Trying not to stress

(131 Posts)
Knakard Tue 23-Oct-12 00:05:28

Month 6 of ttc, have a regular 27/28 cycle both with coil and since it has been removed. On day 28 and no af and no signs what so ever no cramp pmt etc! However poas this morning and again in desperation about and hour ago and both bfn!
Both previous pregs (one mc) conceived whilst by surprise whilst still on contraception so I thought actually trying would mean it was a piece of cake (sad)
Please help me stay sane whilst I wait for af and not spend £££ on bloody tests ( no more in the house).

Knakard Tue 23-Oct-12 09:44:26

Bump still no sign of af this morning sad

jennimoo Tue 23-Oct-12 09:58:22

I'm a poas-a-holic I'm afraid but feel your pain! I buy in bulk the dippy sticks so only out of my mind, not out of pocket.

Got pg 1st cycle with DC1. Waiting for AF on 4th cycle now.

Knakard Tue 23-Oct-12 10:57:42

Thanks Jen, I'm really trying to stop my self popping out again to get one. Have taken your advice and ordered some eBay cheapies which will take a few days to come so trying to resist the urge till then smile
However I'm now late so surely should show on most tests by now. I can't even symptom spot as with ds I didn't know I was preg till 17 weeks blush (due to not having had a period for a while anyway) so I'm guessing I don't get many symptoms early doors as I didn't have a clue!

jennimoo Tue 23-Oct-12 18:48:57

I would have loved no symptoms til 17 weeks, felt really sick! Fx you'll get a BFP when the sticks arrive, then no symptoms!

Knakard Wed 24-Oct-12 18:57:17

Argh! Still no af but still bfn angry

Clca Wed 24-Oct-12 20:12:25

I am in exactly the same situation at the moment. 5 days late and testing negative.

NEED TO KNOW NOW!!!! blush

Knakard Wed 24-Oct-12 20:25:46

I know, I either need commiseration wine or celebration chocolate! smile

Clca Wed 24-Oct-12 20:29:41

I literally cannot concentrate on anything else.

Keeping my fingers crossed for you too x

jennimoo Wed 24-Oct-12 20:58:28

I've got a pack of clear blue digitalis in my asda delivery tomorrow. I'm not late yet but if still BFN in cheapies tomorrow will go digital Friday I think...

The waiting and obsessing is rubbish sad

jennimoo Wed 24-Oct-12 20:59:03

Digitals even, I'm not that distraught!

Clca Wed 24-Oct-12 21:14:37

Haha roll on the asda delivery.

I too will be hopefully retesting on Friday.... Counting down the minutes starting from now! blush

Knakard Wed 24-Oct-12 22:34:02

I caved and did another eBay cheapy tonight and still bugger all!
Have told my self will wait till Friday now too and if nothing my Monday will make gp. App.
Fingers crossed for you both x

Clca Thu 25-Oct-12 07:35:48

Hahaha so easy to crack I have spent a sodding fortune so far!!

Still no sign of AF for me today.... Shall be peeing tomorrow morning! X

jennimoo Thu 25-Oct-12 08:48:07

BFN again this morning. Due anytime between now and Sunday I think.

Feeling really fed up and annoyed this morning sad

Knakard Thu 25-Oct-12 11:50:06

Me too, got another bfn again this morning but I'm now 3 days later than my longest cycle.
Think I'm going for go and get a first response one tomorrow if still nothing.

jennimoo Thu 25-Oct-12 12:31:10

Did you notice any ovulation signs, or are you not obsessing like I am and charting temps etc... sad

Just wondered if that would give you a clue as to whether you were really late or if you ovulated later.

Clca Thu 25-Oct-12 12:32:04

Would it be really bad if I tested tonight instead of tomorrow morning??

