I have been separated for 2.5 yrs, my ex has always had the children for three nights out of ten due to his shift pattern. He wants then for 50% of the time, and very cleverly got be to agree to having them for four nights out of ten in mediation.
The children are 6 and 8 and are happy, however I am not. I have been advised to go to court, as 4 out of 10, is a lot. It fits in around his shift pattern, but I work school hours to ensure a stable home life, as the shift pattern isn't the same days every week, it leaves me unable to increase hours at work, and sitting waiting for them to come home. He's never paid maintenance, and I don't know whether dragging it through court would do me any good. Any advice?
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Am I being unreasonable?
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Finrilemm · 26/01/2013 20:15
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