Put on your capes and rub the Unicorn belly aka "my dear, please pour baby gravy on my egg!" - JUST SHAGGING PART 18!

(1000 Posts)
ZingWantsCake Wed 04-Sep-13 21:42:54

Ladies, Fred title says it all; we are the ones who shag as much as our men can cope with in order to get upduffed without the stress of scientific whatnots!

Fred rules (copied from previous Fred)

1. Thou shalt shag as much as humanly possible in order to get upduffed.
2. Thou shalt not partake of OPKs, temping, or charting.
3. Thou shalt keep symptom spotting to a minimum.
4. Thou shalt share and with your fredmates where needed.

JSing lingo;

ERTD = Evil Red Tide of Dooooooommmmmmm. Or AF to most others.

Pant snot = Egg white cervical mucus.

Doing a kitten = Getting upduffed soon after joining (warning: may induce envy in other posters).

Viroid = This is you, dear poster. This is from the first JS thread when someone tried to type 'ladies' and it autocorrected to 'Viroids' - so there you go!

POAS = Pee On A Stick (of the pregnancy detecting kind, not from a tree). Also known as PIAR (Pee In A Ramekin - cos we're posh birds innit). Or PIATLH (Tea light holder) PIAWG (Wine glass) or anything else you care to pee in!

Shagging like something = JSing like a teenage nymphomaniac.

Giving a hooya = Giving a much needed slap to a fellow poster in danger of slipping into ttc obsession.

Contraband = Of COURSE none of us EVER partake of any silly OPKs or temp charting. They are Contraband.

The link to Part 17 is here

Happy shagging shaggers!

no grad thread link sorry, can someone else add this please?

pizzaqueen Wed 04-Sep-13 21:52:46

just checking in thanks for doing the Fred, have some cake.

ttc #2 since feb13

ZingWantsCake Wed 04-Sep-13 21:56:33

oh, roll call, of course!

Name: Pizza
TTC: #2 since Feb 2013

Name: Zing
Children: yes
TTC: since Aug 2013

Curly86 Wed 04-Sep-13 21:57:44

Ooh shiny new Fred

Curly checking in came off pill Nov2012 actively TTC#1 since Mar 2013

ZingWantsCake Wed 04-Sep-13 21:59:53

Name: Pizza
TTC #2 since Feb 2013

Name: Zing
Children: yes
TTC since Aug 2013

Name:Curly
off pill since Nov 2012
TTC #1 since Mar 2013

Fox82 Wed 04-Sep-13 22:03:33

Name: Pizza
TTC #2 since Feb 2013

Name: Zing
Children: yes
TTC since Aug 2013

Name:Curly
off pill since Nov 2012
TTC #1 since Mar 2013

Name: Fox
TTC #1 since Dec 2012

Bearfacedchic Wed 04-Sep-13 22:11:26

Can't copy as on mobile. Please can someone add moi?

Name: bear Bearfacedchic
Kinder? Nooooo
Ttc #1 since forever it feels like but actually August 2011. Currently undergoing investigayshons.

Bearfacedchic Wed 04-Sep-13 22:13:03

Lovely Fred Zing. <Pulls up a cushion and gets self comfy. Passes round empty biscuit packet but finds another from Secret Stash>

ZingWantsCake Wed 04-Sep-13 22:17:18

Name: Pizza
TTC #2 since Feb 2013

Name: Zing
Children: yes
TTC since Aug 2013

Name:Curly
off pill since Nov 2012
TTC #1 since Mar 2013

Name: Fox
TTC #1 since Dec 2012

Name: bear Bearfacedchic
Kinder? Nooooo
Ttc #1 since forever it feels like but actually August 2011. Currently undergoing investigayshons.

ZingWantsCake Wed 04-Sep-13 22:18:33

done bear!

yummy biscuits, thanks!

AQuarkTooFar Wed 04-Sep-13 22:25:15

Name: Pizza
TTC #2 since Feb 2013

Name: Zing
Children: yes
TTC since Aug 2013

Name:Curly
off pill since Nov 2012
TTC #1 since Mar 2013

Name: Fox
TTC #1 since Dec 2012

Name: Bearfacedchic
Kinder? Nooooo
Ttc #1 since forever it feels like but actually August 2011. Currently undergoing investigayshons.

Name: AQuarkTooFar
No Kids
Ttc #1 since nov 2011

AQuarkTooFar Wed 04-Sep-13 22:28:05

Oo nice thread zing! Here's to all the BFPs it shall bring wine!

Loves loves loves my wee rocket symbol! Thanks muchly bear

<makes self comfy in the symptom spotting cave and offers round marshmallows for roasting on the campfire>

lil1ady Wed 04-Sep-13 22:28:21

Name: Pizza
TTC #2 since Feb 2013

Name: Zing
Children: yes
TTC since Aug 2013

Name:Curly
off pill since Nov 2012
TTC #1 since Mar 2013

Name: Fox
TTC #1 since Dec 2012

Name: Bearfacedchic
Kinder? Nooooo
Ttc #1 since forever it feels like but actually August 2011. Currently undergoing investigayshons.

Name: AQuarkTooFar
No Kids
Ttc #1 since nov 2011

Name: lil1ady
Dcs: no
TTC: #1 since Nov 12

lil1ady Wed 04-Sep-13 22:30:26

ah Zing the baby glitter mascot has got us all set up nicely for part 18. heres hoping we all get bfps on this one. especially bear and red and dulcet now the docs are intervening

AQuarkTooFar Wed 04-Sep-13 22:31:42

Woops i ment ttc since Nov 2012 not 2011!

AQuarkTooFar Wed 04-Sep-13 22:32:15

Name: Pizza
TTC #2 since Feb 2013

Name: Zing
Children: yes
TTC since Aug 2013

Name:Curly
off pill since Nov 2012
TTC #1 since Mar 2013

Name: Fox
TTC #1 since Dec 2012

Name: Bearfacedchic
Kinder? Nooooo
Ttc #1 since forever it feels like but actually August 2011. Currently undergoing investigayshons.

Name: AQuarkTooFar
No Kids
Ttc #1 since nov 2012

Name: lil1ady
Dcs: no
TTC: #1 since Nov 12

DulcetMoans Wed 04-Sep-13 22:36:49

Baby gravy!! Haha. Love it!! Just going to try get me some now, wish me luck!!

ZingWantsCake Wed 04-Sep-13 22:42:45

<sets up baby glitter delivery service>

it really was a close call, I tell you! I posted the link, clicked on link to see if it worked and the site went off line! shock

I couldn't go back on for 5 mins - I hate it when that happens!
but all is good, glad you like it - I copied pretty much everything that Essie said on previous thread starter post.

I don't know anything about the "grad link" thing though.

lil

links are easy - if you look at full screen on computer just check underneath the "message box" and it is all explained there in the LINKS bit.
it is a bit of a fiddle to start, then copy, paste & link a new thread onto the old one, but it's not hard. smile

ZingWantsCake Wed 04-Sep-13 22:48:11

if anyone's on phone just post your own details, I can copy and paste everyone later.

Dulcet

grin - that's from MrZing's refined vocabulary!

do you want to add your details to roll call?

fifi669 Wed 04-Sep-13 23:04:01

Name: Fifi669
One DS
TTC#2 since April 13

fifi669 Wed 04-Sep-13 23:05:32

Think we should keep a running total of BFPs too....

DulcetMoans Wed 04-Sep-13 23:25:28

Sure, add me on.

Name: dulcetmoans
No kids
TTC: march 2012 with break

BroodyTroody Wed 04-Sep-13 23:48:10

Thanks for the new thread! I'll add my info smile

BroodyTroody
Ttc #1 since Feb 2013

Due on this weekend, kinda nervous! DH says my moods are really unpredictable, but have had a dreadful cold this week so think it's that- not feeling too hopeful for a BFP this month.

Have I missed the synchro pee??

BroodyTroody Thu 05-Sep-13 00:14:09

Just read the last few posts of the old Fred... Lil and Fifi I'm an accountant too! But we're quite a young sociable bunch and I love it- many an evening with too much alcohol! shock

Redshoes56 Thu 05-Sep-13 01:39:41

Hi all! Thanks for starting the new thread. Here's hoping it is lucky!!!

Name: Pizza
TTC #2 since Feb 2013

Name: Zing
Children: yes
TTC since Aug 2013

Name:Curly
off pill since Nov 2012
TTC #1 since Mar 2013

Name: Fox
TTC #1 since Dec 2012

Name: Bearfacedchic
Kinder? Nooooo
Ttc #1 since forever it feels like but actually August 2011. Currently undergoing investigayshons.

Name: AQuarkTooFar
No Kids
Ttc #1 since nov 2012

Name: lil1ady
Dcs: no
TTC: #1 since Nov 12

Name: Fifi669
One DS
TTC#2 since April 13

Name: dulcetmoans
No kids
TTC: march 2012 with break

Name: BroodyTroody
Ttc #1 since Feb 2013

Name: Redshoes56
No kids
TTC: Hmm....May 2012. Also being poked by the FBI (f***ing barren investigation)

I think I got everyone?!

Redshoes56 Thu 05-Sep-13 01:42:20

I got a call back from the nurse today but was in a meeting. She didn't leave any info about the semen analysis except to say she'd call me again tomorrow, but did drop a bomb on my voicemail that even though my tubes are open, my uterus is slightly septated. I didn't even know that was a word. It apparently means I am likely doomed or may even need surgery according to Dr. Google (yes, I know, I should wait until the call tomorrow to jump to conclusions!). Nervous.

Minion Thu 05-Sep-13 07:05:16

Morning fredsters.

Name: minion
Kids: not for the lack of trying
TTC: officially the 1st jan but that's when I was ignorant and thought you get up duffed any time willy nilly, so let's say the 1st may

Viroids, I am having the weirdest ERTD. I got that horrible brown sludge and its The most bloody painful ERTD that kept me up an hour last night. Knew this one would be a killer from the fact since the moment I iced I have cramps. So, off to chemist today, what should I pick up oh knowledgable shaggers?
What's good to kill off the pain, apart from a gun?

ZingWantsCake Thu 05-Sep-13 07:45:55

minion I PMd you

BroodyTroody Thu 05-Sep-13 07:54:05

Minion, when I was younger, I used to use a TENS machine for period pain, but that would only be worth investing in if they're consistently bad.

Nothing worse than dreadful period pain that you can't seem to do anything about hmm

lil1ady Thu 05-Sep-13 08:38:14

morning all

red Lol at FBI. hope u get better news when you speak to the nurse today. try not to worry until you know the facts. Dr goofle thinks he's such a know it all but sometimes he's just a bow tie smile

min only thing I find helps is a hit water bottle but I've been lucky and never had them as bad as you. [hugs]

DulcetMoans Thu 05-Sep-13 09:18:15

Oh no red, what a horrible thing to hear by voicemail without anyone to speak to. Google does bring up the worst though so hopefully the nurse can give you more details.

I just went back and looked at my picture zing, haha. Not sure what it was but I think it's a lady with a head scarf? Maybe she is a dulcetmoaner!

Redshoes56 Thu 05-Sep-13 12:24:56

I can't see most of the pics sadly, except for coffee's coffee!

min feel better. An electric heating pad does wonders.

AQuarkTooFar Thu 05-Sep-13 12:40:50

[&#128640;] red hope u get some better info today! What a crap message to be left.

min hope you are ok, that sounds awful. flowers

In the twot now! Might carry on JSing eod for the fun of it though probably won't be arsed though. Unfortunately if it doesn't happen this month I think we will be taking a wee break from it. Don't want my due date to be on sil wedding day!

AQuarkTooFar Thu 05-Sep-13 12:42:15

Aw my rocket didn't work! sad

Will try again ............🚀

Yay!

ZingWantsCake Thu 05-Sep-13 13:16:16

.A
|.|
/|\

there's your rocket Quark!

you like?

Redshoes56 Thu 05-Sep-13 13:17:02

I can still see only squares, no icons! I feel gypped, cheated and swindled. I'll blame the government wink

Redshoes56 Thu 05-Sep-13 13:17:32

Oh, I see that rocket, zing - nice one!

fifi669 Thu 05-Sep-13 13:41:34

dulcet you were a bride!

DulcetMoans Thu 05-Sep-13 13:56:14

Of course! I can totally see that now. Amazing!! I love it!

I think I am having a squinny day in my head. I want a baby and I want it now! Watching midwife programme until after midnight last night was probably not a good idea.

AQuarkTooFar Thu 05-Sep-13 15:38:40

Thanks Zing!

Dulcet I know the feeling, I watched that programme yesterday and then read some birth stories on here and the sobbed about the fact I am not pregnant! <stomps feet and throws a tantrum>

Curly86 Thu 05-Sep-13 17:13:39

quark dulcet my OH has banned such programmes as I blubber too much! He has put them in the contraband category

I also am twotting --or I would be if I wanted a baby which I totally don't mr Sod if you are listening!

red that totally sucks as an answer machine message and to say she would call again tomorrow does she not understand that you need to prepare a cape etc and be having a baby now!

fifi669 Thu 05-Sep-13 18:11:39

Loving the cunningness of red with her reverse psychology smile

fifi669 Thu 05-Sep-13 18:12:24

Sorry i meant curly.....

Alohomora Thu 05-Sep-13 18:23:14

Name: Pizza
TTC #2 since Feb 2013

Name: Zing
Children: yes
TTC since Aug 2013

Name:Curly
off pill since Nov 2012
TTC #1 since Mar 2013

Name: Fox
TTC #1 since Dec 2012

Name: Bearfacedchic
Kinder? Nooooo
Ttc #1 since forever it feels like but actually August 2011. Currently undergoing investigayshons.

Name: AQuarkTooFar
No Kids
Ttc #1 since nov 2012

Name: lil1ady
Dcs: no
TTC: #1 since Nov 12

Name: Fifi669
One DS
TTC#2 since April 13

Name: dulcetmoans
No kids
TTC: march 2012 with break

Name: BroodyTroody
Ttc #1 since Feb 2013

Name: Redshoes56
No kids
TTC: Hmm....May 2012. Also being poked by the FBI (f***ing barren investigation)

Name: minion
Kids: not for the lack of trying
TTC: officially the 1st jan but that's when I was ignorant and thought you get up duffed any time willy nilly, so let's say the 1st may

Name: alohomora
Kids: Two cats and a dog
TTC: This is cycle three

Ladies, I'm officially icing. I am just SO GLAD it confirmed that I know my body quite well - I had runny mucus yesterday and had the most intense dream tonight about snogging Barney Stinson. And ta-dah, smiley face!

Gives me some piece of mind, at least - now for the cape tonight! Just glad I'm not working til 10. It's been 5 years to the day that I moved here from Germany, it would be awesome if it was also the day we managed to make a baby!

curly of course you don't!!! Maybe that'll work...

AuntieMaggie Thu 05-Sep-13 18:29:41

Hello ladies. Thanks for the new thread Zing.

Name: AuntieMaggie
TTC: June 2013

minion a concoction of various painkillers, hot water bottle and bed.

ZingWantsCake Thu 05-Sep-13 18:34:16

Name: Pizza
TTC #2 since Feb 2013

Name: Zing
Children: yes
TTC since Aug 2013

Name:Curly
off pill since Nov 2012
TTC #1 since Mar 2013

Name: Fox
TTC #1 since Dec 2012

Name: Bearfacedchic
Kinder? Nooooo
Ttc #1 since forever it feels like but actually August 2011. Currently undergoing investigayshons.