Knakard Thu 25-Oct-12 12:47:29

I'm not charting and temping but def ov pains and mucus around day 14 so would expect my usual cycle.
Did a digital on day 28 which said not preg and have just done Internet cheapies since.
I couldn't wait ccla if I had one here I'd be peeing all over it blush

Knakard Thu 25-Oct-12 12:47:50

"clca" sorry

LoveYouForeverMyBaby Thu 25-Oct-12 12:51:42

Op do a digi tomorrow with fmp good luck!

jennimoo Thu 25-Oct-12 13:31:56

Although I'm addicted to the poas ing I do only use FMU, as drink loads during the day. However, with DD got faint line with fMU on a cheapie and then that evening did a cb digital and got a 'pregnant' !

Knakard Thu 25-Oct-12 13:43:53

Oh well commiseration wine it is then sad af arrived thissfternoon

Clca Thu 25-Oct-12 17:30:45

Ah Knakard Im sorry. Wishing you every luck for next month. Enjoy a big glass/ bottle of vino tonight.

I'm not keeping my hopes up- have no symptoms to speak of. Another neg test and I may go insane!! X

Clca Thu 25-Oct-12 17:49:20

On that note I have just re tested (I know I have nooo will power) and it is a big fat not pregnant (cb digital).

So frustrated angry

jennimoo Thu 25-Oct-12 18:39:57

Sorry knakard. Well I have cramps but no AF, I think by the morning Ill be out. And asda sent normal clear blue tests, not digital, so ill save money as most likely wont be able to exchange them in time to pee on them!

Knakard Thu 25-Oct-12 21:17:53

Thanks guys, oh well a busy night at work to distract me and I suppose it just means another month of wine and shagging smile
When are you both "officially" late then? Fingers crossed, make sure you update.

Clca Thu 25-Oct-12 21:45:04

I was due on on Sunday so god knows what's going on with me. Keep thinking its coming but nothing just 4 negative tests!! Any clues?! X

jennimoo Fri 26-Oct-12 06:57:28

I reckon I'm due on today, have woken up with cramps but weirdly no AF still. I think it'll arrive any second, but clinging on to the slight chance...

Clca Fri 26-Oct-12 07:21:16

Keeping my fingers x'd for you jennimoo. No sign of AF for me today but just did a test and it's still neg. ffs x

Knakard Fri 26-Oct-12 09:06:54

Fingers crossed for both of you. It's so frustrating! I'm curled up on the sofa with a hotwater bottle now with cramps in full force sad
Good luck x

jennimoo Fri 26-Oct-12 10:51:35

I really wanted a hot water bottle on my tummy last night, but know that's a no no when pg so didn't!

Still no AF though, very unusual to have cramps so far in advance so trying to keep my hopes up jut a little...

Knakard Fri 26-Oct-12 23:26:33

Any news for either of you? X

jennimoo Sat 27-Oct-12 06:44:22

No AF and still BFN. If AF isn't here tomorrow I'm definitely late.

jennimoo Sat 27-Oct-12 09:55:10

And AF arrives. Really gutted. sad

Clca Sat 27-Oct-12 12:55:06

Ah Jennimoo I'm sorry. Next month hopefully. Still no AF but still negative. I am so bloody confused. A whole week late!!!!!! Ergh!

Knakard Sat 27-Oct-12 15:27:46

Aw sorry jennisad fingers xs for nxt month.
Are u gonna think about going to the doc next week of still no af clca?

Clca Sat 27-Oct-12 16:46:06

Yep. Going to give myself until the middle of next week.

It's just so odd. Any ideas ladies?

jennimoo Sat 27-Oct-12 17:36:22

Do you know when you ovulated, do you temp or watch for signs? I'd say most likely you ovulated later than usual for some reason (stress, illness, the weird workings of the female body?) and so your AF isn't really due yet, and so if you are pg it's too early for a BFP.

Clca Sat 27-Oct-12 17:41:19

Not charting so can't be sure when I ovulated. Can only but it down to the weird workings of the female body.

Annoying as I just want to get on with trying now!

How are you feeling?

jennimoo Sun 28-Oct-12 08:15:15

I'm ok, date night with DH last night and a large glass of wine. Just trying to make a plan for next month, involving relaxing and me time smile

Clca Sun 28-Oct-12 20:25:06

AF arrived this evening. Fingers crossed for the 3 or us for next month!

