2 days late and no bfp eugh hurry up af!!!

(46 Posts)
Bambi27 Mon 22-Jul-13 08:28:01

No real message her just need to vent!! So frustrated I've become very regular and am now 2 days late and just did a pg test and bfn sad so frustrated!! Just want want af to hurry up as its playing terrible tricks on my mind sad confusedconfused

milk Mon 22-Jul-13 08:45:32

Being in limbo totally sucks, I feel for you. Hope you get a definite answer soon smile

Bambi27 Mon 22-Jul-13 10:43:46

Thankyou! To be honest as I have no bfp by now I think it's just a waiting game for af but its just annoying!!

xwonderingx Mon 22-Jul-13 11:12:52

Same 6 days late , bfn after bfn driving me crazy x

Bambi27 Mon 22-Jul-13 11:18:50

Oh wondering I really feel for you! Are you regularly late? It's so frustrating isn't it!! You're sure you're not pg because if bfn but until af comes there's always that small voice!!!

Bambi27 Mon 22-Jul-13 11:24:15

Also it's early days for a smiley so don't give up hope!! I'm sure it will blinking at you Tomo and fixed soon!! Xx

Bambi27 Mon 22-Jul-13 11:24:38

Sorry wrong thread!!

Bambi27 Mon 22-Jul-13 22:43:19

Still no af sad

milk Tue 23-Jul-13 10:28:56

AF today?

Bambi27 Tue 23-Jul-13 13:20:41

Nope!! Doesn't feel on its way either!! But bfn as well! Maybe I've gone into nearly menopause lol! U? Xx

milk Tue 23-Jul-13 13:38:12

AF arrived yesterday, but not trying to conceive.

Do you know which day you ovulated? If you ovulate really late in your cycle it can take up to a week after your period is due to get a BFP.

Bambi27 Tue 23-Jul-13 14:22:18

Oh fair enough milk! Well I did opks and got fixed smiley on cd15 so that's about right isn't it? Not late?

Hmm, not particularly late, no. But everyone's different, and it can take a while to get high enough hcg levels to show up on a test. So don't lose hope!

Bambi27 Tue 23-Jul-13 17:29:08

Ah thanks smile tbh this month is one month I didn't really mind not conceiving as have two big nights out! But we shall see!! X

Bambi27 Wed 24-Jul-13 11:31:34

Bfn on cb digital today, given up all hope come on af!!!

B1985 Wed 24-Jul-13 12:07:47

Hi all new here...

I had a m/c in Jan2012 and since then 2 first periods where fine 28 day cycles as before but since then they have been all over the place. Cycle lengths 29, 21, 36, 30. We started trying again since last month really and now im 3 days late and of course been doing tests - all negative. Striaght away dark line negative.

Could I still be preganant? On the day my period was due I had browny light pink atery stuff when wiped. Thought could be implantation bleeding but shouldnt my tests be showing postive?

Going out of mind which I know doesnt help!

Thanks, Bee

Bambi27 Wed 24-Jul-13 12:27:17

Can't help expect say I'm with you, it's horrible waiting. Sorry about your miscarriage I hope you get your positive soon!!! I'm 5 days late now and still no af or bfp!

Bambi27 Wed 24-Jul-13 12:41:22

Except even!

B1985 Wed 24-Jul-13 13:08:13

Thanks.

Its so frustrating! I need to be patient but just want to do a test everyday! Every twinge or feeling i'm getting I think hmm is this a symptom! Hope you get a positive to!

Bambi27 Wed 24-Jul-13 13:18:45

Don't think I will now. Seems very unlikely!! But thanks xx

JosiePosiePuddingAndPie Wed 24-Jul-13 16:04:14

I'm in limbo too - it's horrible isn't it!

B1985 Wed 24-Jul-13 16:33:07

Tell me about it! It would be easier for me if period just came bang on time, i could cry and then get over it and try again but the anxiety when its late and then u try not to hope for too much do a test and thats negative to! Im going to try wait till sunday to do another test if period doesnt come by then! I have no other pregnancy symptoms though so thinking it isnt the news i wanted just body STILL trying to adjust after the m/c.

Suzietwo Wed 24-Jul-13 17:04:33

i have just waited 3 weeks for my period. so annoying. i found it much better after about 14dpo when i knew i wasnt pregnant so just sort of pretended i had had aperiod at the normal time and was back at cd1!

Bambi27 Wed 24-Jul-13 20:13:57

Oh gosh suzie that's awful! So it eventually came?? Have you been late before? I hope mine doesn't take that long!! Did you go docs??

B1985 Wed 24-Jul-13 22:03:52

Wow that's quite late! Think max mine has been late is 8-9 days but I'm now thinking my system is so messed up its not actually '"late" I just don't know when it is and cannot calculate because if doesn't follow an order or patten so probably not preg....

Does the temperature system really work?

Bambi27 Thu 25-Jul-13 10:07:15

I've never been more that 27-29 days. Usually 27-28. Ugh now on cd 33!!! Not fun!! Haven't don't a test today but did clear blue digi yesterday and bfn so no hope here!! Will test again Tomo so I know I can drink at a wedding at weekend!! How's everyone else getting on??

B1985 Thu 25-Jul-13 11:25:19

I still haven't come on. No period symptoms. No pregancy symptoms either i dont think. Have been feeling "different" stomach area BUT think thats my mind playing games. I keep feeling like period has come but go to the loo and wipe theres nothing. Im trying to wait till Sunday to do my test! Tempted to do today as period should come Monday and finished by today!

