Doesn't matter how nice I try to be with my Xh, he is an ass. Only to me. He kindly allowed our DD to go to a birthday party on the weekend. I thanked him and said I could drive her close to him and save him the driving... His comment, "your not coming anywhere near my home!" I corrected saying, "I would drive to the nearest town to you...I don't need to see your home"...
(he already was picking up my son, on Friday anyhow)
He wanted me to keep her Fri, and take her to the party, then He will pick her up after. I said, why don't YOU keep her for Fri, and take her to party so you don't miss out on the visit with her, (then have a few hours with just my our son) and I will drive her to you...NOPE... Not good enough.
He said, he would be making an extra trip... (HUH??) SOOO,
I said, whether you pick up DD from party ~ or drive her there your still making an extra trip, so she can attend the party. I said, I was just trying to say you a trip too..
After his tantrum, he demanded it was at the regular exchange place and it adds 2 hrs of driving on him. WHATEVER... (felt for the kids)
While I was at the party with DD ~ my father was at my house, ended up talking to my X...and guess what..
MY DAD drove the extra 2 hrs...!!!
I said to my dad, when I suggested he threw a tantrum...when my dad suggested it...it's okay then. My dad took DD and ended up bbsitting my children while my Xh was busy...wow...
My dad said, he doesn't understand why my Xh behaves the way to me, and can see my frustrations...