Knakard Sun 28-Oct-12 23:40:25

So sorry clca sad
Same place next month wink xxx

Clca Mon 12-Nov-12 17:30:45

Hi ladies,

Just thought I'd see how you're both getting on this month? Feeling positive.

AF isn't due for me for a couple of weeks so just the waiting game!


Knakard Wed 14-Nov-12 07:59:04

Hi there
Af due in 9days for me, fairly sure it's not going to happen this months though at didn't manage dtd as much as I would have liked due to mil staying. Also I got all the normal ov signs this month but no cm? Which is normally fairly obvious every month. So don't know I even ovd!
Good luck grin

Clca Thu 15-Nov-12 20:38:44

You never know the month you're not expecting it you may just be!
I've got about 9 days until I'm due (but who bloody knows as my AF seems to be all over the place!) been trying to dtd when possible but not sure if we've been at it enough!

Keeping fingers firmly crossed!

Knakard Sat 17-Nov-12 22:54:03

Hi Clca

So Howz your month going? Are you feeling hopeful? Not long now (in theory) so are you feeling anything (no symptom spotting not me gov honest)!


Clca Sun 18-Nov-12 10:45:12


Ummm hard to tell. Being Dtd regularly but. Perhaps not as much as we should have been. Have no symptoms what so ever so feel a bit lost.

AF due next weekend so you can guarantee next week will drag. sad

Another friend has announced she's preggo which just makes me hideously jealous! envy

How's things going with you? X

Knakard Sun 18-Nov-12 16:06:09

I'm good thanks, no sign of af pending and I'm due Thursday although I did have a long cycle last month so could be later.
I'm trying to be good and tell myself not to test tomorrow using my 10mlu ones blush
Just bored of waiting now, oh well we've agreed if it doesn't happen this month were not even going to thinks about it again till after Xmas is out of the way.
And I suppose being able to have a drink at all the various dos will be a bonus.

Clca Sun 18-Nov-12 22:03:40

I have zero will power so if I can't tell you not to test tomorrow!! blush

I'm so desperate to be preggo it's just stressing me out now. It's all I can sodding think about. Ridiculous woman.

Clca Mon 19-Nov-12 18:54:18

Sooo Knakard did you test?! wink x

Knakard Mon 19-Nov-12 21:05:26

I caved blush bfn!
Still not due for 4 days though. Started having some cramps today though so think unlikely sad
Just feeling really frustrated, spent the weekend with my sister who is 32 weeks and felt so jelous! But I feel bad as it took them 1.5 years of ttc. I guess I just assumed with ds being an accident it would happen straight away again so it's sort of caught me off guard.

How are you feeling? x

Clca Mon 19-Nov-12 22:50:12

Ah I'm sorry. But at least, as you say, AF isn't even due yet.

I'm ok. Have no "symptoms" at all. AF due around Saturday... Am fully resigned to the fact I am week and will test before then!

Im ttc my first and stupidly just thought it would happen straight away. X

Clca Mon 19-Nov-12 22:50:38

*weak even!

Knakard Tue 20-Nov-12 23:51:25

Still no sign of af grin
No more cramps either, keep it all crossed!
I can't imagine how it must be doing this with your first and all the unknowns.

TTC is bullshit!

There I feel better now grin


Knakard Wed 21-Nov-12 00:24:59

Shit shit shit! Just has a night out on the piss, got home and something made me test ......BFP!!!! grin

Knakard Wed 21-Nov-12 00:25:33

Oh dear I have pickled my bean already sad

duchesse Wed 21-Nov-12 00:36:10

Yeay! And please try not to worry (although worrying and guilt are a major part of the life of most parents I'm afraid)

Clca Wed 21-Nov-12 10:26:06

Woooohoooo this is amazing news!!! Congratulations lovely!!! gringringrin xx

Knakard Thu 22-Nov-12 07:43:02

Thanks clca I can hardly believe it grin

Any news for you? Xx

Clca Thu 22-Nov-12 12:34:19

No news for me. Don't feel very confident.sad

Going to put of testing until Saturday though.

When are you going to the docs? X

Knakard Thu 22-Nov-12 13:52:25

No news is good news.