I had mega itchy and swollen feet yesterday think because of the heat but if i am preg didnt want to risk taking anything. antihistamine leaflet said consult doctor so i just dealt with the itchiness! sad

I understand what your going through bambi27, ive always been 28 days and then the pill even when stopped the pill went back to normal 28days straight away.

Bambi27 Thu 25-Jul-13 12:41:47

Oh rubbish same here! I thought I had back ache a while ago like I was going to come on but nothing yet!! It's passed now...just hoping we will both have af soon or even better w bfp but not looking hopeful now I don't think if I'm honest!

TippetyTapWriter Thu 25-Jul-13 21:54:29

Hi, I'm new to here and new to all this (ttc #1!). It's nice to hear I'm not alone! On fourth month of trying. AF is eight days late but all tests are bfns. So frustrating and confusing, especially as I've never been more than a day or so late before. And I've not been on the pill in over ten years (makes me loopy), so I know my cycle well. Gah!

Bambi27 Thu 25-Jul-13 22:03:51

Oh tipperty...that sucks!! What you thinking now? Are you going to go docs? I'm going to test with fmu tomorrow (will be 6 days late) and if still bfn then will give up for weekend if still no af Monday will test again before ringing docs and going in to see what's going on and generally talk about us not conceiving in nearly a year of ttc.

TippetyTapWriter Thu 25-Jul-13 22:19:43

Thanks for reply. Really good luck for tommorow!

I'm just going to try and wait it out for a bit, though it's making me a bit nuts ... Started to get my normal PMT symptoms today (grumpy, sore boobs, back ache) so I think AF is on it's way ... I sort of hope it does come, just to end this horrid suspense (and then I can eat the big block of cheese in my fridge!).

Was wondering if this hot weather could cause AF to be late? My body just can't cope above 25 degrees!

Bambi27 Thu 25-Jul-13 22:34:01

No idea about the heat! Maybe! Oh fingers crossed af comes for you Tomo! At least it will be closure! If all neg in morning (which I think it will be) hoping mine come as well!!!

TippetyTapWriter Thu 25-Jul-13 22:41:42

Would you believe it, just went to loo and AF is here. Talk of the bloody devil (literally!). Unbelievable timing. Kinda feel a bit like crying (there's always that hope, even with the bfn ...) but at least I know. At least I can comfort myself with gorgonzola??!

Fingers crossed for you too!

Bambi27 Fri 26-Jul-13 08:07:42

Oh tipperty I know it's disappointing but I'm glad af has came now you can start thinking positively for next month smile

Did fmu test and negative so will enjoy a nice weekend away and hope af comes soon!!!

B1985 Fri 26-Jul-13 09:33:49

So sorry Tippety! im holding on till sunday to do a test but no signs of period yet! and it would of finished yesterday.

Oh and anothe negative Bambi! Enjoy the weekend! Im hoping for best but kind of know in my heart its unlikely.

Not sure about the heat either....Although heat can affect tests themselves apparently. Glad i can talk about my worries with other women going through the same things - just sad and frustrating we go through this!

EST0106 Fri 26-Jul-13 14:45:50

Hello, I've been lurking on here for a few days as have been in exactly the same position as you B1985. I was due on Monday, nothing, did a test BFN, did another BFN on wed. Was truly fed up, then started feeling a bit sick today, just did another test and BFP!! Don't give up hope, no AF means there's hope! Good luck guys!

TippetyTapWriter Fri 26-Jul-13 18:22:02

Congrats EST!

Hope you are both put out of your misery soon with happy news, B1985 and Bambi.

This ttc business is a bit of a mind bender isn't it. Didn't think I'd get so caught up in it all ... Was quite laid back to start with, thinking 'a year to conceive is fine, there's no rush' (of course all the time thinking it would happenthe first month!).

Going to try and chill more next month (will fail miserably at that I'm sure!)

Good luck to all!

EST0106 Fri 26-Jul-13 19:03:07

Tipperary tap, I know what your mean, was determined to be casual about the whole thing and turned into a bit of a crazy inside 3 months, oh dear!!

Should have said bambi27 as well as B1985 in my previous post. Good luck to you guys.

Writerwannabe83 Fri 26-Jul-13 19:27:24

Congratulations EST!!!!! grin x x

EST0106 Fri 26-Jul-13 21:26:17

Thank you, writer... grin but there's along way to go its such early days, trying to not get too excited!

Bambi27 Fri 26-Jul-13 23:20:28

Brilliant news est!! Keeping fingers crossed for a brilliant pregnancy for you!! Xxx

B1985 Sun 28-Jul-13 11:37:02

Wow great news!!! It's Sunday so gonna test today! Give my self a a few days break from last test! Really nervous!

I'm the same didn't think I'd get so caught up and obsessed. Hope you have a healthy happy Pregnancy EST!!

I've made doc appoint for Friday incase BFN as it would mean a month of no period but still not pregnant!

B1985 Sun 28-Jul-13 12:32:18

Negative! sad I knew it would be but still get so upset. Did test with my first pee of the day to and still nothing. Can't stop crying.

Bambi27 Sun 28-Jul-13 15:51:17

Oh b1985 sorry you're having such a hard time of it! How late are you now? I finally came on yesterday! Thank god!!

B1985 Sun 28-Jul-13 22:17:04

Thanks feel bit better now had a goo cry, dust self of and keep trying. Would of rather period came in time!

I'm 7 days late. Will see what doc says Thursday.

You feeling ok that you came on eventually, how late was it? It's the stress of ttc we putting on ourselves thats playing havoc with cycles!

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