I have an abusive ex, and for years I have suffered his abuse but asked him for a separation. I finally ensured he could not get back in because he bashed my nose (which required surgery and damaged my knee), however, in his anger he keeps getting my daughter involved into 'his version' of events, makes disparaging comments about me, has got his friends to write libelous emails about me to our wider circle. I want him to leave me alone, and when he has contact with my daughter, not to involve her so she feels confused or has to take sides, or keep 'secrets'. This is an unequal situation as I believe firmly that my daughter should not lose her innocence and not be dragged into 'taking sides' - rather she should only experience positive experiences when she is with either parent. But as my child is growing and hears more and more from him - all untrue - I have kept a tight lip but his pressure on my damaging my reputation and my 'status' in my daughter's eyes is so great that I am tearful almost every night after I put her to bed. Is there any way to counteract all this malice and just get him to stop destroying my daughter's innocence?
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Ex is trying to get my child 'on his side'
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thejanuarys · 04/01/2013 17:18
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