Docs booked for wed next week, it's really odd that nothing feels different and I keep forgetting. I didn't find out with ds till I was 17 week already blush so I have a feeling these early days are going to feel like forever?

I was just thinking today do you have a stock pile of tests as I had 10 delivered today that I'd forgot about blush just Internet cheapies but I could post them on to you.

Everything crossed for you x

Clca Thu 22-Nov-12 18:05:53

Eeek I think it will be most likely slow until you get to the 12 w scan then it will fly by! smile Is your Dh excited?

Ah that's so sweet, thank you. If the dreaded AF arrives this month I'll defo take you up on that offer smile

The count down the weekend is painfully slow. Have treated myself to a cb digital (yeah I know how to live!!!) to test this w/e


Knakard Sat 24-Nov-12 11:23:44

Sorry busy few days at work, dh looks a bit shell shocked tbh I did point out to him that he was there to grin

So any news? x

Clca Sun 25-Nov-12 13:50:01

No AF but a BFN. sad

Just want AF to arrive so we can get back to trying.

Literally everyone I know are announcing they're pregnant and it's making me want to scream!!

Knakard Sun 25-Nov-12 22:58:01

Have a very in mumsnetty hug and a glass on wine smile

Hope your ok and have it all crossed for you xx

Clca Tue 27-Nov-12 08:38:56

Thank you!

Still no AF but another BFN. Ergh. Xx

Knakard Wed 28-Nov-12 22:25:41

How are you feeling? x

LoveYouForeverMyBaby Wed 28-Nov-12 22:59:30

knakard so sorry AF arrived...look at it this way, you're only 2 weeks away from ovulating and giving it another shot. Am either ov or 1dpo will be poas crazy in th next week or two no doubt.

Clca Thu 29-Nov-12 08:52:04

Knakard wwwwhhhhhaaattttt???? Your AF arrived??????!!!!!! Huh?

I'm ok still no AF! Think my cycle length must have decided to change to longer! Xx

beckie90 Thu 29-Nov-12 09:41:38

Clca... I feel your pain, I'm normally really regular but this month sure I ovulated 2/3 days later, my period based on my original cycle was due yest, I tested on Fri n sat both neg not thinking about my late ovulation signs. Tested again Monday still neg. I orderd some net cheapies, probs test tomorow when they arrive. But don't feel pregnant at all or anything so pretty sure I'm not. Just I normally get 2 days of spotting before af arrives, I havnt got that yet. It's so fustrating xx HUGE CONGRATS KNACKERD x

Knakard Thu 29-Nov-12 11:09:22

No no I think the poster before didn't read to the en of the thread, so far so good and still up duffed!

it must be driving you bonkers! What day of cycle are you on now?

Thanks becki super chuffed smile

LoveYouForeverMyBaby Thu 29-Nov-12 11:38:00

SO sorry I didnt read the whole thread, apologises and congratulations!!

Clca Thu 29-Nov-12 12:48:41

Ah thank god for that!!! You had me worried! How did the doctors go?

I'm on day 33!!!! I am going insane. Will test again on Saturday if AF doesn't make an appearance before!


Clca Thu 29-Nov-12 17:01:57

Beckie90 - it's bloody annoying isnt it! I know I'm not pregnant but because AF hasnt arrived I cant help but hope I am. Ergh! X

beckie90 Thu 29-Nov-12 18:07:44

Yep so annoying only thing that I have is erring a lot but I seem to have that before af last few months arghh. My tests havnt come today here's hoping they here tomorow cause its driving me mad xxx

Clca Fri 30-Nov-12 16:00:10

I feel sick today...., which def means I am symptom spotting and I'm not preggo!!! wink xx

beckie90 Fri 30-Nov-12 16:11:23

I've got 3 faint posatives :/ i can't get my head round it though don't quite believe it xxx

Clca Fri 30-Nov-12 16:18:36

That is fabulous news!!!! Whooop!