Name: AQuarkTooFar
No Kids
Ttc #1 since nov 2012

Name: lil1ady
Dcs: no
TTC: #1 since Nov 12

Name: Fifi669
One DS
TTC#2 since April 13

Name: dulcetmoans
No kids
TTC: march 2012 with break

Name: BroodyTroody
Ttc #1 since Feb 2013

Name: Redshoes56
No kids
TTC: Hmm....May 2012. Also being poked by the FBI (f***ing barren investigation)

Name: minion
Kids: not for the lack of trying
TTC: officially the 1st jan but that's when I was ignorant and thought you get up duffed any time willy nilly, so let's say the 1st may

Name: alohomora
Kids: Two cats and a dog
TTC: This is cycle three

Name: AuntieMaggie
TTC: June 2013

Curly86 Thu 05-Sep-13 19:25:37

I haven't used any contraband, I've eaten all the bad stuff drunk what I want and have openly said at least 3 times per day it would be awful if I fell pregnant now because its just not the right time... I'm hoping that someone up there hates me enough to make it happen :-)

ChubbyKitty Thu 05-Sep-13 19:57:45

Oh hai.

Room for a little chubby one?

Bearfacedchic Thu 05-Sep-13 20:42:49

Aw Red- what an awful message to be left. What Lik said was spot on about dr Goof. I hope it's better news when you speak to her. thanks

Hi Kitty! Welcome! Add your details to the list above as we're doing roll call.

Bearfacedchic Thu 05-Sep-13 20:43:53

Who's lik? I meant Lil!

ZingWantsCake Thu 05-Sep-13 20:56:16

kitty glad you found it!

add your details, I can copy & paste later if you can't.

ChubbyKitty Thu 05-Sep-13 21:36:48

ChubbyKitty
Off pill since April 2013
Ttc since August 2013
No kids

Redshoes56 Thu 05-Sep-13 22:29:24

Welcome, kitty!

I had just about one of the shittiest days ever today. Back-to-back meetings from 9:30 until 4:30, existing on one yogurt. I did excuse myself to take the call from the nurse. I might have a bicornuate uterus or a septate uterus. Apparently I was supposed to have been given the films at the radiologist, but I did not get them, so I now have to pick them up and deliver them to the RE so she can examine them properly. I'll probably have to have another test to figure out what the deal is. Oh, and maybe surgery. Oh, and DH's morphology is practically 0%. I haven't told him yet sad. Maybe we should just adopt another cat.

DulcetMoans Thu 05-Sep-13 22:34:57

Oh red that is a shit day. How did you cope after the phone call? Hope you have a treat lined up somewhere soon. Perhaps you are too ill for work tomorrow? Sod 'em, focus on you!

CivicBlue1 Thu 05-Sep-13 22:48:51

CivicBlue1
Ttc #2 since June 2013
1 dd aged 16

ZingWantsCake Thu 05-Sep-13 23:26:15

hi Civic

I'll add you and kitty to roll call tomorrow.

ZingWantsCake Thu 05-Sep-13 23:29:14

oh red sorry to hear.thanks

lil1ady Fri 06-Sep-13 00:12:23

oh red that's shit. I know its hard but try and stay positive. you are getting answers and that's what matters. the fact u can have surgery to correct it is a good thing and morphology can be treated I believe focus on the good. and I agree with having the day off sick and focusing on you tomorrow. live to work not work to live.

lil1ady Fri 06-Sep-13 00:13:07

oh forgot to say hi to the newbies waves

Redshoes56 Fri 06-Sep-13 01:11:31

Thanks so much ladies - I really did just dump and run before, eh? Sorry! I haven't told many people at all in "real life" about the fact that we're TTC never mind having troubles, so I just needed to vent! I am actually not sure I would have held it together today without popping over here for unconditional support. Thanks a heap thanks!

DH was absolutely wonderful when I got home. He was not thrilled to hear about the results, but really positive and supportive. We had a good laugh and even managed to get the cape on (hey, it only takes ONE!). Behind good old fashioned shagging, we are going to take things one day at a time. Next step is a second semen analysis to make sure the first result was actually accurate. And I am going to request another consult with the doctor so we can sit down and get answers.

I sure would call out sick tomorrow, but I called out sick Tuesday for the HSG so I really am behind and should go in. At least tomorrow is Friday!!!! grin

Redshoes56 Fri 06-Sep-13 01:12:56

*Behind = beyond

Nessalina Fri 06-Sep-13 02:15:20

Hey viroids! Just place marking coz I like to lurk & see how y'all are doing! smile I'm 7+2 and sick as a dog, not that I expect any sympathy, lol!
Glad to hear you're feeling positive Red, wouldn't it be amazing if you damned the odds with your cape-donning this evening! grin
Will post a link to current grads Fred when I get on a proper PC, and hope to see you all over there really soon! Xxx

ZingWantsCake Fri 06-Sep-13 02:23:01

Name: Pizza
TTC #2 since Feb 2013

Name: Zing
Children: yes
TTC since Aug 2013

Name:Curly
off pill since Nov 2012
TTC #1 since Mar 2013

Name: Fox
TTC #1 since Dec 2012

Name: Bearfacedchic
Kinder? Nooooo
Ttc #1 since forever it feels like but actually August 2011. Currently undergoing investigayshons.

Name: AQuarkTooFar
No Kids
Ttc #1 since nov 2012

Name: lil1ady
Dcs: no
TTC: #1 since Nov 12

Name: Fifi669
One DS
TTC#2 since April 13

Name: dulcetmoans
No kids
TTC: march 2012 with break

Name: BroodyTroody
Ttc #1 since Feb 2013

Name: Redshoes56
No kids
TTC: Hmm....May 2012. Also being poked by the FBI (f***ing barren investigation)

Name: minion
Kids: not for the lack of trying
TTC: officially the 1st jan but that's when I was ignorant and thought you get up duffed any time willy nilly, so let's say the 1st may

Name: alohomora
Kids: Two cats and a dog
TTC: This is cycle three

Name: AuntieMaggie
TTC: June 2013

Name: CivicBlue1
Ttc #2 since June 2013
1 dd aged 16

Name: ChubbyKitty
Off pill since April 2013
Ttc since August 2013
No kids

Name: Nessalina
Status: lurker and supporter, former viroid and currently enjoying 1st trimester with DC#1 (or is it #2)

Redshoes56 Fri 06-Sep-13 02:37:53

That would be amazing, nessa wink think good thoughts! Good to see you on here!

FiftyP Fri 06-Sep-13 07:13:23

Hi all just to let you know I have nc'd. I was quak

FiftyP Fri 06-Sep-13 07:35:27

Hello to the newbies!

red hope u get all the answers you need soon and rant away here, it's what we are for!

pizzaqueen Fri 06-Sep-13 08:01:23

oh red that's truly shit news to get over the phone at work. I cant believe they tell you that stuff over the phone. glad you and dh could talk shag it out.

We're off on holiday today af due Wednesday but I'm not taking pee sticks with me, if I'm late i'll poas when I get back next weekend. Not too positive this month I think we missed ov day although did day before and after.

Nessalina Fri 06-Sep-13 08:30:54

Ha! Thanks for adding me to the roll Zing wink It's DC#1 that's cooking currently!

Minion Fri 06-Sep-13 08:54:40

Hi new Fred friends!

ZingWantsCake Fri 06-Sep-13 10:08:26

Ness just returning the favour! grin

it's been for days and I still have awful cramping. I've run out of nurofen.

I'm drinking lots of water, I think it's helping.
brew first, then sorting clothes!

HAPPY FRIDAY!

ZingWantsCake Fri 06-Sep-13 10:08:46

*it's been four days

DulcetMoans Fri 06-Sep-13 11:00:09

Viroids, I am contemplating smiley piss sticks. Talk me down?

Well done on donning cape red, after that kind of a day. Hopefully it made you both feel better. There's alwas hope and the medical professionals will iron out the problems too!

Forgot to say, when I went to the docs on Monday she talked me through conception (I didn't tell her I had learnt most of it from MN anyway!) and told us pretty straight that we don't need to have sex everyday and in fact there is evidence to suggest that decreases sperm usefulness but if you wait three days you miss the egg. Every other day is best. I know we know this but it was nice to hear it from a doctor and even better for DH to hear it from a doctor so he knows im not making it up!

ChubbyKitty Fri 06-Sep-13 11:34:00

Zing my cramps have mostly faded now and hopefully that means it will be over soon.

The last one was 30 days long and the doctor had no idea whyshock

cookielove Fri 06-Sep-13 17:39:25

Hello all. Watching stalking you lot from afar! Just like to keep an eye on you lot. Hoping to see some more bfp's soon.

Slyly marking my spot to wink

I guess some of you won't know me but I miss you lot so I like to come here from time to time.

Zing don't use nurofen its bad for ttc. I think it can make you infertile while on it. Only paracetamol!!

I'm 10+1 (eek)

Alohomora Fri 06-Sep-13 17:42:44

I looked up the neurofen thing and the only caveat is not to take it during the last trimester as it can be bad for the foetus, other than that there don't seem to be problems.

dulcet I'd only do it if you're not sure you're icing at all and struggle to dtd regularly. I'm just glad to know there is actually something going on in my downstairs area and that I can trust my bodies signals, I don't think I could keep the stick-peeing up for longer than 1-2 cycles!

fifi669 Fri 06-Sep-13 19:40:20

Is nurofen ibuprofen? You shouldn't use it in the first or third trimesters....

Alohomora Fri 06-Sep-13 19:45:45

fifi Must be one of those things where the advice is mixed, I definitely read several sources that said only the later months are a problem, first trimester it doesn't pose an issue.

FurryScoob Fri 06-Sep-13 20:13:34

Can I be another newbie???

TTC #1 since July 2013
Nearly half way through TWOT but so far no symptoms to spot!

DulcetMoans Fri 06-Sep-13 20:35:36

Thanks alohomora! Think I just feel the urge to do something proactive when really I have done what I can in going to the docs.

This version of the fred needs a BFP but no one seems to be testing. Who is next??

ZingWantsCake Fri 06-Sep-13 20:46:05

no, you shouldn't use nurofen at while pg or bf. not even Lemsip!

but it's ok for AF cramps as I'm definitely not pg!

ZingWantsCake Fri 06-Sep-13 20:51:34

Name: Pizza
TTC #2 since Feb 2013

Name: Zing
Children: yes
TTC since Aug 2013

Name:Curly
off pill since Nov 2012
TTC #1 since Mar 2013

Name: Fox
TTC #1 since Dec 2012

Name: Bearfacedchic
Kinder? Nooooo
Ttc #1 since forever it feels like but actually August 2011. Currently undergoing investigayshons.

Name: AQuarkTooFar
No Kids
Ttc #1 since nov 2012

Name: lil1ady
Dcs: no
TTC: #1 since Nov 12

Name: Fifi669
One DS
TTC#2 since April 13

Name: dulcetmoans
No kids
TTC: march 2012 with break

Name: BroodyTroody
Ttc #1 since Feb 2013

Name: Redshoes56
No kids
TTC: Hmm....May 2012. Also being poked by the FBI (f***ing barren investigation)

Name: minion
Kids: not for the lack of trying
TTC: officially the 1st jan but that's when I was ignorant and thought you get up duffed any time willy nilly, so let's say the 1st may

Name: alohomora
Kids: Two cats and a dog
TTC: This is cycle three

Name: AuntieMaggie
TTC: June 2013

Name: CivicBlue1
Ttc #2 since June 2013
1 dd aged 16

Name: ChubbyKitty
Off pill since April 2013
Ttc since August 2013
No kids

Name: Nessalina
Status: lurker and supporter, former viroid and currently enjoying 1st trimester with DC#1

Name : cookielove
Status: lurker and stalker who likes an eye on viroids for cheering on purposes
also in 1st trimester with DC#1 (?)

Name: FurryScoob
TTC #1 since July 2013

cookielove Fri 06-Sep-13 20:58:01

Yup zing this is my first grin

The nurofen/ibuprofen def can't have in pregnancy.
The midwife told me that at my appointment.

And if I remember correctly on the leaflet it says it can cause infertility while being used but it will be reversed once stopped.

Curly86 Fri 06-Sep-13 21:03:12

I thought there was a synchro pee this week?

I'm sticking with "I don't want a baby" and am testing on Friday 13th as its supposed to be unlucky and hopefully mr sod will turn up with a BFP!

I thought paracetamol was all you good take while pregnant and all the good stuff was off limits

DulcetMoans Fri 06-Sep-13 21:12:37

I love a synchro pee, when's that??

Loving the law of sod approach curly. I tried that a couple months ago by getting wedding dress and buying theatre tickets for next year. Didn't work but I have faith in you!

Going to meet a 4 day old baby tomorrow. It's going to be tough but hoping his cuteness will help me forget my struggle!

CivicBlue1 Fri 06-Sep-13 21:24:24

Think I've been hampering our chances. Been taking naproxen (v strong NSAID) for over a year. Have stopped now so things should get back on track. I take it codeine (as in cocodamol) will be off limits soon too then?

lil1ady Fri 06-Sep-13 21:52:56

hey ladies. nice to see the lurkers smile

I'd give up all the painkillers for a bfp. not that I ever take any. don't believe in masking what my body is trying to tell me unless its incredibly painful.

having a shit time here generally on RL and AF due tomorrow and I reckon she will show some point this weekend.

Bearfacedchic Fri 06-Sep-13 22:13:11

Red, my lovely, so sorry about the results. As someone already said morphology can be helped though. Is the count okay? Make sure Mr Red wears loose underpants, takes men's conception vitamins with selenium and zinc in, don't have hot baths, showers or saunas, and dont wear tight trousers (pants to you). Eat turkey as it has lots of selenium and tomatoes too. Remember any changes you make will take 3 months to show up on a semen analysis test. I hope this helps.

Red- I'm sure there's things they can do about your uterus too. Try not to worry and do stuff to take your mind off it. Shagging seems great! grin Thinking of you thanks

Hi to everyone else and the newbs too. Welcome!

Bearfacedchic Fri 06-Sep-13 22:14:21

Sorry about the shit time Lil. Sending you thanks and wine

fifi669 Sat 07-Sep-13 00:27:47

Hmmmm I often take ibuprofen for headaches etc... Must stock up on paracetamol... Do you have a link about it?

ChubbyKitty Sat 07-Sep-13 02:42:01

Another one here who loves a couple of ibuprofen for AF and headache and backache..

Oops.

Nessalina Sat 07-Sep-13 07:35:30

Ibuprofen is a muscle relaxant and several studies have indicated that it can cause early miscarriage after implantation. Basically it's in the same category as booze - best to avoid from any point in the month that you could be upduffed! But if you're surfing the ERTD then I can't imagine it can do any harm. Paracetamol is always fine. Oddly codeine is ok too for serious owches (I asked my Dr coz I take it for migraine) it doesn't harm the potential baby, you just have to take it sparingly especially in last trimester as your baby can be born addicted to it if you take too much shock

ZingWantsCake Sat 07-Sep-13 08:06:45

nessa
yes, that's what I thought about nurofen - which is just the brand name, generic ibuprofen has the same amount of active ingredients and much cheaper

thanks about the co- codamol info, I didn't know about it being safe in pg! but I know it is safe after birth and while bf as it was my best friend on many occasions in the early days (mastitis, pain from episiotomy, after pains)

<seeks out left over stash and kisses box>

lil1ady Sat 07-Sep-13 11:53:20

so how's this sod. no AF yet but bfn this morning so dh has ordered a home sperm test - no input from me he just did it! come on sod do your worst!

who was it on here that told us about these home sperm test things?

QuarksInAPearTickle Sat 07-Sep-13 13:40:51

Sorry name changed again! Missed Quark too much!

lil sorry about BFN, cone on law if sod! Wake up!

ZingWantsCake Sat 07-Sep-13 13:41:56

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Bearfacedchic Sat 07-Sep-13 14:40:20

Ibuprofen is not good for asthma either in case any if you are asthmatic.

9dpo here and started to get pink streaky cm and twinges this am so guess I'm out. <dive bombs the pity pool- again>

lil1ady Sat 07-Sep-13 16:07:09

Thanks Quark.

loving the flowery unicorn zibg do you think they have an upduffed unicorn on the grads fred?

sorry its not looking good bear keeping fx that its ib for you though. when's Ur next appointment?

lil1ady Sat 07-Sep-13 16:07:39

whites zibg Lol I obv meant zing!

