there are other ways to do that which cost significantly less.

BlooMoon Wed 03-Apr-13 00:39:58

I assume all the above relates to grounds of adultery?

I have always wondered, if an inappropriate relationship with OW is mentioned in the free text box on an "unreasonable behaviour" petition, is it also theoretically/technically possible to add her as co-respondent? Or is that only possible for an adultery petition?

Not intending to do this, mind, but just wondering.

babybarrister Tue 02-Apr-13 11:02:28

Pointless

Mosman Tue 02-Apr-13 10:49:20

Apparently it costs thousands that can't be recovered so not worth it.

Collaborate Tue 02-Apr-13 10:35:19

She can always screw up or delay the divorce by simply doing nothing.

Mosman Tue 02-Apr-13 03:28:07

I have emails from both admitting it, so she gets served ? That'll do.

VBisme Tue 02-Apr-13 03:24:42

I don't know what difference it would make, and I've been told its very difficult to prove unless they both admit it.

MooseBeTimeForCoffee Tue 02-Apr-13 03:19:15

If you name her in the Petition she has to be served with a copy. If your ex is prepared to admit the adultery I see little point in bringing her into it.

Mosman Tue 02-Apr-13 03:10:36

Does she even get to know about it ?

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