Please help -
I'm in such a pickle , I have 3 children 12,8 and 9 months old.
The baby's dad left when pregnant so on my own - my mat leave has ended and for very complicated reasons I won't go into my hours have been cut so am currently on income support whilst doing a 3.5 hours a week in my old job just to keep my hand in until circumstances change .
Her Dad has decided he is not going to pay child support anymore (I'm going through matienance agency but could take months) my eldest 2's Dad also doesn't help Me out despite promises etc.
The reason I'm telling you that is that it was money I had been getting so had unfortunately become reliant on it which I never should of done.
Anyhow one lives to ones means and when I was working I could afford to be more frivolous etc so I have a loan for my car and I'd booked a holiday next year for me and the children(our first one abroad ever )
I've tried to cancel it as I have 1850.00 left to pay and I just don't think it's going to happen, however they have said I only paid a small deposit so I need to pay another £300. I said I just don't have it (and I don't I have 0 in my bank as all my benefits have not been sorted yet)
I've worked out to pay for the holiday I need to put away £67 a week !.
After bills and food and petrol (if I cut back to 40 a week for food ) I'll have £130 "disposable income " a week left -which is to clothe and pay for any of children's activities days out etc -plus baby needs a cot , stair gates as she is crawling , new clothes as she has got so big the list is endless .
I just don't know what to do ? This is all of my own making I've spent too much and I should of had some savings being me but I have nothing but a massive loan and this bloody holiday I wish I'd never booked.
Think I just want some help to budget properly and how to make money stretch further and also people's opinion on what they would do about this blasted holiday !
The children have said they are not upset if it's cancelled but what do I do about this extra money the holiday company wants!
Thanks in advance . I'm so stressed I've been on phone all morning trying to sort it all out .
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bibby33 · 03/11/2015 11:55
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