CivicBlue1 Sat 07-Sep-13 17:30:17

nessa thanks for the info on cocodamol, it's good to know I can still take it when I need it.

Alohomora Sat 07-Sep-13 20:04:00

I'm asthmatic and have never had any issue with ibuprofen, but then I don't take painkillers often - it has to be a really bad headache for me to reach for the pills! So overall I'm not too worried about what I take as it's so rare for it to happen.

Pre-Seed is weird - v.v. sticky stuff and smells like Fenistil burn ointment.

fifi669 Sat 07-Sep-13 20:29:31

I was wondering whether preseed might be a good idea, I can't say I've really noticed EWCM....

Bearfacedchic Sun 08-Sep-13 00:24:31

Aloho, it can worsen asthmatic symptoms for some people and in some cases cause anaphylaxis. Apparently you can also experience a reaction even if you e taken it and never had one in the past. But you're right in that you may not notice if you rarely use painkillers anyway. The warnings are on the info leaflet inside the box of ibuprofen though. My doctor also told me about it. A shame because it works wonders on period pains!

lil- HSG is the next thing for me. I have to wait for Ertd then I can get an appointment for it as it has to be gone on certain days. Then our results will be a good couple of months after.

lil1ady Sun 08-Sep-13 12:24:29

Crickey bear why do you have to wait months? that's outrageous!

well AF showed this morning but I'm OK with it. bit confused that my literal phase seems to alternate between 14 and 15 days though. hey ho, onto cycle 9 we go

how's everyone's weekend?

EssieSaysRelax Sun 08-Sep-13 13:23:04

Phew! Found you all. Sorry I've been awol for a few days, had a wall knocked down at home to make kitchen bigger and its been chaos. We are all coated in dust and no matter how much I clean I can't seem to get rid of it all and more keeps settling when I sit down for 5 seconds.

What have I missed? I read to the end of the last fred - bear your emoticons just came out as squares on my lappy! Sob! Haven't read the first 5 pages on here yet though - any bfps???? We are so due one!

Hope everyone is well. xx

juniper81 Sun 08-Sep-13 14:02:24

hello, can I join you. I was frazzles on a thread or so back but I've forgotten my login. About to enter 2ww, can someone remind me what TWOT means...? Thanks! Hope you're all having good weekends. x

name: Juniper
children: no
TTC since: Aug 11 with a year off from Jan 12 due to molar pregnancy

fifi669 Sun 08-Sep-13 14:17:58

Two weeks of torture

ZingWantsCake Sun 08-Sep-13 18:25:07

welcome juniper! I'll add you to roll call later.

DulcetMoans Sun 08-Sep-13 20:40:39

Sounds like a nightmare essie, home improvement though I guess so will be worth it I hope! No BFPs on this Fred from my memory. Is anyone even testing?! It's a new week so surely someone is.

Welcome juniper!

BroodyTroody Sun 08-Sep-13 22:06:34

Deep breath... Did a test this evening and there's a feint line... Bfp?! grin

QuarksInAPearTickle Sun 08-Sep-13 22:10:41

Sound like it! Congrats broody. Do you have another test to do one with fmu tomorrow morning just to be sure? grin

ZingWantsCake Sun 08-Sep-13 22:11:24

<whispers yay>

broody

do one in the morning. urine is far more concentrated so results are clearer.
then let us know please!
<orders flowers>

cookielove Sun 08-Sep-13 22:11:27

Congratulations broody smile

BroodyTroody Sun 08-Sep-13 22:26:26

Oh my goodness...not really sure what to do with myself!!

Thank you grin

I used a cheapie asda test but have got a first response one for the morning!

DulcetMoans Sun 08-Sep-13 22:50:14

Oh that's something to look forward to in the morning!! Make sure to let us know the details too! How long, did you do anything different etc!

lil1ady Sun 08-Sep-13 23:10:11

contrasts broody about time we had another bfp on here. fx this means its a lucky thread again this time!

lil1ady Sun 08-Sep-13 23:10:48

ugh auto correct! I meant congrats not contrasts!

ChubbyKitty Sun 08-Sep-13 23:38:26

Congrats broodysmile

I think I'm finally back in the game after AF but DP is at work at 6 tomorrow so not tonight. Which is a shame.

Redshoes56 Mon 09-Sep-13 05:07:58

Yippee! Congratulations broody - how exciting! Hope it rubs off on the rest of us grin

Thanks, bear, for the encouragement as always! Mr. Red is starting on more vitamins and I think I'll be feeding him more turkey (you learn something new every day). Sorry you have to wait so long for results.

Welcome juniper! And thanks to anyone who needs 'em...especially as the weekend ends and another work week begins. Groan!

BroodyTroody Mon 09-Sep-13 07:39:43

Just checking in to let you all know the test this morning was definite!
I'll come back later to talk more, unfortunately work is calling! grin

DulcetMoans Mon 09-Sep-13 08:48:26

Ignore the work calls Broody, fill us in!! Congrats to you! Are you going to tell anyone??

In other news, I feel awful. I woke up at 4.30am pretty convinced I was going to be sick. Waiting by the toilet for a while, fell asleep in the hall before eventually returning to bed. Woke up feeling much the same. Can't even face my yoghurt for breakfast and the thought of fish for tea is making me feel even sicker. Worst bit is, don't think it can be anything exciting (read: pregnant) as think i'm only icing now. Don't normally get icing sickness.

I may have convinced myself I have an ectopic pregnancy situation going on but trying to tell myself that's just silly!

ZingWantsCake Mon 09-Sep-13 08:57:19

whoop - whoop!!

Congratulations! yay! !!thanks thanks thanks thanks thanks thanks

ZingWantsCake Mon 09-Sep-13 09:01:09

dulcet

why do you think it's an ectopic pg?

see your gp for a blood test - that might confirm if you are pg and book and early scan asap. if it's a false alarm you might feel a bit silly - so what?

if you are right (hopefully not, well I mean the ectopic bit!) you need to know and receive the appropriate care!

DulcetMoans Mon 09-Sep-13 09:08:13

Not sure Zing, just when you get something in your mind it's hard to shift! I am sure it's not. Dr Google doesn't help and I probably wouldn't even know what one was if it wasn't for knowing someone that had it once. I probably just ate something I shouldn't or am allergic to work! lol.

EssieSaysRelax Mon 09-Sep-13 10:11:32

Yay Broody! Congrats! Thank you for restoring the bfp balance! Looking forward to hearing more details!

Dulcet, sorry to hear about your awful night, poor you. Would an ectopic show on a hpt? (Sorry - don't know much anything about these things)

I am cd15, managed to dtd eod at least since about cd 8. Last night I had a bit of pink mucus (sorry tmi I know). No idea if I'm icing, or it's already happened or not as my cycles are a bit up the spout at the moment for some reason. No idea what it all means. My body is a bit weird.

frogchops Mon 09-Sep-13 11:48:49

Just a quick one to say that a blue tadpole arrived on Tuesday night. smile He is a result of half hearted (bordering on reluctant with my DP) just shaggjng so I have every faith that your bfps are on the way. Tadpole bought with him some baby sprinkles :.:.:.:.:.:.:.:.:.:::.:.: wink

EssieSaysRelax Mon 09-Sep-13 11:55:26

oh wow Frog! Amazing news! Many congratulations to you and Mr Frog. Good to know it does work! xx

DulcetMoans Mon 09-Sep-13 12:00:11

Yay frog!! Hope it's all smiles in your house!

Google seems inconclusive on it showing on HPT essie. Sometimes not. I'm sure it's not that though, just being a hyperchondriac! Something is wrong though. I am not coping well at all! Not good for icing time. Got to feel better for later.

pizzaqueen Mon 09-Sep-13 15:34:08

Congratulations Frog and Broody. fab news!!

On hols so not caught up on all the fred. Think af has caught me...the bitch! Been spotting since yesterday. I'm on cd 28 and 11dpo so thats pretty much the same as last cycle so she's bang on time. Really disappointed but didn't feel like this was 'our month' anyway despite peeing three times an hour yesterday afternoon.

My sil is likely to have her third baby in this cycle. Was convinced I would be pg by the time her baby arrived. Her eldest is same age as my ds so feels a little unfair she's had three in the time we've one she's a bit mad if you ask me 3 under 3.

At least it means I can drink gallons of wine on holiday guilt free grin .

BroodyTroody Mon 09-Sep-13 18:58:32

Evening everyone!

Still trying to get my head around it, thank you for your nice wishes!

Congrats Frog!! thanksthanks

I was so convinced AF would arrive yesterday with cramps galore, but apparently not grin

When I'd been using OPKs before, they indicated I was icing around day 16/17/18 so we were JSing lots at that point, but this month we just enjoyed the bank holiday weekend off together (!) days 13/14/15 and it happened!

I haven't had any symptoms, only thing is my gag reflex was very weak today, but that's it, I kinda only did the test to go through the motions, I'd been waiting for Sunday so tested, iyswim?! I totally didn't expect it at all, in fact we're both a bit shell shocked, rabbits in headlights!

Fx for lots of BFPs! thanksthanksbrew

juniper81 Mon 09-Sep-13 20:11:10

congratulations broody, I do find these OPKs and days thing so interesting!

Commiserations pizzaqueen - enjoy your wine.

Thanks for the warm welcome.

dulcet sorry you're worrying about ectopic...after my own experiences I wonder sometimes why I'm trying again, there's so much to worry about. I hope you're feeling better now.

AuntieMaggie Mon 09-Sep-13 20:22:12

Congratulations Broody and Frog.

I'm away with work all week so no chance to dtd... I think I'm due to ovulate this week too so might be another month down the drain sad

AuntieMaggie Mon 09-Sep-13 20:24:56

Oh and Broody I remember someone saying that you have a better chance if the sperm is there before ovulation as the egg doesn't last long so looks like you timed it right smile

Babymamatobe Mon 09-Sep-13 20:26:12

Hi everyone, mind if I join?

I'm new to mums net, I'm 33, on our 2nd cycle and according to mydays app, should be ovulating on Wednesday so it's all systems go!!

Congrats to broody and frog, you must be so excited!!! :-)

ZingWantsCake Mon 09-Sep-13 20:44:12

congrats *Frog and Broody*thanks thanks

welcome newbies! anyone who is not added to roll call yet please PM me with details of:
-name,
-which number of pg you are going for
-TTC since when/which cycle
plus anything else you want to add.

I CBA to read back for details - just PM and I'll add you all tomorrow!smile

(got a fucking cold! got stuck with tissues earlier so the choice was to either stuff some in my knickers quickly so I wouldn't pee myself or sneeze in my hands. I chose the latter.
good thing I was home!grin )

Alohomora Mon 09-Sep-13 20:54:50

dulcet I'm icing today, as in the egg should drop right about now, and I have been feeling awful since yesterday - raised temperature, extreme queasiness, blinding headache, just awful.

How are you supposed to dtd when you feel like used trash?

ZingWantsCake Mon 09-Sep-13 20:58:43

Aloho
poor you. how indeed?

maybe you could remind yourself "some things don't need to be perfect, but only need to be done!"grin

DulcetMoans Mon 09-Sep-13 21:06:17

Thanks all. Just being a drama queen I am sure. I know the aloho, timing couldn't be worse! I've been in bed since 3.30, just crawled out of my pit. Don't think he will DTD with me if I tried! Lol. I'm not at my most attractive and I am so warm he probably wouldn't cope! Not eaten either so I might faint anyway. What a state!

Alohomora Mon 09-Sep-13 22:04:03

dulcet Do you have any herbal tea in the house? Spearmint/Peppermint or Chamomile tea, not too strongly brewed, and if you feel sick because you haven't eaten try some pretzels or dry toast maybe? It might help to settle your stomach.

Bearfacedchic Mon 09-Sep-13 22:10:49

Woo hoo Trood! Well done!

Yay Frog! So happy for you!

Sorry Auntie that you're having a rough time of it. Hope you get some shagging in soon.

Ertd got me today. sad so HSG it is for me next week it looks like. Really annoyingly I have to provide evidence of my appointment to my employer and the only letter I have says it's a HSG on it. Thought I'd google to see what it comes up with and first page said it was performed for investigating sub-fertility. Great! So work is going to find out when I don't want to tell them. hmm

Sorry, moan over.

Hello to Baby and Juniper- welcome!

Hope you get well are upduffed soon Dulcet.

Hope you feel better soon too Aloho.

ZingWantsCake Mon 09-Sep-13 22:22:17

thanks bear
I don't normally advocate stuff like this, but can you pull a sickie?

I think in this case I would. if possible.

Minion Tue 10-Sep-13 00:33:33

Aww congrats broody, best of luck to you and the little bean. It's nice to have a BFP around.
Congrats frog on the safe arrival.

ERTD still hasn't fucked off. She's hung around for the longest cycle yet. A week so far, she's normally only here for 4 days so I'm pissed at the witch. I just don't know what's going on with me. Dr bastard goofle tells me maybe endometriosis, fibroids or PID, either way it makes conceiving even more difficult, I'm upset.

Redshoes56 Tue 10-Sep-13 05:00:49

Oh my gosh, frog, already?! Congratulations! So pleased for you smile!

minion could just be a random "off" cycle, no? Hang in there thanks.

bear that's crap. I'm with zing, maybe you can just call out sick? I did tell my boss what was with all my random doc appointments, but I have worked at my company for 10 years and I trust her. She's been great. But if you aren't ready to share, you shouldn't have to!

DH's FertilAid vitamins came in the mail today, and the company put a tiny plastic zippy pouch of "baby dust" in the box - little moon and star shaped confetti with a little message of good luck. He thought it very sweet, which I thought was hilarious (but also sweet). Cape: on!

FurryScoob Tue 10-Sep-13 08:17:44

Congrats to Broody & Frog

This unicorn must be really lucky where is it, I need to stroke its belly!

GaryBuseysTeeth Tue 10-Sep-13 09:02:25

Congrats Broody!

Red, sorry for the shite news. Arf at the babydust, how sweet of them.
bear, I'd pull a sicky too.

No ertd for me yet, ds2 is 6wks old (didnt start bf). Dh really wants another but not in our current situation. Remind me to win the lottery this week.

DulcetMoans Tue 10-Sep-13 09:16:18

Feeling much better today which is a relief. Sat with some jasmine tea now aloho, does that count??

I advocate the sickie approach too bear, if possible. It's a very personal thing to be TTC and I would hate to have to share with my boss.

Babydust red. That is pretty cute in a sickingly sweet kind of way!

Dr Goofle should have his medical license revoked minion, don't worry about him. He doesn't know what he's talking about!

Alohomora Tue 10-Sep-13 09:39:55

dulcet Glad to hear you're feeling better - I think any kind of tea that feels comforting to you is great! I'm just a bit of a herbal girl.

red Babydust, haha! Does it come with instructions to strew it over the pillows before you dtd? Might poke you, though....

Well, one more day and I'll be officially in the TWOT. I still feel rubbish today and working until 8 today, wish I could call in sick but we're understaffed and I'd feel really guilty. Not that anyone else ever seems to care!

ZingWantsCake Tue 10-Sep-13 13:35:09

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furry here's the unicorn!

ZingWantsCake Tue 10-Sep-13 13:38:06

red aawww at your DH being touched by lovely gesture! that made me well up! bless him!
(can you hug him for me or is that weird? )

Nessalina Tue 10-Sep-13 15:33:09

Congrats Broody! Yay! smile
If it hasn't already been posted THIS is the link to the grads Fred. It's pretty slow moving, so should be that for a while now, lots of time for others to head over too smile
Frustrated on your behalf bear, is there anyway your GP can provide you with a more vague letter to give work? If they're sympathetic they may be able to, it doesn't seem fair that your boss has to know your business!

