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ttc for 2 1/2 years and everyone around me is pregnant

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hopeforbundleofjoy · 10/02/2009 11:24

every time my dp come home and tells me that his mate has just told him that his lass is pregnat, i always go dead moody and refuse to talk to him and am depressed for days afterwards. last night he told me that the lad we rent our house off is going to be a dad and it sent me off again. Is this just me and any tips to deal with it? coz its putting strain on my relationship

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MrsHappy · 10/02/2009 20:32

No, it is not just you.
TTC brings out the worst in lots of us.
I would just always remind myself (over and over) that what happens to other people is not relevant to what happens to me. It is hard, but it does the trick.

2.5 years is a long time to be trying. Have you both seen a doctor? If not, you might feel better if you see someone and start to take control of your situation.

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spongebrainbigpants · 10/02/2009 20:37

Hope, definitely not just you, it is one of the most traumatic life experiences you can go through .

As MrsHappy suggests, you need to speak to someone if you haven't already - you may well need help conceiving.

It is such a difficult and lonely experience. Hope you have support in RL.

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hopeforbundleofjoy · 10/02/2009 21:19

im currently on clomid cycle 1. am back to see my specialist on the 8th april as i have pcos

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MrsHappy · 11/02/2009 07:33

well, hopefully clomid will do its thing for you. Just try to stay positive. I know it is hard.

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