I know I need to test but

(45 Posts)
curlingandtwirling Wed 09-Nov-16 12:43:43

I can't face it. Last year at the age of 42 and over 7 years TTC we decided enough is enough. We came to terms and moved on.

Today I'm 43 and I am 8 days late. I've had some slight browny coloured discharge 3-4 days ago, but nothing like the awful heavy periods I usually have. I've always been regular, never more than 1-2 days late. I've had cramps on and off for over a week. My boobs feel like I'm due on still.

I'm scared. Of hoping, of the disappointment, bringing this all up again.

I just needed to write this down, as I'm convincing myself of all sorts. Could it be? Is it the menopause? Why is my body doing this to me?

confusedat23 Wed 09-Nov-16 13:49:04

Hi i'm sorry i cannot offer any solace but you should just test. Either way you will have a definate answer and stop the stressing.

POAS and let us know how it goes! FX'd for you flowers

Xxx

SleepFreeZone Wed 09-Nov-16 13:50:22

I understand that feeling totally. Thing is you do need to know either way.

Flyingfruit Wed 09-Nov-16 13:51:24

Good luck!

LauraK1987 Wed 09-Nov-16 18:32:32

I think you should take a test, you're in limbo at the moment and you will slowly drive yourself nuts! If you are pregnant you will need to be taking steps to see dr/midwife etc equally if you're not you will know where you stand (and if still no period you should book to see your gp to get to the bottom of it) I can see why you might feel anxious about it but really you need to know one way or the other don't you. Good luck and keep us updated

curlingandtwirling Fri 11-Nov-16 08:36:56

Sorry for the late reply, but I'm still in shock!

Yes, it's a great big BFP.

Thank you for your replies! I think I just knew but was so terrified. I still am!

Yawninghippo Fri 11-Nov-16 08:40:42

Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!! grin

DamsonGinIsMyThing Fri 11-Nov-16 08:47:22

Ah congratulations 😄

Evvy543 Fri 11-Nov-16 08:48:04

Congratulations x x x

confusedat23 Fri 11-Nov-16 09:14:58

Ohhhhh yay!! Congrats for you finally getting your BFP!! Xxx

blueskyinmarch Fri 11-Nov-16 09:18:16

Congratulations. I hope all goes well for you. You have waited a long time for this.

HeyPresto1 Fri 11-Nov-16 09:25:58

Biggest congratulations! It just goes to show that you should never lose hope. Wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy.

curlingandtwirling Fri 11-Nov-16 09:52:02

Thank you all! I'm in shock! I'm terrified.

DH's face was a picture! Obviously, we're both thrilled to bits! shock

I don't know what to do next!

drinkyourmilk Fri 11-Nov-16 09:54:26

curling what fantastic news! Congratulations. Take it easy, get some prenatal vitamins and tell your gp so you can get some folic acid and vitamin d tablets if you need them.

eurochick Fri 11-Nov-16 10:05:41

Omg. What wonderful news.

Sweetpea302 Fri 11-Nov-16 10:07:33

Congratulations! Thrilled for you! grin

mylittlephoney Fri 11-Nov-16 10:09:42

Amazing. Congratulations Op. Get thee to the gp and start this ball rolling. brewcake and put your feet up.

seminakedinsomebodyelsesroom Fri 11-Nov-16 10:12:39

This has given me a massive smile. Congratulations!

SatsukiKusakabe Fri 11-Nov-16 10:36:53

I've just stumbled across this, how fantastic, congratulations flowers grin

Rockclimbingtigger Fri 11-Nov-16 11:31:36

Brilliant news. Congratulations smile wishing you a healthy and stress free 9 months xx

SleepFreeZone Fri 11-Nov-16 11:48:48

🤗🤗🤗

user1471496670 Fri 11-Nov-16 14:14:25

That's so lovely! Huge congratulations x

Qwerdy1234 Fri 11-Nov-16 14:15:32

How wonderful!!! flowers

Bin85 Fri 11-Nov-16 14:17:51

Best of luck

Jellybabie3 Fri 11-Nov-16 14:20:14

What amazing news, congratulations!

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