EssieSaysRelax Tue 10-Sep-13 16:23:07

oh bear that sucks. Can't you blank out the bits you don't want them to see, then you are showing proof, and they must just respect that you aren't comfortable with them knowing your P&C business!

DulcetMoans Tue 10-Sep-13 21:11:48

Midwives on again tonight in UK. Not going to help with annoyance at not being pg yet! Lol.

It's ov time and DTD day though so maybe this month!

Bearfacedchic Tue 10-Sep-13 21:56:47

Hmm. Thing is I'd already told them I would need the time off and roughly when it would be. I now just have to fill in the forms so I can't pull a sickie as they'd know anyway. I think I may call them again and ask for another letter tomorrow. That's a good idea. Thanks guys.

Bearfacedchic Tue 10-Sep-13 21:57:26

Them being the hospital obvs.

Redshoes56 Tue 10-Sep-13 23:31:42

Good luck, bear! I hope that works out for you. What a run-around.

zing I will give him an extra hug but I probably won't tell him it's from a British woman I talk to on the internet about my uterus. grin Yeah, ladies, the "baby dust" was really great. I tucked it away in the bathroom cabinet. Maybe I'll throw it around when we get a BFP. Notice, I said when, not if. Feeling positive today! Gotta stay out of the funk....

FurryScoob Wed 11-Sep-13 08:34:09

Thanks Zing nice to meet the unicorn!

Minion I had the same thing last month ERDT lasted 7days followed by 4 days of spotting, it never seemed to end. Also got a crap diagnosis from Dr Goofle but gonna wait for AF this cycle & if its just as long I'm off to a proper doctor!
Hope it's over for you soon

pizzaqueen Wed 11-Sep-13 08:39:27

welcome furry

minion my af always lasts over a week 3-4 days heavy flow, then it slows down for another few days then another few days spotting. I thought that was normal...is this something else I should go to the doc about? I'm making a list.

FurryScoob Wed 11-Sep-13 09:37:37

Pizza I think everyone's different, if that's normal for you it's probably nothing worry about, it's not normal for me so I scared myself to death with Dr Goofle!

QuarksInAPearTickle Wed 11-Sep-13 13:25:14

Just dropping by to say Congrats Frog!!!! I remember you joining this thread around the same time as me and I can't believe you have a mini tadpole now! All the best to your family! flowers

Hope everyone else is well, I am 1 week away from ERTD/BFP.

EssieSaysRelax Wed 11-Sep-13 13:55:30

Hi everyone.
Can I just say AAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHH!

Thanks. I feel better now. One of my supposed friends, who has always been a bit of a handful is being a total moose and I am so exhausted by her. I just wish I could get my penny crayon pencil case out and erase her! Anyway, I am from this moment on not allowing it to upset me anymore.

JSing has fallen by the wayside the last couple of nights cos DH has a foul cold and I'm afraid I just can't go too close to the snot monster and I definitely don't want to shag him. Poor man.

Hope everyone is having an ok week.

Minion Wed 11-Sep-13 14:17:49

Oh hopefully it's a one off then, could get expensive otherwise!
She's finally packed her bags and flounced off to some other poor unfortunate soul, so I should be getting jiggy with it from now.
Only problem is, will the husband want a threesome or not as I seem to have got a new friend, who won't leave me alone.
Day or night, she's there, making herself known, interrupting my me time, always present but in a different place.
Yesterday morning she's rather annoniyingly moved into the centre of my forehead.
I've never been so spotty!
This month hormones have a shit load to be blamed for.

ZingWantsCake Wed 11-Sep-13 14:18:00

my periods are so weird.
I have 3 days of really heavy bleeding which stops for a day or 2 then restarts with brownish rusty coloured discharge. that normally lasts from 3-5 days.

what is that all about?

and this month was even weirder. I only had proper bleeding for 48 hours then nothing and it came back after 5 days!

it's puzzling and it bothers me. I'm seeing GP tomorrow.

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DulcetMoans Wed 11-Sep-13 18:10:50

Minion - snap! I have a spot that has developed in the middle of my forehead! I had to go to the loos at work this morning to look at it as I just felt it at my desk. Luckily it's not as dark as to be as noticeable as it feels but it's big and I am sure it will be a bugger in a day or so!

I'm probably heading into my TWOT. Does it count as a TWOT if my TWOT is actually like 10 days??

juniper81 Wed 11-Sep-13 18:55:59

dulcet I think the "torture" bit is the operative bit there...no matter how long it lasts!

DulcetMoans Wed 11-Sep-13 20:31:58

It's the right word too juniper! Haha.

DownstairsMixUp Wed 11-Sep-13 20:35:11

Hi guys, I am back, sadly had a blighted ovum and had my erpc yesterday, feeling ok, recovering and def feeling not as obsessive about falling Pg now. How are you all? x

DownstairsMixUp Wed 11-Sep-13 20:35:12

Hi guys, I am back, sadly had a blighted ovum and had my erpc yesterday, feeling ok, recovering and def feeling not as obsessive about falling Pg now. How are you all? x

ZingWantsCake Wed 11-Sep-13 20:55:08

downstairs sad thanks
sorry to hear!

Fox82 Wed 11-Sep-13 21:13:02

Sorry to hear that downstairs thanks I had exactly the same thing and know what mixed emotions it brings. Look after yourself brew

Bearfacedchic Wed 11-Sep-13 22:36:48

Oh Downstairs- I'm so sorry. sad thanks do look after yourself.

So, shaggers, I found out from my research that apparently anything between 2 and 7 days is considered normal for the length of a period. I think though of you've already got kids then there's no need to worry. From mine and my friends' experience though, docs don't seem to be able to tell why some women have longer periods than others. One of my friends had a 28 day period and had hospital tests but they couldn't find out why. My joke of a doctor really helpfully just shrugged her shoulders at me and didnt even offer to investigate. shock I think some women just have longer periods and it's not necessarily anything terrible. I think it's a bit like the 'standard' 30 day cycle/ 14 day luteal phase we're all supposed to have. They do say you should get anything out of the norm checked out though.

Hope everyone is okay. Brrrr- chilly isn't it?

Redshoes56 Thu 12-Sep-13 05:30:55

Very sad to hear that news, Downstairs thankssad

Dulcet TWOT most definitely counts, even if it's 10 days! I am almost glad about my short luteal phase during the TWOT as it means fewer days during which I can obsess.

I am absolutely furious at DH right now. I am bending over backward to make this fertility stuff easy for him, including making an early morning appointment tomorrow to drop off his second sample for semen analysis so he doesn't have to miss any work. This means I am adding an hour to my morning commute, which is already 30-40 minutes, to drive his man juice around town so he doesn't have to. But I don't mind and I certainly didn't complain. So would you believe he gave me a hard time tonight when I reminded him about his task tomorrow? All he has to do is fill a damn cup! Really? All of a sudden he wants to go into work early when all he does normally is bitch about his regular start time? After some heated discussion, he declared that he will do his business "in your cup." MY CUP? Since when is this MY project and MY problem? I know he's super frustrated right now with work and grad school, and is perhaps at his limit, but honestly I could punch him. I guess this is when cavewoman would send her man to the couch, but seeing as he's already snoring up in the bed it seems I'll end up on the couch. Insult, meet injury. angry

Redshoes56 Thu 12-Sep-13 05:33:37

What happened to the sweet man who was throwing literal baby dust around in the kitchen the other night?

OK, I'm done complaining.

Would be reaching for wine if I hadn't already brushed my teeth....

ZingWantsCake Thu 12-Sep-13 06:32:35

oh redthanks

LTB ?grin

DownstairsMixUp Thu 12-Sep-13 09:11:33

Thanks guys, thought I'd say hello, will post back reguarly once the post erpc bleeding stops so i feel a bit more like I'm "in the club" so to speak smile

Minion Thu 12-Sep-13 09:37:48

Hi downstairs
I'm sorry for what your going through and once youre feeling able to, we'll be here waiting with French fancies xxx

ERTD seems to have listened to her mistress and has been beaten into hiding for at least 30 odd days so its back on it. Sadly for me though I'm being shipped off to Cuba in my fertile week so I'll only be able to enjoy humpday the night before I should ice, on the day itself and the morning after as ive also got a wedding to go to.. It only takes once right?
Sigh grumble moan.

But at least the husband is getting on board. Last night out of the blue he asked me why I'd put a pass code on my period app. After looking incredulously at him for a wee moment I asked him if he remembered him telling me he didn't want to know when I was icing the cake so he wouldn't feel too pressured.
Huzzah, he seems to be coming to terms with it now and actually said 'well I want to be ready when you are so I can perform at my best'.
Only took you 9 months love.

ZingWantsCake Thu 12-Sep-13 09:47:00

minion grin @ only took 9 months

EssieSaysRelax Thu 12-Sep-13 12:14:02

flowers Downstairs. I'm so sorry to hear that. We're here for you when you feel up to chatting nonsense. xx

I made that curry last night from the Jamie show earlier this week. YUM! And there is enough left for tonight so I don't have to cook which is a bonus.

Nothing interesting to report, not sure where I am, but probably in the twot, but I have no idea when I iced as no signs. Will have to poas next Weds am because I have my colposcopy appointment (finally) and even though it says its ok to have it done when you are mit bebe they say they do like to know before hand if poss.

DulcetMoans Thu 12-Sep-13 12:52:02

Does pineapple help with implantation?! I just read a comment on another thread that implied it did. I'm off to sainsburys!

Minion - glad he's slowly getting on board. It took a few months for mine to take it seriously and try as appropriate (ie. EOD and in fertile time!) but last week he even came to docs with me so I think he's totally on board now. Takes them longer to realise it might not be as easy as they thought!

pizzaqueen Thu 12-Sep-13 13:59:39

thanks so sorry downstairs. I also had a blighted ovum I June I was 9 weeks but measured 6 with no heartbeat. You will be on a rollercoaster of emotions right now. thanks

Just scaring myself with doc google just now as af was bright orange yesterday, weird!! In process of changing gp but worried about so many cycle related things right now.hmm

DulcetMoans Thu 12-Sep-13 14:10:29

Oh downstairs, I didn't say much before because I wasn't sure I understood what had happened but now I do. So sorry! Hope you're being looked after.

Alohomora Thu 12-Sep-13 18:07:33

Downstairs We'll keep some cake ready for you when you feel ready to come back, big hugs!

Well, I was supposedly icing beginning of the week, we managed to dtd Thursday, Friday, Sunday, Monday and yesterday, so not doing too badly! Will see what happens. Now for TWOT and crazy symptom spotting behaviour.

The whole thing wasn't made easier by lots of house viewings after work, we might have found what we were looking for but can't view it until next Tuesday so it'll be a few more restless nights.

AuntieMaggie Thu 12-Sep-13 18:34:27

Sorry to hear what you're going through downstairs flowers

Well last night I was sick in the night and then this morning brown discharge so who knows what the hell is going on with my body but like zing its not been long since my period.

Did I hear grapefruit helped with conception too dulcet?

fifi669 Thu 12-Sep-13 18:37:22

downstairs sad

CD 10 here, OPKs at the ready, building up to a capeathon....

AuntieMaggie Thu 12-Sep-13 18:55:02

Whats the deal with opks? Are they for one off use like pregnancy tests?

lil1ady Thu 12-Sep-13 18:58:08

downstairs that's utterly shit. take the time you need and come back to us when your ready, or feel free to take over the pity pool! try and focus on something positive, like you know you can conceive. I'm sure you'll catch another egg soon enough and all this will be behind you. hugsthanks

who asked about pineapple.... its the core you need to eat during icing. never tried it myself, I don't eat fruit if I can help it! not heard of grapefruit one tho yuck

ertd has now f'd off so will get back to DTD next week after dh has done his fertility test. had to laugh when I opened the box, reminded me of stuff you had for a school science experiment!

oh and I swear I'm going to punch the next person to ask me if I'm going to have a baby/pregnant! today it was "any news?" whilst hand gesturing a pregnant belly....if I was f*ing pregnant I wouldn't tell you before the scan and by then I'd be shouting it from the rooftops so give me a break and DO ONE WOULD YOU!!!

Rant over, thanks blush

DownstairsMixUp Thu 12-Sep-13 19:56:49

Thanks all, I'll wait untill i test negative on a HPT and I'll be back, maybe a bit quieter than before but I'll be back X

QuarksInAPearTickle Thu 12-Sep-13 21:01:03

Downstairs hugs and flowers for you.

DulcetMoans Thu 12-Sep-13 21:01:17

A little google has told me that pineapple apparently helps implantation so should be eaten in TWOT. Not before ov though as it can create an acidic atmosphere for the spermies. So, I learnt something new today. Nothing about grapefruit though. That can be my next google.

Oh the questions lil, people just don't think. With some people I do debate saying "well actually we have been trying for months" just to see what they say!

Stepawayfromthezebras Thu 12-Sep-13 22:20:22

Zing I've pm'd you with my details - ttc #1 since August - good luck everyone! AF's due in a week, we'd decided we were only going to see what happened if I came off the pill and not have any great expectations but I'm getting broodier and broodier! x

AuntieMaggie Thu 12-Sep-13 22:23:35

Its grapefruit juice - apparently thins the mucus so helps conception. Its also a good source of iron and folate in pregnancy. HOWEVER it messes with some medications so best check that first!

ZingWantsCake Thu 12-Sep-13 22:57:14

step

got it!smile and fx for you.

I've been feeling so sick all day from this bloody cold I thought "hmmm, what if?"
so I just had to POAS - BFN of course, as expected.

I've hardly eaten, because I feel nauseous soon after and feel just exhausted. today made me doubt if we should TTC.sad
we have got kids already after all, so why push our luck?
I'm worried how I would cope with yet another pg.
sorry, probably sounds an unfair thing to whinge about - the last thing I want is to upset any of you in any way.
but I feel really weird now and a bit down about this.
I can't talk to DH, he is away.

lil1ady Fri 13-Sep-13 00:17:03

zing thanks try not to over think everything and just see how you feel once you get over your cold.

trying to decide if I want a baby enough to eat pineapple core....probably adds pineapple to shopping list

Redshoes56 Fri 13-Sep-13 02:25:44

More hugs for you downstairs - we are here when you are ready! thanksbrewcake

Oh zing girl, I agree with lil - see how you are feeling when you aren't sick. Being ill can play tricks on our minds. And you can whinge all you want, no harm, we all do it!

It is the bromelain in the pineapple core that's apparently good for implantation. I am not sure I can start munching on parts of the pineapple I usually throw away! (I do love pineapple, though.) You can buy it as an extract/vitamin too, I think. Maybe that's better. Wash it down with some pineapple juice smile

lil, aren't people dumb and ridiculous and insensitive? I really just don't understand it. Makes me crazy. Next time, say, "No, but we are just having so much fun practicing - last night we did it in <insert embarrassing location here>!" They'll never ask again grin

Sorry for my late-night rant yesterday. He issued a Big Apology this morning and we had make-up sex of the plastic cup variety this morning. Fingers crossed for better results this time....

Curly86 Fri 13-Sep-13 05:03:13

Sorry downstairs cake to you

I've just caught up with the Fred all 4 pages I'd missed!

Was sure I was in with a good chance this month dtd loads, stayed calm tempted fate didn't use contraband, for the last week I've had to get up for a wee about 4am an then I can't get back to sleep I've also had loads of vivid dreams/nightmares! So I catch and dip when I get up for a pee at 4am and..... BFN its officially I'm probably barren! Have decided that come December me and OH with be debt free except mortgage and so we can have lots of spare money and just be a selfish childless couple with extravagant things :-/

I'm straight in the pity pool we are now giving TTC up until the new year :-/ thanks mr sod for naff all

ZingWantsCake Fri 13-Sep-13 07:21:26

oh curly thanks honey, don't say that you are barren, you don't know for sure.. do you?
(makes space in the pity jacuzzi - too cold for pool now!)

have you been to gp or fertility clinic yet? I don't know what to suggest.
is there really no hope?sad

DownstairsMixUp Fri 13-Sep-13 08:40:12

Aww curly don't say that, give it more time, though I remember the frustration of seeing that BFN, weird now I want to see it!

