Probably very strange, and stupid question about fertility treatment

[soosy]

Just had a failed ivf attempt (14th) Have one DS (10th attempt) and was pg 1st attempt, mc at 9weeks. We originally had ivf (icsi) for a male problem, but DS is the result of donor sperm (1st attempt) and I haven't been able to get pg since. Has anybody done similar and taken a step back and had an IUI and been successful? I know in the grand scheme of thing IUI is less successful, but I am getting older and IVF is becoming more difficult, emotionally, physically and financially. We only have 2 more shots at it literally and I do produce grade one embryos they are just not implanting for some reason. If anybody has any ideas why please tell me, I had acupuncture this last time and when I conceived DS.

[tegan]

I really feel for you soosy. we have been trying for 18 months and no bump had test and i am ok so dh has to have a sperm count due to medication he is on if he is fine i will have to have ovulation drugs.

You are very brave to persivere with ivf as i have lready told dh that i won't be going down that road.