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Feeling resentful/hormonal/peed off

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Actorgirl3 · 04/05/2016 14:29

I'm sorry to moan I'm just in a bit of a bad state this week. I'm extremely hormonal suffering an early mc on Sunday, my sister in law is pregnant and I'm surrounded by family talking about it constantly (my husbands family) and I don't want them to know about the mc. I don't know if I'm grieving or just hormonal generally as I feel like I have no control over how I feel at the moment and I'm avoiding everyone who is pregnant in case I burst into tears. I know it will get better but these last few days of feeling crap are dragging 😞

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hanflan · 04/05/2016 15:19

I didn't want to read and run, I'm so so sorry you are going through this. Flowers

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Actorgirl3 · 04/05/2016 16:59

Thanks Han I just needed a bit of a rant today xxxx

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DizzyMerry · 04/05/2016 18:12

So sorry for your loss. It's a horribly dark time so don't be sorry, be kind to yourself. I had a mmc last September so can understand how you're feeling right now. Do whatever you can to get through this time and don't worry about moaning as it really does help. It will get better but it takes time to work through our feelings, come to terms with our losses and what would have been Flowers

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Actorgirl3 · 04/05/2016 20:28

Thank you merry it's just a very odd thing to go through emotionally isn't it and I'm not quite sure how to deal with it, I'm assuming it's just hormones being all over the place but it's very confusing and upsetting xxx

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broodypsycho · 04/05/2016 23:02

I feel for you I really do. I'm just waiting for my brothers girlfriend to announce she's pregnant again with another grandchild while I can't seem to give them any. Thoughts are with you

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DizzyMerry · 04/05/2016 23:12

Emotionally it's the hardest thing to go through as we just have no control over our body and our feelings. It feels like there's no light at the end of this deep dark tunnel. Hormones do also play are part and it's all so overwhelming. You will always remember this time and your loss but take your time to grieve and I promise that overwhelming feeling and the raw pain will subside Flowers

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Actorgirl3 · 05/05/2016 08:32

Thanks ladies xxx

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iwillbemrsminty · 05/05/2016 09:23

Just gone through a similar thing myself during April. Up and down, one minute I was laughing, the next sobbing. It's hard. Very hard but I can promise you it gets better each day. Have lots of hugs with your dh/dp and I found just chatting to him helped heaps. We often had middle of the night chats in bed. Flowers for you .

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