My DH has a single female friend. They have known each other on and off since they have been 11 and have got closer since she broke up with her boyfriend.
She has just bought a new house and wants him to go over for a drink and to spend the night. She says she has invited another married man that they used to be school friends with.
I got upset and said I was not comfortable with him staying over but that if he insisted he should stay with a family member of mine. Now she has had a total hissy fit and says that I have insulted her and do not trust her (i've met her three times.) They have been out for drinks a few times and I am not invited despite asking.
My female friends think it is amazingly inappropriate and that I should not worry about upsetting her as she clearly doesn't care if I am upset. They are both saying I don't trust them, no-one has done anything wrong etc and that I am making everyone unhappy, what is my problem etc.
She did a "poll" in her office and all the married women there said they wouldn't have a problem with their husbands staying at another woman's house.
Is it me? I'm so upset but how can I stop this?
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FourJays · 13/10/2006 11:30
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