Finally i have a BFP!!

(26 Posts)
BabyTinks Sun 13-Apr-14 22:03:04

Well heres a little bit of my story...... I mc mid november 2013, have been ttc ever since, the one month me and my dp have a month off and not stress or think about ttc we have our bfp!!! gringrin
We are both over the moon, my expected due date due to late ovulation i am suspecting is around 8th - 18th december!!

Anyone have a bfp post mc??? Need any advice/chat to get me through the next so many weeks to my scan when i know everything is going to be ok! thank you xxx

HaveYouHeardOfGoogle Sun 13-Apr-14 22:05:26

Congratulations! grin

ImBrian Mon 14-Apr-14 08:01:24

Congratulations, I'm pregnant after a chemical and due beginning of December. In the antenatal threads there's a December one and also a December thread for those of us who have miscarried.

tattyteddy Mon 14-Apr-14 08:30:02

Congratulations both. I got pregnant with my DD after a MC. I like you worried a bit at the start, so I went had a private scan at 8 weeks to check the pregnancy. At 8 weeks I could see and hear a heart beat and this reassured me quite a bit.

Throughout the pregnancy I took it week by week and felt much better as I passed different milestones, such as 12 week scan, 20 week scan, etc - I hope that make sense and I'm probably not explaining myself very well.

Also there might be a thread on pregnancy that has people who are pregnant after MC?

Anyway I have a three year old now who is wonderful and wish you both the best Of luck. xx

kitkatkaty87 Mon 14-Apr-14 12:33:52

Congratulations!!!!

Bumbershoot Mon 14-Apr-14 12:38:06

Congratulations!!! grin

BabyTinks Mon 14-Apr-14 13:33:43

Thank you for your replies girls thanks

I am so happy but can't help worry about another mc!! I have a docs app tomorrow so hope it goes well and the doc will keep up to date with me on more regular checkups etc...

With my last preg i never had any symptoms... I have been feeling sicky and nausea all day today and i'm only around 4-6 weeks

espa Mon 14-Apr-14 18:50:23

Congrats tinks! I remember you from before when our bfns were frustrating us! Hopefully I might be able to join you soon.... Just poas and think had a v v v faint line... Not sure when I'm due AD, could be tomorrow but clinging to hope ad didn't use fmu...fingers crossed AF stays away! Congrats again!

BabyTinks Mon 14-Apr-14 18:54:11

Espa!!! Hiiiii smile its been a while for me i have had a break and to be honest we havent even been ttc the month of march we had a month off! And boom positive last night we couldnt believe it, we only dtd 4 times the whole month of march... And all diff times as we have just been so busy why we had taken some time off and destress'd ourselves!

When is af due?? I was on cd43 i done a test last week and it was negative, and we dtd on the 30th march and i was cd28 then.... Wondering if i ovulated that late!!! Because surely a test would have came up before that... Hmm its confusing me lol! I have the doctors tomorrow though smile so hopefully get some answers and work out my due date.... If it was a late ov id be around 18th december if not 8th dec....

So scared though espa!
Do not want to go through another mc sad

espa Mon 14-Apr-14 19:09:37

Well last few months my cycle has increased by a couple of days, was about 21/22 after coming off the pill. Tomorrow will be cd28, last month was a 25 day cycle. So who knows! I have no real pregnancy symptoms either, unlike February when I was convinced! It's been so hard to predict when to dtd as my cycle has been so inconsistent lately as never quite sure when I'm ovulating. Opks are helping though.

Hope everything goes well for you. X

BabyTinks Mon 14-Apr-14 19:13:56

Well lets hope you v v v faint line is a bfp!!!

Opk done nothing for me sad we just dtd when we wanted really and like i said we barely dtd and it happened, i think most of us on here stress too much ever month with opks and temping and its just not happening what else can you do right? My advice take a month off and say to yourself just enjoy a month you and your dp/dh dtd when yous want.... And go out and enjoy yourself! smile what i done and i cannot believe it, just hope this is it and we dont get any bad news!

DrFunkesFamilyBandSolution Mon 14-Apr-14 19:16:15

pregnant after miscarriage thread full of lovely, crazy pregnant ladies all knicker checking, worried and hand holding through the whole 9 months.

Congratulations!

BabyTinks Mon 14-Apr-14 19:19:13

I'm already on it and no1s responded to my message lol......hmm

HeyBungalowBill Mon 14-Apr-14 19:21:37

Congratulations!! smile

One question though, what does bfp stand for?

BabyTinks Mon 14-Apr-14 19:24:33

Big fat positive smile
Thank you hunny x

HeyBungalowBill Mon 14-Apr-14 19:43:41

Ooh thanks for clearing that up grin

How exciting!!! smile

BabyTinks Mon 14-Apr-14 19:51:23

Can anyone help me....

I have a cat and i change her litter every day myself my dp has nothing to do with it because its my cat not his selfish right? Well anyway he is going away to work for 2 weeks and wont be here and as i am keeping this hush until my scan, i am even keeping it quiet from my own mum because she has a big mouth and wont keep it quiet lol any thoughts on changing litter?? Anyone else have a cat??

espa Mon 14-Apr-14 20:03:42

As long as you don't come in direct contact with urine you're okay I think. Can you change it student way? We use cheap white bin liners and top the whole tray in it anyway so don't need to touch litter (we do have two cats though so need to clean the whole tray out every day so it's easier). Wear rubber gloves too?

BabyTinks Mon 14-Apr-14 20:06:18

I use litter tray liners and what i do is i get a plastic bag and i put it over the edge of the whole tray and tip it all in.... I dont actually touch anything, i just gag with the smell sometimes lol

Congratulations! Come and join us on the December thread! We're all nervous too but excited about our little christmas presents grin

BabyTinks Mon 14-Apr-14 20:11:27

Oh i didnt know there was one..... See you girls soon smile

Oh and DH is def on litter tray duty! I hate it at the best of times so now I have the perfect excuse!

BabyTinks Mon 14-Apr-14 20:13:48

Haha i have no choice he isnt here for 2 weeks straight sad i don't know what to do!

P.s can't find this december thread?

espa Tue 15-Apr-14 06:56:38

Had cramps all night but another faint line for me this morning. As only cd28 hopefully just faint as it's early days. Fx!

BabyTinks Tue 15-Apr-14 22:40:40

A line is a line espa!!
So do you think you have a bfp then??

I have had sharp stabbing pains most of today! I took a clear blue digi that showed me around 4-5 weeks. Calculated today i'm about 4 weeks 4 days.... Or 6 days, doc has calc from a average cycle of 28 days and says im 6 weeks 2 days.... I know its wrong because my cycles are between 38 and 44 so i average it out around 40-42... Which shows me 4 weeks so many days! So least il have a scan early and a second scan because i know its the wrong dates but hey ho! I reckon my scan will be in 6 weeks time around 1st week in june i hope anyway!
But im so worried with my pains today, scared to go to the loo sometimes in case i see something i dont wanna see sad

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