We are TTC no 2, have been for about 9 months, but i know we are not having enough sex as he is just not into i! We usually manage every other day for the week i think i'm ovulating but end up not doing it inbetween, and often i think we are missing ovulation time by not even managing every other day during that time or ov happening before or after!
This month i said lets just go for it and increase our chances, he agreed and supposed to be starting last night but he said sorry i'm not in the mood. This has happened a few other months and i just cant help being really disappointed, frustrated and angry. I'm not always 100 percent in the mood but i find it so hard to understand that he wouldnt be and that he cant/wont work on it for the sake of ttc. He's never been that much into sex but we have a good relatiionship in spite of it and usually i have learned to live with it. He's not into porn or anything and so single minded i'm not really able to seduce him unless he's in the mood already which is rare.
Its driving me crazy because i'm trying to avoid getting angry with him, putting pressure on him or arguing and further spoiling chances of bd!!! We do talk about it between times and have told him exactly how small a window we have blah blah blah, he understands but when it comes to the, ahem, crunch he just wont do it.
I feel like i'm the only woman in the world with this problem! Am i?!!
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TTC with a man with no sex drive, am i the only one ?
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nutherone · 30/11/2008 09:07
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