We've never really had that much sex but its really coming to light now we are TTC, he barely wants to and when he does he doesn't... finish half the time. Says it is awkward or he is not in the mood.
I can't do anything about this... Any kind of encouragement or pushiness just feels a bit...rapey
I knew this would be a problem, I knew I wasn't meant to have kids. I'm really really fucking angry, but I can't express that because it will just make it worse and he's not choosing to make this difficult. He finds his reactions shameful I think.
Horrible vicious cycle that I can do nothing about.
You hear all the time about husband's/partners being over the moon about all this extra sex they are getting ttc and it just seems the opposite for him.
I don't give a shit if I'm in the mood or slightly tired or not 100% up for it, Ill happily just dtd as a means to an end almost, i can't relate to where he is.
He says he definitely wants kids and I do believe him, I just think deep down he doesn't like sex.
Can any one relate?
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AliceScarlett · 10/02/2016 23:32
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