What tests do you use? Will test again tomorrow if still no AF but need to go and get a new test. Recommendations?? Xxx

beckie90 Fri 30-Nov-12 18:52:27

I used the net cheapies ultra sensative ones, they r quite bad for evap lines though last month I got a few. But this time 3 pink lines within few mins. Thankyou shocked. Any signs of af or pregnancy? Xx

Clca Sat 01-Dec-12 02:56:56

Nothing of either! Going to test tomorrow if no AF. It's so odd I can't help
But be hopeful But in my heart of hearts I know I'm not pregnant. (please forgive the random capital letters - my phone has a mind of its own!) xx

beckie90 Sat 01-Dec-12 09:03:22

That's how I felt though I didn't think I was preg at all, I'd come off my coil in august when i broke up with my partner of 5 years we got back together end of September after deciding we knew we cudnt split up, I'd been using fertility friend to work out my cycle as I was on no contraception I always ovulate on day 14, this month we only dtd unprotected on the night of cycle day 16 so I thought chances were so slim. But appears I ovulated later than usual. Honestly it can happen when you least expect it, me and my partner have 2 boys already and knew we wanted 1 more but I didn't think it would happen yet. I had symptoms but I also get same before af. Good luck hun smile how late are you now? Xx

Clca Sat 01-Dec-12 11:38:24

Sooooo....... Just did a cb digital and I got my bfp!!! I am officially up duffed!!! 2-3 weeks! gringringrin xxx

Knakard Sat 01-Dec-12 12:51:15

Whoop whoop whoop grin
At work now will be back later, massive massive congrats! Must be a lucky month xxxxx

beckie90 Sat 01-Dec-12 14:10:31

Whooooo congrats hun Yayyy xxx

Clca Sat 01-Dec-12 14:43:45

Thanks ladies, I am beyond excited and just a little shocked! wink xx

Knakard Sun 02-Dec-12 16:36:56

So finally a min to myself. I'm soooo pleased for you! When do you work out your due then? How has your dh reacted?

Clca Sun 02-Dec-12 16:53:03

Around 7th August I think you?

DH is really happy but I don't think it has sunk in (for either of us!!) yet!

Have never done this before so may well be asking you some ridiculous questions if you don't mind! wink

When should I go and see the doctor? Xx

beckie90 Sun 02-Dec-12 19:40:26

Clca 7th of Aug is mine too Haha around that anyway prob b dif on dating scan. These days docs don't even need to see you, ring up your gp and be asked to put on midwife books that's all they said to mw when I rang for an appointment with ds2, then they will ring you and book in your 1st visit smile I've not even rung them yet doing it tomorow still not sunk in I've done 7 tests in total now lol xxx

Clca Wed 05-Dec-12 17:52:04

Saw the doc this afternoon (they said I should pop in as I haven't had blood pressure taken in years!!)
Been put on midwife books and was told the mw would call me to arrange an appointment and scan etc..... Any idea on how long it will be until she call?

I just want it to start feeling more real!! blush x

Knakard Wed 05-Dec-12 20:47:23

How exciting. I saw gp a week ago today and was told should hear in about 2 wks about booking in app. Which should be just b4 Xmas.
This whole first bits new to me to as didn't find out I was pg till 18 odd weeks with ds blush
Feeling a little queasy but nothing too bad, cant stop crying though! Seriously anything is setting me off, I cryed in b and q at the weekend because the Xmas tree we were getting was in the sale blush that £15 made me shed a tear, dh VERY embaressed! Xx

Clca Wed 05-Dec-12 22:23:16

Hahaha nothing wrong with being an emotional wreck... I am even when not preggo. Do not get me started on the John Lewis ad....!

Ive felt nauseous literally twice and have zero other symptoms. I'm sure in a few weeks time I'll be begging to feel like this but at the moment it just doesn't feel real!

I AM GOING TO HAVE A BABY!!! (nope.... Still weird!)

Any books you'd recommend Hun? I need something to make me feel like a mum to be seeing as so far I have nada since my bfp!

Bloody hell- how come you were so late finding out with your first?!

