Hi
Received divorce papers last week direct from the courts, on my unreasonable beahaviour, all the reasons given are totally untrue, how much proof if any does my husband have to give. He says as proof that he has texts to prove my unreasonable behaviour, except they don't exist.
One of his main reasons was that i refused to eat with him for four months last year before he moved out, except at the time, i was in such a state mentally and not coping too well, my husband starting buying 3-4 takeaways every week, which are on all his bank statements, as well he would text me before leaving work to ask me what i wanted from the takeaway, or say in a text don't cook i'll get a takeaway for us all.
I had a brief telephone conversation with my solicitor yesterday, i'm not eligible for legal aid, but i am on benefits, so couldn't ask much.
But can my husband just say he has proof, won't he at any point have to prove what hes said about me?
I'm totally open to being divorced, a classic case of husband said he was leaving but didn't have a reason for ending a marriage, then after he'd moved out another woman appeared, but i can't get my head round the idea that he can basically lie on a legal form, without having to even attempt to show evidence of the truth.
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Joy5 · 19/08/2012 13:25
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