~*~*~*~*~*~*~ JESS1996/JESS ~*~*~*~*~*~

[lissie]

how are you?

[pipsqueeke]

x

[lissie]

.

[pipsqueeke]

still nothing really hoping for a good outcome here.

[lissie]

me too, its so easy to forget that there are people behind the names....



how are you doing?

[pipsqueeke]

not too bad thanks getting there - determined to get back ttc again asap! lol. had a bit of a down morning but going to get there again! lol. u? did u retest?

[lissie]

doing it in the morning. feel like such a fraud, i know it'll be a bfn, but needs must...

[pipsqueeke]

x how did u go lissie? my bleeding seems to ahve all but stopped

still nothing form jess

[torres]

Hi Lissie and pipsqueake- hope you're both ok.

I see there's no news from Jess, I really hope the scan went ok

[lissie]

bfn (odd, but im almost relieved!) bit worried about her now.

pip, i know its tough, but it will get better, i promise!

torres, how are you?

[jess1996]

Hi. Thanks for worrying about me . Unfortunately it was ectopic. Was sent straight to gynae ward, scanned again, then straight to theatre. Turned out I also had 2 ruptured ovarian cysts and lots of internal bleeding. Quite a big op, but I still have both ovaries and both fallopian tubes and I'm already feeling loads better. I've persuaded them to let me hope for the night, but I'm back in hospital tomorrow for a check up. I've got a very sore tummy, but it seems to be healing nicely at the moment. I think I'm in a state of shock, but I'm too glad to be alived to worry too much about the loss of the pregnancy. I'll let you know how I'm getting on in a few days.

[jess1996]

sorry, should say home for the night

[jess1996]

sorry for spelling I'm not quite thinking straight

[lissie]

oh jess, i'm so so so sorry.

[pipsqueeke]

oh honney i'm so sorry for you ((hugs))

[lissie]

jess, have CAT'd you (hope you dont mind) if you need a rant/chat etc you know where i am!

[Wheelybug]

Am so sorry Jess - please take care of yourself and you know where we all are if you need anything.

[cedar12]

So sorry Jess.

[torres]

really sorry jess, am thinking of you

[kensgirl]

thinking of you Jess xx

[Rachel1963]

Jess, I'm so sorry

[jess1996]

I'm feeling much better today. Still very sore, but ok. I've been properly discharged now and I'm having the staples taken out tomorrow.

Thanks for all your kind comments.

Lissie - I don't have the CAT facility, but thanks anyway .

I'm still in a bit of shock. It's really crap. I've had two pregnancies in 6 months - one missed m/c and now an ep. My doctor was quite positive though. She said loads of people have a similar history and go on to have successful pregnancies. She said everything looked healthy and that I've just been unlucky and that I should try again when I've recovered. I'd be scared of this happening again though.

[lissie]

jess, my email is on my profile, contact me if you want. i know how tough it is. is dp with you?

[jess1996]

Thanks . Yes my DH is here. Making my lunch right now.

[lissie]

please take it easy. and allow yourself time to grieve. will you have any follow up appt?

[jess1996]

I'm having my hcg measured again on Friday. Do I need a follow-up?