Do you by any chance know what happens. At the first mw appointment? Xx

beckie90 Wed 05-Dec-12 22:28:20

Awwww I feel SHOCKING, constant nausea, migraines, peeing too much, dizzy. And struggle to keep my bloody eyes open. It's gonna be a long one Haha smile xxx

Knakard Thu 06-Dec-12 18:30:03

No books really, I remember having a day by day one with pictures every day which I liked.
Have just ordered myself the mumsnet guide to pregnancy off eBay for £2 grin

I don't remember much about the booking in app. (5.5yrs ago) mainly family And medical history I think.

Got to 18 weeks by combination off having no idea or tracking off my cycle, changing contraception (about the time I got up duffed) thinking that was making t go a bit haywire. An if I'm honest a good old dose of denial blush. So it's all a bit new to me this bit. But it's soooo much nicer to be older and more confident and excited about it all rather than shit scared sad

Also I figure Me and dh did a bloody good job with ds without having a scooby do what we were doing so we must be naturals grin xx

Clca Thu 06-Dec-12 19:52:44

It's so nice to be excited isn't it?! I have been around with an inane grin on my face since I found out!

I've had to become a recluse as as soon as I refuse a glass of wine ALL of my friends will automatically know!

How are you feeling? Any sickness?

Hurry up and get to 12 weeks please so I feel like I can relax that everything's ok! Xx

jennimoo Thu 06-Dec-12 20:22:32

OMG I didn't add our thread to my watched and just seen your both PG!!!! Congratulations I'm really pleased for you both and hopefully ill be joining you in up-the-duff-ness soon: AF due Xmas day!

Clca Thu 06-Dec-12 20:43:22

Hey jennimoo! Lovely to hear from you and thank you. I'm still in shock!! Am keeping my fingers crossed that santa brings you a massive bfp for christmas!!!

Make sure you let us know. I have a good feeling wink xx

Clca Tue 11-Dec-12 14:50:14

Hey @knakard, how are you feeling? Have you had your booking in appointment with the midwife yet?

jennimoo Tue 11-Dec-12 21:05:00

Hello. I O ed a few days ago, plan on testing on Friday 21st before my work Xmas do. It'll be 13dpo so should be pretty accurate. Fingers crossed ill be joining you two smile

Clca Sat 15-Dec-12 08:57:27

Hi Jennimoo! Less than a week until you can test! Are you excited? Feeling positive? Got everything crossed for you xx

jennimoo Sat 15-Dec-12 09:11:28

Trying not to think about it! Will be 13dpo on Friday and plan to use a clear blue digital (have a 2 pack as they were on offer...) so reckon it'll be pretty accurate.
If its a BFN at least I can enjoy the christmas booze!

Hope you're feeling well.

Clca Sat 15-Dec-12 09:23:23

Don't be too disheartened if it's a bfn to start off with. I used cb digital the day before AF was due and got a bfn then retested 4 days later and it was a bfp 2-3 weeks!!
Let me know how you get on, hopefully you'll get the best Christmas present!
I'm feeling ok, still doesn't feel real. It's my first so I'm a bit clueless as to what to expect! Xx

Clca Thu 20-Dec-12 18:05:33

Good luck for tomorrow Jen! Keeping my fingers crossed for you! envyenvy xx

jennimoo Thu 20-Dec-12 20:49:41

Thank you! Will let you know...

jennimoo Fri 21-Dec-12 05:48:57

A BFP!!!!!

Clca Fri 21-Dec-12 09:25:05

Whooooohoooo! Amazing news, so so pleased for you! Are you in a state of shock? Xxx

jennimoo Fri 21-Dec-12 12:08:01

Yep, quite shocked, but feeling quite sicky already, but had been ignoring it! Just gotta deal with all those Xmas drinking situations now!

Clca Fri 21-Dec-12 16:03:45

It is seriously the worst month to hide being preggo. Just had my Christmas work lunch and off to a party tonight.... And a wedding tomorrow......

Ah well fully worth it! Is this your first? Xx

jennimoo Fri 21-Dec-12 17:26:01

At least I have to drive tonight so a few pretend sips of wine should make it ok!

This is DC2, DD is 2.2 now so will be almost 3 years between them if this one sticks.