Hope you're all ok ladies, thanks for the flowers and hugs!

DulcetMoans Fri 13-Sep-13 09:02:46

Sorry to hear that curly, although does sound like no ERTD yet? And you know we like to have hope under she gets here!

I agree with the viroids zing, can't make decisions like that when you feel rubbish. You don't know what to think. Give yourself some recovery time first.

Liking the sound of a pity jaccuzzi but selfishly hoping I don't end up there this month!

I had pineapple yesterday and I have some today. Might not be the core but it's something. I don't mind eating the core anyway. Bit hard but it's alright!

ZingWantsCake Fri 13-Sep-13 09:32:00

pineapple with a sprinkling of salt is delish!
and it stops me from having my mouth getting sore (like from eating walnuts)

and I don't know if the core has more bromelain then flesh, but the flesh does have a fair amount - which is why you can't put pineapples in jelly!
it won't set.
the bromelain breaks down the long chains in the structure that normally form to make the jelly set.

thanks for support, you lot are fab!thanks
I'm going to force myself to make some chicken soup.

ZingWantsCake Fri 13-Sep-13 09:38:54

Name: Pizza
TTC #2 since Feb 2013

Name: Zing
Children: yes
TTC since Aug 2013

Name:Curly
off pill since Nov 2012
TTC #1 since Mar 2013

Name: Fox
TTC #1 since Dec 2012

Name: Bearfacedchic
Kinder? Nooooo
Ttc #1 since forever it feels like but actually August 2011. Currently undergoing investigayshons.

Name: AQuarkTooFar
No Kids
Ttc #1 since nov 2012

Name: lil1ady
Dcs: no
TTC: #1 since Nov 12

Name: Fifi669
One DS
TTC#2 since April 13

Name: dulcetmoans
No kids
TTC: march 2012 with break

Name: BroodyTroody
Ttc #1 since Feb 2013

Name: Redshoes56
No kids
TTC: Hmm....May 2012. Also being poked by the FBI (f***ing barren investigation)

Name: minion
Kids: not for the lack of trying
TTC: officially the 1st jan but that's when I was ignorant and thought you get up duffed any time willy nilly, so let's say the 1st may

Name: alohomora
Kids: Two cats and a dog
TTC: This is cycle three

Name: AuntieMaggie
TTC: June 2013

Name: CivicBlue1
Ttc #2 since June 2013
1 dd aged 16

Name: ChubbyKitty
Off pill since April 2013
Ttc since August 2013
No kids

Name: Nessalina
Status: lurker and supporter, former viroid and currently enjoying 1st trimester with DC#1

Name : cookielove
Status: lurker and stalker who likes an eye on viroids for cheering on purposes
also in 1st trimester with DC#1

Name: FurryScoob
TTC #1 since July 2013

Name: Stepawayfromthezebras
TTC #1 Since August 2013

ZingWantsCake Fri 13-Sep-13 09:40:22

just updated roll call to add zebras

anyone else I missed?

I'm at pc today, so can add easily, just post here!smile

fifi669 Fri 13-Sep-13 09:43:13

curly why are you giving up til new year?

DulcetMoans Fri 13-Sep-13 09:44:24

Was it a wedding to attend I think?

Minion Fri 13-Sep-13 09:46:58

Dr Zings science lesson! It's an educational thread this one and I like it!
I hung out with one of my friends who gave birth 3 months ago, yesterday. What an utter joy he was. Very chilled out, babies don't usually like me but this one did, I was amazed. Though to be fair, he'd had his 2nd lot of jabs that day and he was probably very out of it haha,
She said he never sleeps for more than 10 mins a time in the daytime, bloody thing was zonked out.
Said to her she was just trying o garner sympathy haha, she did look tired though poor thing. Her husband isn't being the most helpful at the moment.
It's that which scares the bejesus out of me, the tiredness. I LOVE sleep. Aside from baking it's what I do best. If there was a gold medal in the Olympics for sleeping, I'd win for team GB every time...
Gawd knows what a baby will do to me...

cookielove Fri 13-Sep-13 09:56:06

dulcet the wedding thing was me ..... brother getting married in june in America had to get pregnant before September or give up till the new year.

Unless there are two wedding's hindering people's pregnancy wants. Snap smile

ZingWantsCake Fri 13-Sep-13 10:04:18

minion

grin @ Dr.Zing!

I think prof. Zing would suit me better!wink <puts on fake beard, glasses and lab coat>

I actually have a lab coat!

lil1ady Fri 13-Sep-13 12:22:52

grin prof zing science extrodinaire and mascot of the thread. love it!

I'm thinking I could juice the pineapple core, would that work?

just stocked up on pregnacare for both of us. 3 for 2 in Tesco.

curly it sounds like you may need a gentle hooya? deep breath girl. its shit but we will all get there in time. don't forget there is only a 20% chance each month even if you time everything perfectly. why are you taking a break until new year? hugs to you thanks

ZingWantsCake Fri 13-Sep-13 12:27:28

<searches extensive actual library, wriggles glasses on nose, strokes beard>

AHA! I found the answer in my fantastic book about pineapple cores. of course, where else?!

yes, my dear lil, you may puree or juice thine pineapple core!

in other words, why the fuck not? grin

DulcetMoans Fri 13-Sep-13 13:44:53

Smugly eating my pineapple as I type. Not easy with only two hands!

Knew there was a wedding on here somewhere cookie. Selfish buggers these relatives are!

QuarksInAPearTickle Fri 13-Sep-13 14:02:29

We too shall be giving up the JSing for two months if it doesn't happen this time. Don't want to be popping a sprog out on the day of my SIL wedding!

I have four days to go until ERTD/BFP and im keeping my fingers crossed! Breadsticks are giving me the right gip.....

Alohomora Fri 13-Sep-13 15:11:56

dons her cozzie and joins you all in the pity jacuzzi

curly I'm having the same thing, lots of weeing, tossing and turning with vivid and disturbing dreams, the other night I was only half dozing because I had such a sore boob... I'm not getting my hopes up, it's probably just stress.

My manager is retiring and I know her position will be advertised, I am really torn now about applying - the job environment is a big aggravating and I'm really looking forward to going part time and working freelance from home, but I know I'll get pressure from my mom if I don't. I just don't know what's the right thing to do atm...

DulcetMoans Fri 13-Sep-13 15:44:19

Ok, is anyone a runner on here? Not that i'm a runner as such but I do run. Well jog. Anyway, I have an exercise/cm related question that google isn't proving very helpful for.

alohomora, I am sure you will get lots of different advice about this but here's my opinion - don't go for a job you don't really want. If you get it then you will be stuck doing a job you don't enjoy and if you don't you have had the stress of an application and job internviews for nothing. I have had a few opportunities to move up a grade here but I an not going to do it for a job I know I won't like. I am happy staying where I am being paid ess to do something I don't hate! Also, where the decision won't negatively affect your entitlements, don't let TTC make the decision for you. If an opportunity had come up when I first started, and I wanted it, and I didin't because of TTC then I would have missed out for nothing cos I could have been in the job nearly 18 months without getting pregnant and it wouldn't have matter. (if that makes sense!)

EssieSaysRelax Fri 13-Sep-13 16:08:25

Just adding myself as I forgot to pm you zing - hope you are feeling a bit better?

Name: Pizza
TTC #2 since Feb 2013

Name: Zing
Children: yes
TTC since Aug 2013

Name:Curly
off pill since Nov 2012
TTC #1 since Mar 2013

Name: Fox
TTC #1 since Dec 2012

Name: Bearfacedchic
Kinder? Nooooo
Ttc #1 since forever it feels like but actually August 2011. Currently undergoing investigayshons.

Name: AQuarkTooFar
No Kids
Ttc #1 since nov 2012

Name: lil1ady
Dcs: no
TTC: #1 since Nov 12

Name: Fifi669
One DS
TTC#2 since April 13

Name: dulcetmoans
No kids
TTC: march 2012 with break

Name: BroodyTroody
Ttc #1 since Feb 2013

Name: Redshoes56
No kids
TTC: Hmm....May 2012. Also being poked by the FBI (f***ing barren investigation)

Name: minion
Kids: not for the lack of trying
TTC: officially the 1st jan but that's when I was ignorant and thought you get up duffed any time willy nilly, so let's say the 1st may

Name: alohomora
Kids: Two cats and a dog
TTC: This is cycle three

Name: AuntieMaggie
TTC: June 2013

Name: CivicBlue1
Ttc #2 since June 2013
1 dd aged 16

Name: ChubbyKitty
Off pill since April 2013
Ttc since August 2013
No kids

Name: Nessalina
Status: lurker and supporter, former viroid and currently enjoying 1st trimester with DC#1

Name : cookielove
Status: lurker and stalker who likes an eye on viroids for cheering on purposes
also in 1st trimester with DC#1

Name: FurryScoob
TTC #1 since July 2013

Name: Stepawayfromthezebras
TTC #1 Since August 2013

Name: Essie
TTC #1 since Dec 2012, cycle 10

I am actually traumatised. I went to go to the (unisex - nuff said) loo at work and one of the blokes was on the bog and hadn't locked the door and I bowled in needing a wee. Etched onto my retinas now is the image of him on said bog with one hand down his doodah and the other scrolling through his mobile phone. Thank you for that mate! Just what I needed. Yuk.

ZingWantsCake Fri 13-Sep-13 16:36:30
Alohomora Fri 13-Sep-13 16:42:41

essie I just shrieked with laughter, I am so sorry, you will never be able to unsee that!

dulcet Thanks for the advise, I am leaning the same way, but I'll have to digest the whole situation a bit.

DulcetMoans Fri 13-Sep-13 16:43:38

Isn't quinoa something you eat??

That's awful essie! Why are there unisex toilets anyway?!? Men are too proud of their bodily functions!

ZingWantsCake Fri 13-Sep-13 16:46:16

Dulcet

yes it is a grain

but click on link, it's a good 'un

DulcetMoans Fri 13-Sep-13 16:54:34

Oh, I did click! Just was sure I had seen that word before. Some of those children look irritating, is that wrong to say? haha! Loving the comments with the pictures though.

pizzaqueen Fri 13-Sep-13 16:55:13

hi viriods!

back from holiday and going on a health kick, cutting down on caffine and aiming to eat better and get mkre active to lose weight. DP wants to too so hopefully we can keep each other on track. Really let myself go healthwise recently.

essie that's hilarious, your poor eyes, but poor guy caught in the act!

Sorry to hear so many of you are in the pity pool. DP and I had a row last night too, se recurrent thing aboyr his temper with DS. Beginning to wonder if bringing a baby into the mix is the right thing, dp is easily stressed out I think he's depressed.

FurryScoob Fri 13-Sep-13 20:36:47

Professor Zing do kiwi fruit have the same effect as pineapple core? They stop jelly setting & there must be some good reason to eat the stupid furry fruit!

AF's due Sunday so sod eating fruit, I'm stocking up on chocolate & vodka smile

ProfessorZing Fri 13-Sep-13 20:50:34

Good evening Viroids, this is your professor is speaking.

I'm allergic to kiwi fruits, therefore they are dead to me.

Once we were seriously considering to relocate to NZ for 2 years (job opportunity for DH) and I had planned to wear a t-shirt with the print: "I hate kiwis!" grin

Now, if you'll excuse me, I must retire to my study, but I'll ensure that my assistant Zing will do some related research and provide you with an answer.

ChocChaffinch Fri 13-Sep-13 21:39:09

hey viroids, just checking in, having a nose about
congrats BroodyTrudy!

good to see you all still shagging grin
<<sprinkles babymaking dust around the thread>>>

so Mrs Zing - nice to see you're TTC now! you began as our general wellwisher grin
best of luck to you all

QuarksInAPearTickle Fri 13-Sep-13 22:40:31

An feck the witch is here, the spotting has started, she is four days early!

That will be us on our two month break From ttc then.sad

<flounces off to pity pool>

ZingWantsCake Fri 13-Sep-13 22:44:35

Quarks jacuzzi, it's pity jacuzzi now! grin

sorry to hear though thanks how disappointing!

I think you should carry on JSing on the assumption that Sod's law works really well..wink

QuarksInAPearTickle Fri 13-Sep-13 22:51:27

Ah cool a jacuzzi - perfect.

I really don't want to risk giving birth around sil wedding so will defo be having 2 m

QuarksInAPearTickle Fri 13-Sep-13 22:52:14

.....months off. We will use 2 months to lose weight and get healthier, both me and Dh!

ZingWantsCake Fri 13-Sep-13 22:57:56

good plan. I was only teasing you, sorry

I bought the 2Conception" tablets from the Pregnacare range. I think I'm getting old and run down and some extra vitamins & minerals will do me good.

QuarksInAPearTickle Fri 13-Sep-13 23:05:52

Sorry zing I didn't mean to sound so snappy, ah ttc is just not as simple as I thought it would be.

Maybe law of Sod might be worth a shot!

ZingWantsCake Fri 13-Sep-13 23:12:12

quarks you can be as snappy as you like with me, remember I'm also a mascot, I'm trained for all emergencies! grin

(hugs)

Redshoes56 Sat 14-Sep-13 02:11:41

I'm getting in the pity jacuzzi, too, so scoot over. DH's repeat semen analysis was just as dire as the first. 0 percent morphology. Follow-up consult with the doctor on Sept. 23. I am fairly certain she'll recommend IVF with ICSI, where they inject hand-selected sperm into the egg(s) direct. I'll be relieved once I have final answers and can actually make decisions. Right now I want to scream. There are horrible human beings who leave newborns in dumpsters. Meanwhile, here I am. Here we all are, shagging up a storm and yet suffering with ERTD and the like! [unfair face] wine

DulcetMoans Sat 14-Sep-13 07:22:55

Oh red, sorry to hear that. I guess you are getting closer to answers but still not easy to take. Hope the consultant appointment goes well anyway. Out of interest, how does DH feel about it? Mine has his SA next weekend (ish - need to book it but only want to do it when he's no use to me!) and I do wonder how he will feel if it does come back with issues.

Your two month plan sounds good quark. At least, even though you are having a break, you are doing something proactive towards TTC. Get planning and the 2months will go really quickly!

Curly86 Sat 14-Sep-13 07:40:15

Sorry ladies a hooya is well needed! We're giving up because OH is a prick and doesn't want a baby that's born June, July, August as he says they will be the youngest in the year when they go to school, he has banned dtd, also he's having an op to replace his shoulder and that's a couple of days after we get married so I'm guessing all bets will be off til the new year, still no ERTD here, and boobs have stopped being sore, I think I'm just gona buy another cat :-)

DulcetMoans Sat 14-Sep-13 08:53:56

Oh curly, my DH had that exact same thing last year. Thought being youngest in the year would mean they would struggle - like it's that simple! Plus, I'm an August baby so how bloody rude! Anyway, he has given that up this year. I think that was back when he thought it would be easier to get of than it has proved to be...

fifi669 Sat 14-Sep-13 10:19:14

curly the thought had crossed our mind too, but this TTC business is too hard to be messing about with! The only month we don't want is December as its DS's birthday and obviously Christmas

ZingWantsCake Sat 14-Sep-13 10:55:53

Curly Tell him he has mortally insulted me. (grin )
I was born end of Aug and I'm very smart and confident and won several competitions beating much older kids.
being the youngest in the class is fab.

our 2 oldest are both July, my eldest was year 7 last year and top of his class and both well above average in most subject!

(can I punch him?)

thanks thanks thanks thanks thanks thanks he is BVU!

DownstairsMixUp Sat 14-Sep-13 12:21:25

Defo being unreasonable curly my bro is one of the youngest and got straight as and a* in his gcse's! I was a september born and still did ok, but not as well as him! Means nothing!

