So, DH's lovely GM is 98 and her dementia is in that horrible stage where she sort of realises what is happening, but mostly not. She lives in a lovely home just round the corner from us and is well cared for by lovely people. She has become very paranoid, she thinks they are all out to get her, steal from her, want her gone etc. (None of this is true). She says that DH and I are the only ones she trusts and begs me to believe her and 'be on my side' when she talks about the staff 'stealing' from her.
My problem is this: is it best to let her think I think she is right and the staff aren't to be trusted (I'm very wary of this because I think it will feed her paranoia and fear) or do I gently reassure her that that's not the case and everyone is doing their best fro her? She gets very upset if she thinks I am 'on their side'.
I just don't know what is best?
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Dementia & Alzheimer's
Not sure what to say to DGM......
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Lara2 · 17/01/2016 12:29
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