Clca Fri 21-Dec-12 17:49:09

I'm sure it'll stick. Massive congratulations again - such lovely news xx

Clca Wed 26-Dec-12 18:03:43

Hope you had a fabulous Christmas! X

polkadotsrock Wed 26-Dec-12 18:41:27

Wow, what a lucky thread this was!!! <just wanted to get on it in case it brings me luck too wink
Congrats to all grin

jennimoo Wed 26-Dec-12 20:34:08

Definitely the lucky thread! Still seem to be pg as no AF but haven't tested again. Christmas has been tiring (DD2.3...) and sober but exciting to have this little secret!

Clca Thu 27-Dec-12 22:09:41

Very luck polkadot.... Sending lots of luck your way!

Glad to hear it Jennimoo! I too have had a very sober Christmas! I feel completely exhausted all the time.... Could actually sleep for Britain! Xx

polkadotsrock Thu 27-Dec-12 22:28:08

Thanks ladies. Glad to hear all is well with you. I remember the tiredness, I was constantly napping! We're starting in earnest this weekend- yay!!

Clca Thu 27-Dec-12 22:36:56

Well if you go any thing like this thread you'll be preggo in no time! wink

This is my first so I am pretty clueless as to what to expect! X

Girraferama Sat 29-Dec-12 23:39:00

Hi all - wow congratulations! You've given me hope as I keep testing negative but no AF has arrived and just didn't know whether to keep testing... I'm 10 days overdue now - I last tested the day before yesterday. How overdue were you guys when you got your BFP?

Clca Mon 31-Dec-12 11:56:59


I was about 4 days late when I got my bfp. I did test earlier and got a bfn though! Best of luck to you! X

bundle4me Mon 31-Dec-12 12:26:24

Wow, I'm so jealous! Congrats to you girls! Also doing the same as polkadotsrock to get in on the luck - spread some baby dust my way! AF it a little late but had a BFN at the weekend but praying it could be too early to pick up.

Congrats again girls and good luck to the rest of us!

Clca Thu 03-Jan-13 07:34:14

Any news @bundle4me? Xx

bundle4me Thu 03-Jan-13 11:46:27

Hi Clca Afraid not! I did another test on Tuesday...another BFN! sad However still no sign of AF. It's been 34 days since my last AF when I came off the pill so I'm not entirely sure what my cycle is meant to be. I hate the fact that I'm sympton spotting every little thing - its driving me crazy! angry

Is it sinking in yet for you?

Clca Thu 03-Jan-13 17:29:45

No AF is good.... There's still a chance!

Feeling a little more real now. Got my first mw appointment and scan booked in - just petrified of something going wrong! Roll on 12 weeks.... 9 1/2 weeks down! Xx

jennimoo Thu 03-Jan-13 17:48:18

Hello. I'm 5.5 weeks now, and still pg smile

Hope the luck rubs off on you bundle 4 me.

Clca Fri 04-Jan-13 20:24:35

Fabulous news @jennimoo! How are you feeling?

jennimoo Fri 04-Jan-13 20:41:26

Queasy and knackered! The sick feeling seems to have started earlier than last time too.

How are you getting on? Got a date for a scan yet?

bluefreckles Fri 04-Jan-13 20:41:32

bundle4me - I think you and I are in the same boat
I'm now 5 days late and had a BFN yesterday morning and about 5pm today. Really down and no idea what is going on sad

Clca Fri 04-Jan-13 21:12:17

Yep Jenni it's on my birthday! 21st Jan.... Very excited! shock Got my first appointment with the midwife on 15th too.

You? X

Clca Fri 04-Jan-13 21:12:51

P.s hope you feel better soon x

jennimoo Fri 04-Jan-13 21:21:57

I've seen dr but no dates for anything else yet. Planning on a private scan in a couple of weeks though. Fingers crossed for a heartbeat!

Clca Fri 04-Jan-13 21:49:49

Sure it'll be fine hun!

I'm feeling really nervous - just desperate for the 12 week scan and know everything's ok!

jennimoo Sat 26-Jan-13 16:13:20

Hi Clca, had your scan?

We had one last Saturday and a heartbeat and everything so looking good. Also had norovirus too...

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