Sending big hugs to you redshoes

ZingWantsCake Sat 14-Sep-13 13:10:46

red missed your post blush

so sorry to hear. you are right, completely unfair. sad

it makes my blood boil when people mope about "gender disappointment"!angry
I want to bang their heads against the wall on behalf of all the couples who have had MC or had stillborn babies or neonatal deaths or lost children in any other tragic ways or are infertile or struggling to conceive or whatever....

I want to throw grips at them and scream in their faces that as long as your child is breathing you have nothing to be disappointed about!
stupid miserable idiotic twats!
I am sympathetic towards so many things but that one I will never get despite the fact that I had a 3-day "oh, but I wished for a girl" when DS3 was born, which I later put down to the shock of him being born so quickly I had an adrenaline tsunami that left me shaking for days

rant over

as you were

Stepawayfromthezebras Sat 14-Sep-13 14:11:09

Curly86 I'm another August baby who did well at school - all A's and A*'s - he's being a dope!

Redshoes56 Sat 14-Sep-13 17:42:47

Big hooya to Mr. Curly! I am a June baby and proud of it. Then again, in the States, the age cutoff is somewhere around October/November, so those kid were always the youngest in class. It only mattered in college, when everyone was 18 except for those few fall-birthday kids who were 17 and couldn't get into 18-and-over places. Nothing a fake ID can't fix grin

I'm right with you on that rant, zing!

Alohomora Sat 14-Sep-13 19:11:17

zing DH and I agree that while we'd love a girl we are just as thrilled if we get a wonderful boy or two.

I think it's ok to have a preference, but to actually be disappointed? confused Not ok. I've had aunties say "Oh, I'm glad XY is having a girl, it's much more fun to shop for girl's baby clothes".

WTF?

ZingWantsCake Sat 14-Sep-13 19:23:15

alohomora

exactly, preference is normal, and there could be so many reasons!
with DS1 I was hoping for a boy.

but to actually feel and be miserable or even "mourn" for months and years, like your life has ended just because you had yet another of the same is just...I don't know what that is.

EssieSaysRelax Sat 14-Sep-13 19:46:59

Just when I thought I was over the guy on the bog trauma the same frigging thing happened today! With a total randomer in an andy loo at an event! Ffs! What's the matter with me! I'm having bad bog luck!

red sorry to hear your latest. sad how rubbish. The only good thing I can think though is that at least you know now. flowers for you.

zing I'm with you on that rant. Can't even begin to imagine what goes through some people's heads, the long term effect they can have on that child by being disappointed from the moment they turn up in the world is immeasurable.

curly another one here, my DH is an early August baby and got all a's and a degree in economics, my bro is a June baby and got a first degree. Being the youngest in academic year almost seems to be an advantage!?

Viroids. I'm a bit worried. Got brown spotting and its been going on a bit this cycle. Cd20 now. We've jsed pretty much every day bar the odd day which is the first cycle we've managed this, but I've had brown spotting, since about day 10. Not really sure what's going on as its not normal for me. Sorry for tmi. Any words of wisdom before I trot off down the docs for some routine patronising?

Redshoes56 Sat 14-Sep-13 20:04:26

Totally agree aloho. And frankly, I think the boy clothes in the stores the past few years are as cute if not cuter than the girlie outfits!

Alohomora Sat 14-Sep-13 20:32:18

Talking of long term effects, I remember standing in the hallway of our house when I was ten and my dad had come home from the hospital where my mom had given birth to take me to her. Gran came down the stairs and asked "And, what is it?" and he answered "It's a son and heir."

To this day I remember standing there thinking, what am I, chopped liver?

ZingWantsCake Sat 14-Sep-13 22:13:54

aloho sad

ZingWantsCake Sat 14-Sep-13 22:15:50
Alohomora Sat 14-Sep-13 22:17:24

Zing I know! My dad's a right case, anyway, but it still hurt and I remember it.

Whinge. I'm in private parts pain tonight, so I'm not in the bed mood anyway!

lil1ady Sat 14-Sep-13 23:15:05

wow so much to catch up on!

sorry you had more rubbish news red thinking of youthanks

sorry to those having to hold off for a couple of months too. my bff from school is getting married next July so if we don't get pg this month next month would clash with her wedding. I am her maid of honour and I have no intention of stopping TTC. if I get upduffed that month I'll deal with it then. I'd be happy to step down as moh if it meant sod brought me my bfp! Originally I considered stopping but dh and I talked about it and decided not to. i understand how you feel and perhaps I'm selfish, but I think sometimes you have to be. would they put off their dreams for you? my bff wouldn't

the whole youngest in year group is one I thought about too before we were TTC. now I couldn't care less if my bfp was due Xmas day. yeah it would suck but not as much as being bfpless! and pleased to hear the theories on youngest in year group are bollox!

cd7 here. should be starting EOD tomorrow but dh needs to abstain for 3 days had been more the 10 so had to "reset the clock" yesterday! so will have to start after he dies his hft on Monday, grrr!

Bearfacedchic Sat 14-Sep-13 23:55:48

Red- I'm with you all the way and F off to anyone who says, 'Well, life's not fair.' I find only people who have never had any kind of hardship tend to resort to that one. thanks hopefully you can get going with treatment soon though and get your plans underway.

C

Bearfacedchic Sun 15-Sep-13 00:00:22

Argh- hadn't finished.

Congrats Trood! smile

Some twat has just started letting off fireworks down our road. angry

Personally, I wouldn't put off Ttc and would just buy a bigger/different dress at the time. I don't think that's selfish though. It's so difficult to get upduffed for some of us that I'd take every chance you can. But that's just how I feel about it.

Hope you're all well.

lil1ady Sun 15-Sep-13 09:30:32

why is it my never horny dh is like a randy kid when he isn't allowed to DTD?! I may have to ban sex around icing instead of insisting on it!

DulcetMoans Sun 15-Sep-13 16:34:14

I read a piece of research that followed the amount of tips strippers received over a month. Apparently it was about $40 a night average but over the time she was ovulating it went up to about $70 a night. Men are meant to find us more attractive when ovulating so I can't explain why it's not what happens when we need it too.

AuntieMaggie Sun 15-Sep-13 17:46:49

lil my usually pesky randy won't leave me alone dp is never in the mood these days when he needs to be! how we are going to conceive I don't know!

Curly86 Sun 15-Sep-13 23:53:27

OH is a dick sometimes, I'm sure if we had an "oops" he would be over the moon, OH doesn't have a preference on gender; and to be honest I don't think month you were born in has anything to do with intelligence that's comes from home and nurturing

EssieSaysRelax Mon 16-Sep-13 09:09:49

On the topic of pausing ttc due to weddings etc. I'm with bear and I don't think I'd stop either. My best friend was meant to be my bmaid and got upduff and had her baby 4 days before my wedding, she still made it to the wedding too! grin Mil and Fil have just booked us all a family hol next July so all being well I'll be upduff in the next few weeks which will coincide nicely. <welcomes law of sod to strike me at any time>

I've got my colposcopy on Weds am, the one which has been put off about 20 times this year because of various balls ups. Absolutely terrified about it and trying to put on a brave face is exhausting isn't it.

Whats everyone up to this week? Anything exciting?

EssieSaysRelax Mon 16-Sep-13 09:13:25

Maggie, my dh and I seem to have gotten into a pattern when he is up for it when I'm not and vice versa. V annoying, though this cycle we have done better. He also seems to manage to pick up sporting injuries, or be away with work whenever I am icing too. None of which is very helpful! He also claims to have absolutely no idea when I am icing and reckons there is no subliminal message thing going on.

lil1ady Mon 16-Sep-13 09:18:15

just hit up Dr goofle to find out what a colposcopy is Essie I would also be terrified. but try and not think about it. I always get myself worked up about my smears and when I get there its like that wasn't worth all the fuss! NHS site says its painless. they also say you could take a paracetamol before but not to take aspirin or ibuprofen...just wanted to share in case u didn't know that.

I'm having my water leak fixed today smile

EssieSaysRelax Mon 16-Sep-13 09:36:39

Thanks Lil, this'll be my 4th colposcopy. I ought to get a badge to sew onto something for this one surely?! I had an abnormal smear 2 years ago and had two rounds of treatment to remove bad cells. This is my follow up to check it worked. Hence why I am petrified cos I'm scared it'll be back. Colp actually doesn't hurt. It's pretty nasty, the injections in the foof are the worst bit but none of it was as bad as I thought even when they burn away the cervix (sorry tmi for anyone eating their shreddies).

Good luck with your water leak! My Mum had a monstor one at the weekend which came through the ceiling through the light fittings. High drama.

SoMuchFruit Mon 16-Sep-13 10:46:59

Hello Ladies,

Thought I would ask on here about frequency of DTD - seemed the best thread to ask on. I am cycle 3 ttc#2 and don't (yet, at least) want to temp/chart or use OPK's.

I have an irregular cycle (27-34 days) and not totally sure when I ovulate. DH & I have a plan of every 2nd day until the days when the calendar says I 'should' be ovulating for all the various cycle lengths then DTD every day.

I've read a million differing views on whether it's better to DTD every day or every 2nd day. Now I am worrying we'll be doing it too much!

What are the 'Only Shagging' views on this - is every day for 3/4 days bad ?

ZingWantsCake Mon 16-Sep-13 11:07:23

morning all. just been to gp about my odd periods

I need to see her again so she can take swabs (double app).
and she is booking me in for an abdominal scan to check there are no cysts or anything else.

hope you are all ok, will read fred back later - gotta go, DD got herself stuck in the dishwasher rack. grin

EssieSaysRelax Mon 16-Sep-13 11:26:52

Hi fruit, welcome!

I'm not really the best person to advise as there are much more knowledgable viroids about who I am sure will be along soon to help. I just wanted to say hi though.

Well done for going to gp zing, hope you get referral soon. Is it wrong to lol at your DD stuck in the dishwasher rack?!! Hope she is ok!

SoMuchFruit Mon 16-Sep-13 11:32:15

Thanks Essie smile Just admitting to the other ttc#2 people (on the other thread) that I think the obsession is getting to me already.. hence the probably insane questioning here. Sorry in advance.

Sorry Zing, I also might have laughed at your poor DD being in the dishwasher rack ..hope she's ok!

SoMuchFruit Mon 16-Sep-13 11:33:11

Essie - just reading about the colposcopy. Blimey. You are brave!

QuarksInAPearTickle Mon 16-Sep-13 12:23:27

Afternoon all!

Essie good luck for your colposcopy, hope your results come back all ok.

Zing hope you have manage to rescue your DD grin!

Welcome Fruit I would personally go for EOD but for no scientific reason. I too have varying cycle lengths but they are mainly 34 days. I start EOD on CD10 and keep going for a couple days after my app says I have ovulated. Don't listen to me though I have done that for the last two months and the ERTD from hell is taking over my body right now!

Don't know if any of you saw my thread on whether to give up ttc this cycle so I didn't have a due date a week before SIL's wedding. Well me and DH have changed our minds and we hare just going to carry on as before. come on law of sod do your worst!

ZingWantsCake Mon 16-Sep-13 12:30:37

oh yes, you should absolutely laugh at that.
I did!grin

EssieSaysRelax Mon 16-Sep-13 13:17:17

My bro lives on a ski resort in Canada and we skyped last night, he wants me and DH to book to go out and ski with him early next year. I said to DH I didn't want to as couldn't justify cost (not to mention I'm a crap skier and they are both really good!), but suggested he went without me, but perhaps I should book it and hope it's another thing to tempt sod and his law? It could get expensive this sod tempting!

Colposcopy really isn't that bad, incase anyone on here ever needs it, though I hope that is never the case. The bit that terrifies me is what they will find. It's silly really, I've had all the treatment and the bad bits removed, but actually I'm more terrified now than I was when they first found the abnormal cells.

As far as frequency of DTD goes though, I agree with Quark and tend to try and do EOD at least from day 10 til a good few days after I think I've ovved. My cycle ranges from 26-33 days so I try to cover all bases. However I am on cycle 11 and it hasn't worked yet, but I'm holding out til cycle 13 before I start getting scientific and let DH do a frigging spreadsheet.

DulcetMoans Mon 16-Sep-13 14:13:43

Essie - I am intrigued to know what would go on the spreadsheet!!

So I had the Internet man round today. Gave me a very helpful slot of 1-6pm making me stranded in my house. He did turn up early which I was grateful for but he cut off the Internet just as I was posting earlier. Worse still... It's not broken and I am TV and Internetless. It's so quiet!

EssieSaysRelax Mon 16-Sep-13 14:45:03

I dread to think, but he is a ssheet geek, you should have seen the one for our wedding and our house purchase! Gah!

Scary how hard it is to live without he internet isn't it!

AuntieMaggie Mon 16-Sep-13 19:53:53

Well after an easy month last month my ovulation symptoms are back in full force... it hurts to walk and my stomach has swollen immensely in the past couple of hours so I look pregnant. I swear if anyone at work asks if I am...

I'm going to go home and insist dp gives it to me (no matter how much it hurts)!

AuntieMaggie Mon 16-Sep-13 19:55:17

Essie I keep trying to keep track oy cycle but I'm failing miserably so may have to try a ss!

QuarksInAPearTickle Mon 16-Sep-13 20:33:17

I do love a spreadsheet, I am the as queen at work, but I have not done a ttc one. Thinks its because I have my app to track it though!

Happy JSing maggie

Hooyas self, googling maternity wedding guest outfits is just mic necessary!

QuarksInAPearTickle Mon 16-Sep-13 20:34:06

Ss queen not as Queen! Oops!

AuntieMaggie Mon 16-Sep-13 21:39:18

I use ss for everything at work too quark and minitab... Now I'm wondering if I should control chart my attempts at conception... weirdo

lil1ady Tue 17-Sep-13 00:32:47

ahh the ss thing has me laughing. bit of a joke about some types of ppl dh encounters in his job who control everything by ss but have no flexibility to them, not that any of you are like that, it just reminded me of how annoyed he gets!

well dh did his fertility test today. was absolutely hilarious watching him try to jizz into a funnel but his swimmers passed, so there are plenty of them and they can swim. let's hope they aren't all useless morphology wise. going to do the second test after icing just to be sure.

forgot who was going to stop TTC for a wedding but changed there mind, was it quark? on phone so can't scroll back. anyway whoever it was good to hear you changed your mind, bring it on sod!

I've been reading up on the pineapple. apparently you eat a fifth of a pineapple/core on 1dpo-5dpo...very specific and yet changes to your diet don't impact your fertility for 3months? go figure! any pearls of wisdom there prof zing? grin

hope you got your using in Maggie

lil1ady Tue 17-Sep-13 00:33:08

using? ha! obv meant js ing!

ZingWantsCake Tue 17-Sep-13 01:31:13

lil

prof Zing is shaking his head, never heard of this...

DulcetMoans Tue 17-Sep-13 09:14:12

Good on you for not giving up TTC as well quark. I know it's not always that straight forward but you can't give up on your life because of other peoples. I got married last month with two pregnant bridesmaids and I wasn't annoyed in the slightest. Just because I am getting married doesn't mean their plans just stop. One was only two weeks off. Then she had the baby on a Tuesday and went to a wedding on the Sunday with little one in tow. Whether heavily pregnant or with new born child you can make it work.

4 days to go... must not symptom spot!!

EssieSaysRelax Tue 17-Sep-13 09:55:05

Well I'm afraid my DH is one of those ssheet nerds, but he has to analyse hundreds of thousands of figures every day. I don't know how he does it I'd go mad, but then he is way more patient with IT equipment than I am!

Had my awful recurring dream last night that DH had turned into my father. Quite hilarious really once I've woken up properly and recovered from the trauma because they are exact opposites, but a shrink would have a field day with that one!

I've got to poas tomorrow morning, due to it being my colp appointment. Not sure where I am though, could be anything from 5-11dpo. Not poas in ages as ERTD has arrived before I've got that far last couple of times. Brown spotting has stopped so wondering if it was something to do with ovving this cycle? Who knows. Thanks for all the colposcopy well wishes though. I will report back!

