Hello everyone,
I'm not sure if I'm posting this in the right section so please don't hate me if I'm not but I have a question that I can't seem to answer on my own.
How do/did you know that you want(ed) a baby?
The reason that I ask is that I am 28 and have never really felt a maternal instinct or any need to have children. Even as a little girl, I never played at mummy and baby with my dolls - I played at schools and my dolls were my pupils. My favourite part of the game was hometime when I sent them all away with their parents.
I love other people's children (I have two god children, a 3 year-old nephew and a niece on the way) and people usually say that I am 'good with kids' (actually, what I do is roll around on the floor and play noisy games with them which makes the kids love me but their parents probably don't appreciate it quite so much) but I've never felt the need or the will to have any of my own.
My husband, who is 35, feels the same way so this shouldn't really be a problem but as I am getting to an age where people start to find it strange that we haven't got kids (especially since we have been married for nearly 2 years now) and I am finding myself having to explain our feelings more and more often (whilst remaining convinced that I shouldn't ACTUALLY have to explain anything at all), I am starting to become curious about how this works for other people.
What are your thoughts on this?
Thanks in advance
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FrogLover · 29/01/2010 16:10
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