Can any Dads give me a bit of insight into this? My DH is just the most wonderful man in the universe. For the last year, he has worked part time and I work full time. ITs just worked out that way - we both left university, and I got a job first, which happened to be full time, then he onl applied for part time jobs after that, and got one. I work in a lovely plcae with lots of fun people. HE spends half the week at home with the children and is very devoted, he takes them everywhere - swimming, park, activities, etc, and they have a great time. But he has a rubbish time. He finds it so hard to break into the Mum world and it is really knocking his confidence. He has always been popular, had loads of mates and all that. But now he feels that every conversation is some kind of challenge in which he is being assessed for funniness and he is not delivering. He is frightened of goimg out, even with his owm friends, becasue he is not entertaining enough. And its becoming true - he is now quite boring as he is so worried about not being boring. He wants to be able to ring people up and meet them for coffee with the kids in the park, just the way I did when I was at home with them. And he can't becvasue he hasn't made friends in mum land .he feels like a failure as he's been at it a year without success. HELP! Sorry for the longest post in history. Any any comments gratefully received.
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My DH is finding it hard to make friends in mumland.
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PSCMUM · 09/08/2007 11:43
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