AuntieMaggie Tue 17-Sep-13 13:35:53

DP wasnt in the mood :-( I told him to man up but it didnt help...

Redshoes56 Tue 17-Sep-13 15:59:57

Hello spreadsheet queens and pineapple eaters! Sending virtual strength to those in the TWOT - stay away from the symptom spotting (I say this partly because I am trying to convince myself that, no, my sense of smell is not heightened and, no, it's not suspicious cramping but probably just gas).

So, you shaggers will appreciate this. Last night a woman who sings in choir with me waves wildly for my attention across the whole back row of altos, and proceeds to whisper to me mid-rehearsal: "Are you pregnant?"

Now. First of all: I am not a slim girl. But I really didn't think I looked quite that bad (considered burning my outfit when I got home). Secondly: Who the f*ck asks that?! Unless a woman is in the hospital, in labor, you don't ask her if she's pregnant. Actually, even then, you should keep your mouth shut - better safe than sorry. That was truly the definition of adding insult to injury. I think she means well but is just so socially awkward that she can't help herself. She obviously knows nothing about our struggles to conceive. Still, that should be even more reason for her to keep her mouth shut. Not her business! Mortified. I kind of both smiled and shot her the look-of-death, and mouthed back, "No." We were mid-rehearsal! I didn't know what else to do.

What is wrong with people?!

Redshoes56 Tue 17-Sep-13 16:01:18

Essie do let us know how the colposcopy goes!

AuntieMaggie Tue 17-Sep-13 16:16:06

Oh no Red - how rude angry

DPs GTA has arrived - I'm holding it ransom and have sent him snapchat pics to that effect... I said he could have it after we have sex... his response....FFS!

Redshoes56 Tue 17-Sep-13 16:42:43

Well played, auntie!

pizzaqueen Tue 17-Sep-13 16:51:07

auntmaggie I like your style!

red oh ffs what a cow. Some people don't know just to keep theie mouths shut. Im not slim and carry most of my extra weight round my middle I'm always worried people will think I'm pregnant and say something awkward and hurtful.

essie let us know how it goes.

Cd8 here so just getting ready to get the cape on. Although things still not great between me and dp. Taking evening primrose this month until icing to try to help get some ewcm. Not sure how long it will take to work.

EssieSaysRelax Tue 17-Sep-13 16:51:17

Maggie whats a GTA?

OMG Red, whats the flipping matter with people? Sorry you had to deal with that, was she mortified too? Or was she oblivious? But yes, the rule is definitely that you NEVER ask someone if they are up the duff, protocol is that you wait to be told!

I need some help re my Mother. I am at the stage now where I feel I should tell her whats going on cos she thinks I am being careless and wasting my fertile years by not ttc and she's convinced I will leave it too late. I can't bear to tell her we are ttc, cos she will become obsessed, but at the same time I want to put her straight when she tries to lecture me and I also want to avoid having to have the 'don't leave it much longer' convo again cos it's painful.

Stepawayfromthezebras Tue 17-Sep-13 16:54:21

Red - nobody the f*ck should ask that - how rude!!

AF's due tomorrow, and I went out for lunch with DP today and ate too much greasy food. I'm now trying to convince myself that the queasiness is due to early symptoms rather than just the fact that I'm a glutton.

AuntieMaggie Tue 17-Sep-13 17:45:12

Essie the latest grand theft auto game... if it works I can see a theme...

AuntieMaggie Tue 17-Sep-13 17:48:46

Btw do you stay laid down for a while after dtd or get up? I always worry if I get up too quick all the sperm will come out...

Redshoes56 Tue 17-Sep-13 17:57:19

Essie I think she was equal parts oblivious and mortified. She was mortified to be wrong and to have essentially called me fat, but oblivious to why asking me at all - nevermind in front of the alto section mid-song - was inappropriate!

I am in the same boat re: telling family. I haven't told my mom yet because I didn't want her to get her hopes up just in case (and considering the long road we are on, it was the right choice - she'd be totally upset for us). She really is wonderful when it comes to letting me live my life and would probably never bring my ticking clock up to me, but because we haven't had a conversation, she's gone and made the assumption that I have no interest in having a family. She has even told other relatives that "they're not going to have kids". Once again - what the f*ck? (That's my mantra today.)

I was planning on just telling her "Oh, P.S. we're pregnant" when it does happen. But if the diagnosis is that I need surgery or that we are going to do an IVF cycle, that's pretty significant information we should probably share with our parents. So I'll fess up, and I'll encourage you to do the same. smile

DulcetMoans Tue 17-Sep-13 18:38:57

Oh my God red, that's so awful! Someone could be about to drop but I wouldn't bring it up unless they do. I'd hate to be the person asking, let alone being asked! So many women carry their weight around their middles, it's nature. Just never ask!!

Excellent idea re GTA maggie, can you hide it every o we day to get him on schedule!

I've considered when to share the challenges of TTC as well. I have maintained that I don't want kids for years, even though that changed aggggeeessss ago. MIL is keen for us to spawn in particular and even I am sad I haven't been able to do that for her. Think I've decided to maybe share at the stage I'm told there is a problem. Which, depending on the results of the tests we are currently having, could be soon!

Redshoes56 Tue 17-Sep-13 21:28:32

I feel the same about my MIL, dulcet. She is sweet as pie and would never push about having grandchildren, but she and my FIL could really use something positive (my husband's brother, uncle and grandfather all passed away last year within six months of each other). Good luck with your tests. I wish I'd gone sooner, frankly.

AuntieMaggie Tue 17-Sep-13 22:15:48

I fecking hate this. Why is it so easy for some people? Why do some people get pregnant so easily with no health problems or anything? I have nothing to wear tomorrow that fits properly because of my stupid health issues that have caused my stomach to bloat. I am so dreading someone asking me if I'm pregnant because I think I'll lose it if they do. I wish I had a crystal ball at least then I'd know if all this is worth it or whether I should just go back on the pill.

CivicBlue1 Tue 17-Sep-13 22:37:29

ERTD is now 2 days late. Tested this morning. BFN. Feel sicky, but that may be the meds.

On the plus side it looks like DH will be home for a month to get him back on his proper rota!

Might use his copy of GTA as an incentive to encourage him to dtd as required. Am a bit worried he may become distracted by it thou.

lil1ady Tue 17-Sep-13 23:22:03

dhs GTA doesn't work cos he doesn't have a bug enough hard drive in his Xbox! lmao at him right now. luckily he's not an obsessive gamer so no hiding games will help me.

sorry everyone is having a rubbish time with insensitive a holes and the general "why isn't it me". I think my brain is fed up of it all. I'm not even sure what CD I'm on which is not like me at all. too much else going on to worry about at the moment I guess.

Redshoes56 Tue 17-Sep-13 23:37:38

Fingers crossed for you civic - would be good to have another celebration! (Because yes lil we are otherwise in total a-hole land).

auntie - I have been going through the same tornado of crappy thoughts. I keep trying to tell myself, everyone has their struggles, but eff that. Sometimes you just need to bitch and punch something. Here's a pillow. <ducks> Go buy yourself some new things to wear that you feel good in and eff everyone else.

AuntieMaggie Wed 18-Sep-13 06:20:13

Thanks Red

DP isn't an obsessive gamer really he just really has been looking forward to GTA... it did the job!

Off to another day in another city - no wonder I'm so bloody tired and miserable atm.

Hope everyone has a good day.

EssieSaysRelax Wed 18-Sep-13 09:28:02

Fingers crossed for you civic, it's gone a bit quiet on the bfp front here since the last flurry so statistically we must be due another one!?

I am doing an utterly shite job of keeping it together before my colp. Don't know why I've worked myself into a total state about this one. I'm terrified. I look like shite cos I have no make up on at work, and my eyes are puffy, but there is no way I'll get from now to the other side of the appointment without crying, so figured I'd put it on after. It's our annual company conference this afternoon too, in which I play a pretty massive part so need to get myself together and somehow tidy up before the entire company has to look at me. Appointment at 10.30.

Maggie et all. I don't frigging know why some people get up the duff so flipping easily and we don't. Quite frankly its utter bollocks. However, I am not taking it lying down (harhar), I am gonna give it my best shot, as are we all. Then when we get our bfps, we can say in our heads in your FACE fertile people. We can do it too. grin <self pep talk over, Essie heads out to appointment>

DulcetMoans Wed 18-Sep-13 12:07:02

Oh what a depressed bunch we are. Eventually we will all get there, one way it another.

Got told I am being moved to a pretty big project at work. Will be a pain in the arse but pretty good opportunity. Felt a little guilty as obviously trying to make babies but need to do what's right for me, yes? Reassure me! Haha.

I am four days away I think and having stabbing pains in the important areas!

EssieSaysRelax Wed 18-Sep-13 12:21:40

Dulcet definitely go for it. Can't put life on hold etc and when you get upduff then you'll work it all out, but better to regret doing things than not doing things.

Coploscopy was ok, but my cervix is mangled, which explains the traumatic smear a few weeks ago where the nurse 'couldn't find' it. It's badly scarred after the two rounds of LLETZ I had to have to remove the bad cells, and has all but closed up apparently. So now I'm being referred to gynae to have it dialated! Joy of joys! Under general too. Boo. However, consultant said while there is usually pain associated with a pin hole cervix (yes this is an actual condition!), which I don't have, she thinks it could be affecting my chances of conceiving so she recommends I have the op. Feeling ok about it. I knew there was going to be something less than brilliant about todays appointment, but at least its progress hopefully in a positive direction.

DulcetMoans Wed 18-Sep-13 14:20:41

That's what I need to hear, thanks essie! Sounds like you appointment was quite positive, even if uncomfortable and not great news. It's good to know what the problems are and have a way forward. Did they say how long until referral comes through?

Alohomora Wed 18-Sep-13 14:55:31

essie good luck for the inspection of your vestibule, I hope things go smoothly!

red some people are just naturally insensitive! As soon as we got married people started asking and it hasn't really stopped, now thy just stare at my midriff a lot. I've not been great health wise either and it hasn't helped the questions.

Symptom spotting here, but it's probably just stress.

DulcetMoans Wed 18-Sep-13 15:01:31

How long to test now aloho? Think we were similar timings and I'm due 22nd Sept.

fifi669 Wed 18-Sep-13 15:32:32

Sounds positive essie that the ball is rolling, BFP is no time now smile

Think I'm in FW at the mo, no hint of icing on the OPKs though.

Pretty overdue a BFP aren't we?

lil1ady Wed 18-Sep-13 16:16:51

massively overdue a bfp Fifi

Essie echoing everyone else, an op may be scary but at least its a positive step forward. hope your afternoon meeting went OK and you had time to sort the make up out!

pizzaqueen Wed 18-Sep-13 16:32:23

Positive that you're getting some answers essie. Cervix' are strange things aren't they? I'm not sure if I can find mine blush (tmi). Not sure what bit is what...

I'm getting totally fed up with this ttc business. I was supposed to be squeezing out a baby in January (mc) but now that isn't going to happen it's left us with a huge childcare problem for ds starting preschool. DP flexible working request has been turned down and I won't be on mat leave like we expected. angry I'm sure we'll sort something out. But this along with my SIL having her third baby in a few weeks plus three friends due around my should-have-been due date, it's all just getting a bit much. Pizzaqueen jumps into the pity jacuzzi.

juniper81 Wed 18-Sep-13 17:25:48

Hi all, sorry we're all feeling a bit down about it all...at least we can all empathise instead of talking to yet another friend who suggests "relaxing" or "not thinking about it" over the heads of how ever many children...Gosh, I do sound bitter! pizzaqueen the other people due around the due date thing is a shocker, it's hard stuff. xx

Onwards and upwards! I've been a bit quiet, trying to avoid symptom spotting and failing but I've been here before and been disappointed. I can test from today - CD28 - and my cycles are usually 28-31 but I think I'll go for Sunday if no ERTD as I don't want to be sad before a day's work. Work makes me sad enough!

Alohomora Wed 18-Sep-13 17:50:58

dulcet I did an early one this morning, bfn, but I'm only 8DPO - proper test shouldn't really be until next Monday.

CivicBlue1 Wed 18-Sep-13 18:27:07

Still no sign of ERTD. Another BFN this morning. I'm usually bang on time. Don't want to get my hopes up, but at the same time I can't help myself.

fifi669 Wed 18-Sep-13 20:26:09

Well OPK gave me a positive when I got home from work. Made tea, DP put DS to bed, I preseeded (unsure if I produce EWCM), dtd, now on the sofa with legs in the air.

DP is happy. Food, a cheeky bit of oral for him, sex and football. I may even bust out some chocolate, (DP is a chocoholic). All because i read that men produce alot more and healthier sperm the more turned on they are......

pizzaqueen Wed 18-Sep-13 20:40:43

lol fifi sounds like a good evening. So how does preseed work? Been thinking about it but dp doesn't like the idea of charts/opks etc, anything except shagging! He thinks I could get pregnant any moment and just doesnt understand about oving etc. I don't really get any ewcm.

fifi669 Wed 18-Sep-13 21:43:46

pizza it's supposed to recreate EWCM which is supposed to be a similar consistency to spunk. The idea is as its all the same the sperm have an easier time doing what's needed

Alohomora Thu 19-Sep-13 09:00:21

Yep, pizza, it's really just like a special lube that helps the swimmers survive a bit longer.

I'm home today and tomorrow, things aren't too great at the moment but I'm sure it'll work itself out in the end. POAS this morning (WHY? I need to stop myself) and the test was a dud, that'll teach me not to test early....

DulcetMoans Thu 19-Sep-13 09:07:37

Im am getting by without testing by having none in the house. Every time I have been to the shop I have thought about buying some but managed to resist. Just a few more days until I know for sure anyway.

I think there is something in the preseed that is designed to make the best environment for the swimmers, it's not just normal lube.

Why you home aloho? Do you mean you are off work? Home is better than work anyway! I miss my bed already and only been out of it a couple of hours.

EssieSaysRelax Thu 19-Sep-13 09:46:37

Thanks everyone. Feeling a bit muddled about it all really, but DH has private medical insurance with work so I'm going to see if I can at least see someone for another opinion on that, currently though I am not even a candidate for IUI or IVF with cervix in its current state so definitely need to get it sorted one way or another. In the meantime though I intend to keep jsing and do some handstands as it can't hurt can it?! I told my Mum last night too. She was upset, but then remembered to get a grip cos it's me who ought to be upset! She did in a slightly panic striken tone say 'so you will need to get it sorted before you start thinking about having children'! If only she knew.

Company conference went ok. Had lots of feedback, some great, some good, some shite. You can't please everyone!

Aloho, hope you are ok?

Fx to everyone poas in next few days. I know there is a bfp amongst us!

x

Alohomora Thu 19-Sep-13 10:27:27

essie I missed your update, so sorry! Well, it's not great news but it sounds like having the procedure might up your chances by quite a bit so may it will be a good thing in the end. Do you know how quickly you'll be able to see the gynae?

Things like that make me miss the German health system, where if you think you need a specialist you just phone up and make an appointment with them. All smear tests are done by gynos back home - my GP had gyno training AND an ultrasound machine, so whenever I had dodgy periods as a teen he'd do s quick scan of my ovaries. Soo handy!

I'm fine, we just will have to find somewhere else to live before Christmas and it's a bit sudden.

EssieSaysRelax Thu 19-Sep-13 10:45:56

Oh no, so sorry to hear that, moving house is crappy enough without having it sprung on you. ((((hugs))))

German health system sounds amazing! I had terrible periods when I was a teen and have never had a scan to date!

Not sure how quickly I'll be able to see someone but going to phone up insurance people today and see what they say. They wouldn't help before because they said it was routine cervical screening, even though it had gone beyond that, but now it's being referred away from that dept back to gynae I'm hoping they will help me.

