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Getting on with life with no hope of another baby

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TheOtherMaryPoppinsDiets · 16/01/2009 14:45

How do you get on with life, forget TTC and come to terms with your diagnosis of secondary infertility?

I'm struggling and I know I need to "put it to bed" but I don't know where to start and how to start living my life again.

Any words of wisdom appreciated

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WowOoo · 16/01/2009 14:49

Think it would be very hard just to forget about this and get on with things. Much easier said than done and I wouldn't want to push it as I would have to mourn what could have been, if you see what I mean.?

Would have to find something else to focus my efforts on. New job, hobby, pet, holiday,decorating/renovating. No idea!

Is there no hope at all? Are there any alternatives for you? Sorry, no words of wisdom at all. Just sympathy.

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Haribosmummy · 16/01/2009 14:53

I think, and I don't wish to come over as unsypathetic on this, that the fact you have one child should be some consolation.

There are loads of things you can get involved in - charity, hobbies, school or babysitting etc.,

I have one child and don't think I'll have another, but to be honest, I never thought I'd have the first, so I'm not going to stab my lucky star... I'm lucky to have the one!!!! I'd love another (actually I'd love another two) but I'm not about to start worrying about it....

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