Feeling resentful/hormonal/peed off

(9 Posts)
Actorgirl3 Wed 04-May-16 14:29:18

I'm sorry to moan I'm just in a bit of a bad state this week. I'm extremely hormonal suffering an early mc on Sunday, my sister in law is pregnant and I'm surrounded by family talking about it constantly (my husbands family) and I don't want them to know about the mc. I don't know if I'm grieving or just hormonal generally as I feel like I have no control over how I feel at the moment and I'm avoiding everyone who is pregnant in case I burst into tears. I know it will get better but these last few days of feeling crap are dragging 😞

hanflan Wed 04-May-16 15:19:22

I didn't want to read and run, I'm so so sorry you are going through this. flowers

Actorgirl3 Wed 04-May-16 16:59:44

Thanks Han I just needed a bit of a rant today xxxx

DizzyMerry Wed 04-May-16 18:12:54

So sorry for your loss. It's a horribly dark time so don't be sorry, be kind to yourself. I had a mmc last September so can understand how you're feeling right now. Do whatever you can to get through this time and don't worry about moaning as it really does help. It will get better but it takes time to work through our feelings, come to terms with our losses and what would have been flowers

Actorgirl3 Wed 04-May-16 20:28:08

Thank you merry it's just a very odd thing to go through emotionally isn't it and I'm not quite sure how to deal with it, I'm assuming it's just hormones being all over the place but it's very confusing and upsetting xxx

broodypsycho Wed 04-May-16 23:02:50

I feel for you I really do. I'm just waiting for my brothers girlfriend to announce she's pregnant again with another grandchild while I can't seem to give them any. Thoughts are with you

DizzyMerry Wed 04-May-16 23:12:11

Emotionally it's the hardest thing to go through as we just have no control over our body and our feelings. It feels like there's no light at the end of this deep dark tunnel. Hormones do also play are part and it's all so overwhelming. You will always remember this time and your loss but take your time to grieve and I promise that overwhelming feeling and the raw pain will subside flowers

Actorgirl3 Thu 05-May-16 08:32:42

Thanks ladies xxx

iwillbemrsminty Thu 05-May-16 09:23:00

Just gone through a similar thing myself during April. Up and down, one minute I was laughing, the next sobbing. It's hard. Very hard but I can promise you it gets better each day. Have lots of hugs with your dh/dp and I found just chatting to him helped heaps. We often had middle of the night chats in bed. flowers for you .

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