Stepawayfromthezebras Thu 19-Sep-13 17:26:26

Oh boo, AF's arrived, ah well, am enjoying the trying smile

EssieSaysRelax Thu 19-Sep-13 19:32:57

Sorry to hear that zebras, glad the jsing is keeping you entertained though!

Jenijena Thu 19-Sep-13 19:37:23

Reckon I can whine here... AF came back 12 months after DS born... A few very light months of regular visits. thought, woo hoo, at least period pain of doom has gone! This is month 3 of ttc, I've had sickness and diarrhoea all week and didn't take anything 'just in case'. And AF came back again, more painful than ever, this morning. Thanks. Sickness, diarrhoea, period pain, agh.

Wine, drugs and chocolate at the ready for tonight.

bludgerwitch Thu 19-Sep-13 21:23:10

Hi, a name-changed aloho here.

jenijena It is frustrating, isn't it, esp. if it all comes to nowt. Had massive headache all day and the only thing we have in the house is neurofen, didn't dare take it just in case!

juniper81 Thu 19-Sep-13 21:57:40

evening, I'm out for this month too, AF here and making me very uncomfortable. Had a little bawl on DH this evening but going out tomorrow and will enjoy some wine for the first time in a while. It's a rollercoaster ride for sure so just went for a little late night shop at the supermarket & treated myself to a new book. Will curl up and read it in a bit.

Good luck everyone who's still waiting. xx

Redshoes56 Thu 19-Sep-13 23:17:14

Ugh, sorry for those who are out for the month. The fred has been kind of melancholy lately. I feel like utter shite today. Nauseous all day, especially this a.m. ERTD due tomorrow-ish. Normally I'd be all, "Ooh! Maybe it's a sign!" but I am sure it's just the stupid metformin.

Minion Thu 19-Sep-13 23:58:00

Evening shagtastics.
Anyone up? I'm suffering with jetlag, just as well as I started a Netflix account today, Tis seeing me through nicely.
Icing here, but no husband. He's away on business, he'll be back around 5 tomoz but should be nice and late then.
Looks like I'll be able to o to Vegas this month then (come on law of sod)....

fifi669 Fri 20-Sep-13 08:37:04

DP is working all day and evening so last gasp dtd with intent is out the window.

I've used the special lube, I've done the ahem deeper positions, I've had my legs in the air, he's had his sperm healthy foods, I haven't been smoking, bring on the BFP!

Rant over. Quietly slides onto TWOT bench and twiddles thumbs....

EssieSaysRelax Fri 20-Sep-13 08:56:19

Good work, got everything xed for you fifi. I think the reason we are all so down is because there has been no good news on our fred for a while. We are well overdue a BFP which means there will be a flurry like buses surely?!

Anyone doing anything nice at the weekend? My DH is away at a cricket do and I am going on a sponsored ride with my four legged boy which should blow away the cobwebs a bit and take my mind off all the ttc malarkey.

Jena, welcome, hope you are feeling better and you were well enough to enjoy your goodies!

Sorry to hear about ERTD Juniper. flowers and wine for you and for Red too, sorry you are feeling so shite. It's not over til the witch is here though, so keeping things tightly xed for you too.

Minion when are you due to go to Vegas? My bro just went, said it was mental.

aloho, interesting new name. Hope your head is feeling better.

The pity pool is open and warmed up to a toasty 35.5C if anyone fancies a dip.

lil1ady Fri 20-Sep-13 10:06:05

Morning viroids

sorry for all the bad news on afs, cervix's, houses and men who don't get woman's bits!

I'm going to try and be positive and lighten the mood.

so far this month I'm doing pretty well on the jsing front. not temped, no opks yet and lots of sex on no kind of rota. in fact we dtd twice yesterday. and I didn't bother with that whole legs in the air makarky that hasn't worked the last 8 months. just good old fashioned shagging. Love it!

minion we went to Vegas for the first stint of our honeymoon. there is nowhere like it. its both mental and amazing!

bludgerwitch Fri 20-Sep-13 10:49:58

Morning ladies! Feeling quite good today, but grateful to be tucked up with a blanket and Nigella on the telly and a dog to warm my side. Work tomorrow!

I'm not very hopeful for this month, it feels like AF is on the way, but we'll see. About to compose the notice letter to the landlord and write to a couple of storage companies.

I miss JSing, we haven't really had the mindset for it since I OVed, too many other issues.

bludgerwitch Fri 20-Sep-13 12:14:48

Double post, sorry - could you have a look at the photo in my gallery? Is that a positive or an evaporation line? I can't tell!!!!

EssieSaysRelax Fri 20-Sep-13 12:21:29

Hi aloho, glad you are feeling better.

No I'm not hopeful for this month either. 5 days til ERTD due. I would have been as we've jsed lots and at the right time too, but now I know I have a roadblock I think it is highly unlikely! doubt that will stop me getting obsessive and neurotic in the next few days though

Sorry you've got to move house suddenly, have you got somewhere lined up?

bludgerwitch Fri 20-Sep-13 12:25:01

essie We've put an offer in on a house, but it's in an appalling state so even if the sale goes through we'd have to have builders in for at least a month, so we might have to find something interim...

EssieSaysRelax Fri 20-Sep-13 12:27:20

How do I view your profile?! blush

bludgerwitch Fri 20-Sep-13 12:29:45

I don't know! I made it clickable and public and everything? MNet is confusing me! I'm going to poke a few buttons and see whether that works...

EssieSaysRelax Fri 20-Sep-13 12:30:46

Exciting about the house! It will be worth the stress to have your own place. Nope, still can't click on you...

bludgerwitch Fri 20-Sep-13 12:30:54
cookielove Fri 20-Sep-13 12:33:04

Essie click on her name. It will load her profile, which will have a link for photos.

Bludger thats a positive smile

EssieSaysRelax Fri 20-Sep-13 12:33:18

Argh! Link works, but the photo is showing as one of those annoying little red crosses when the link is broken so I can't see it! sob!

EssieSaysRelax Fri 20-Sep-13 12:34:26

It doesn't work cookie, it does when I click on yours but not on bludgers - YAY for the positive though! Woohoo! xx

bludgerwitch Fri 20-Sep-13 12:35:18

Is it? I can't quite believe it, I'm 11DPO, shall I instruct my OH to get my a digital one and try again tomorrow?

cookielove Fri 20-Sep-13 12:39:27

It is a faint positive but def a positive congratulations

Oh not sure why that is essie confused does it work if you click on the link?

Yes yes def get a digi, when I tested at 12dpo I used a digi as I could not find my cheapo ones. Seeing the word pregnant is the best feeling! !

EssieSaysRelax Fri 20-Sep-13 12:41:19

cookie No idea, I think the problem is my end cos if I go to your profile all your pics are blanked out too. Oh well. I will use your eyes if you don't mind!

bludger - yay! Yes, deffo get a digi and do another one tomorrow. Hurrah! We are back on track with a new bfp!

bludgerwitch Fri 20-Sep-13 13:07:28

Ahurrrrr, this has made me slightly barmy! Rushed out and bought a digi test, we'll sit on my foof for a few hours without drinking and then try, or maybe if I can stand it wait until tomorrow morning.

Bought myself a big bunch of sunflowers, just in case it's a false alarm, they might cheer my up.

DulcetMoans Fri 20-Sep-13 13:35:14

That's a positive bludger, I am sure. You defo need a digi. How exciting! I will check back every 10 mins now!

Just to bring the thread down again, i'm out. Unexpectedly if I am honest. Partly because it's two days early and partly because I had convinced myself that this could be it a little. Few unusual pains in the right areas, the baps are a bit tender which is unusual for me and plus going to docs, having blood test etc I thought would be prime law of sod. But no. nada. Nothing. Means another trip for a blood test monday (CD2-5 test) and need to get DH to use his little pot...

Oh, and it hurts! I have bought myself a bar of the new weird cadburys with coca cola pretzels in it to make myself feel better...

EssieSaysRelax Fri 20-Sep-13 13:38:39

Oh dulcet, sorry to hear this. You need some sunflowers too. Enjoy the weird choc. I had some choc pretzels earlier as they were on offer in the co-ey. Yum.

bludger - any symptoms?? Fx for digi test.

bludgerwitch Fri 20-Sep-13 13:45:34

essie I had very persistent pain in my left ovary over the weekend and had a raised temperature from Sat until yesterday. Also very scatterbrained. I'm sitting here clutching the box and waiting for the urge to piddle...

bludgerwitch Fri 20-Sep-13 13:46:52

dulcet flowers That's rubbish, is AF usually a bit irregular for you or is that unusual? Get yourself a hot water bottle, too, that often helps.

DulcetMoans Fri 20-Sep-13 14:08:23

Think of waterfalls bludger!

Is two days early irregular? I am not really sure what is irregular and what isn't to be honest! Normally I am about 26-28 days. This is 25 but I have been out as far as 32 over recent months.

I do love sunflowers, they were my wedding flowers too! Maybe I will treat myself. You're right. I deserve it! haha.

bludgerwitch Fri 20-Sep-13 14:09:55

OMG I'm 1-2 weeks pregnant!!!!!!!!!!

lil1ady Fri 20-Sep-13 14:12:27

woohoo bludger another bfp...there is hope for us all!

DulcetMoans Fri 20-Sep-13 14:13:52

Yay bludger! How you going to tell DP? Thats assuming you told us first! haha.

bludgerwitch Fri 20-Sep-13 14:15:47

Now we really need to get out of this unhealthy house ASAP, I don't think I can cope with that many life changeing events in one week....

dulcet That doesn't sound that early, really - mine are usually like clockwork but every time I haven gone on/off the pill the cycle length has changed significantly.

cookielove Fri 20-Sep-13 14:33:32

Yay bludger I look forward to seeing you on the just shagging grads thread grin

essie my eyes are your eyes!

EssieSaysRelax Fri 20-Sep-13 14:47:57

Thanks for the eye loan cookie! I had a look on my phone just now which allowed me to view the pics - yes, thats definitely a line not that I've ever seen an actual bfp, obviously this is irrelevant now, as you have done a digi, but I felt left out!

On the topic of cycle length, mine is usually regular but last ERTD was 5 days early, so there is the odd rogue one in there from time to time too.

lil1ady Fri 20-Sep-13 14:54:27

I wouldn't worry about 2days early dulcet means you can try again quicker!

cookielove Fri 20-Sep-13 15:08:28

Ahhhh essie you'll see your bfp soon smile

bludgerwitch Fri 20-Sep-13 15:25:42

dulcet DH, as always, has forgotten his mobile and he doesn't have a phone in the office, so he'll have to wait until he comes home!

My best friend knew I was hoping for news at the end of the week, and coincidentally she emailed a few minutes after I did the digi test, so I phoned her and we just had a nice long chat. I'm very bad at keeping exciting news to myself so I just needed someone RL to talk to!

Minion Fri 20-Sep-13 15:39:27

Congrats bludger fab news!
Another BFP for the album.

I've been to Vegas a few times with work but this will be the longest stopover yet so, looking forward to it. Wish husband could come too though.
Tmi alert, EWCM has returned with a vengeance, so I assume it took approx 7 months to get back to normal after the pill. Husband is due home approx 4;15, so gonna get on it ASAP. I really don't want to have to be working Christmas day heehee. Do you think I'm too late? Ie, if EWCM is coming out does it mean I'm at the tail end of the icing? I still have the pain so hoping I'm bang on..
Confused.com!

ZingWantsCake Fri 20-Sep-13 16:07:22

bludger

congratulations! thanks

and commiserations for all who fell victim to the red witch againsad

no news here, about to ov so fx I'll be in the mood to JS.
had a very exhausting week, school and extra activities our now properly on.
DS1 has been made full chorister and will sing at a wedding tomorrow.
choir parents are allowed to attend - I think I fancy getting dolled up.
I love weddings. they are so life-affirming.

ZingWantsCake Fri 20-Sep-13 16:08:01

*activities are on

not our..

CivicBlue1 Fri 20-Sep-13 16:14:53

Congrats bludger

Still waiting for the evil red witch to arrive. 5 days late so far and 3 BFNs.

FurryScoob Fri 20-Sep-13 16:52:50

Congratulations Bludger & fx for you Civic

Af's about to leave here, we've got the weekend off together for a wedding about the same time as ov this month so I'm off to buy some nice new underwear to persuade DP to leave the bar after the wedding!

Bearfacedchic Fri 20-Sep-13 17:35:10

Hello! Been off for a while busy having a cold, working and having my HSG. And the news is my tubes are open and I'm all normal inside! Hurrah! I'm so glad it's good news. I wouldn't have been impressed if it wasn't as it was really painful for me. I know other people have it and say it doesn't hurt, but I was nearly sick with pain. The consultant even took my pulse to see if I was ok!

Anyway, lots to catch up on so off to read the last five pages it so.

Hi to everyone!

PrincessKitKat Fri 20-Sep-13 17:48:32

Hi viroids, been catching up on your shagging news!

Bear, excellent tube news, but I'm sorry it was so painful for you. Hopefully a step closer to your BFP?

Furryscoob - that will give you something to do in the awkward lull between wedding ceremony and dinner!!

Bludger - congratulations!

Fx all thanks

juniper81 Fri 20-Sep-13 18:50:42

Congratulations bludger that's great news! And glad to hear all ok inside bear.

Commiserations dulcet, I'd also thought it was the month and AF is a bit early. It even started in a weird way which was like how people describe implantation bleeding! Grrrr! I got upset again this morning on the phone to my mum who then "cheered" me up by reminding me how long most of the women in our family have tried and we're talking years and years. Didn't really work! Ha. Having a brew before going out for some wine. Thanks for the kind words, it's so nice to have somewhere to talk about it all.

Am planning for the next JS'ing onslaught already. I hope DH is ready...!
Have great weekends all. xx

fifi669 Fri 20-Sep-13 18:57:26

Congratulations bludger! Is this the start of a BFPathon?

Redshoes56 Fri 20-Sep-13 19:16:32

bludger - HOORAY!!!!! I do hope it's the start of a BFPathon. Fingers crossed for civic! Who else is waiting?

bear I am SO glad to hear positive results from your HSG! And yes, it IS painful. I wish I could count myself among the women who say they have an easy-breezy time with it, especially as I have to face the similar saline sonogram next week. But we are tough, we can take it smile

I can totally relate juniper and dulcet. Outwardly did not get my hopes up but inwardly really wanted this to be the month we defied the odds, got the BFP and canceled the followup appointments. But ERTD pulled into the station right on time today. I was already feeling ill all day with a sinus headache and nausea, so the other unwelcome arrival I just packed up my desk at lunchtime and called it a day. In my pajamas now in bed. And I guess I can have a teeeeny bit of chocolate on my low-carb diet. Ahhh...better.

Redshoes56 Fri 20-Sep-13 19:17:30

Should say WITH the other unwelcome arrival....

EssiesInvisibleLlama Fri 20-Sep-13 19:53:59

Evening viroids.

bear lovely to see you and great news all parts are present and correct and no road blocks. That's ace.

Sorry for the ertds in attendance tonight though. wine all round.

Fx for everyone waiting. I suppose I should count myself in the twot even though chances are slim after this weeks new. Still sperms are small so the gap only needs to be wee surely?!

DH is away so I'm watching crap on the tv and hogging the chocolate.

Do hope bluger has kick started the much needed bfp-athon! Surely all the sod tempting we've been doing is going to take effect soon?

There are people on tv spray painting actual poodles. hmm

bludgerwitch Fri 20-Sep-13 20:55:19

I'm going to continue hanging out here for a while, ladies, maybe I can be the bfp fairy?

I'm slobbing on front of the telly and buying PJs off QVC as I feel I am entitled. grin wine all around! (I have pomegranate in mine, though...)

EssiesInvisibleLlama Fri 20-Sep-13 21:59:48

Yes, please do stick around, hopefully you might attract some other bfps!