I've been lurking for a long while but this is my first post.
I've been with my DH for over 10 years. Love him and we have a fantastic relationship. We waited for just over a year to try for a baby while we sorted out buying a new house and lots of work things that were ongoing.
We were thrilled to find out we were pregnant after just one month but I sadly miscarried in early March at what should have been about 9.5 weeks but according to the scan, it seemed the baby stopped growing at about 7 weeks.
I miscarried naturally however, had a big problem with bleeding and ended up with an emergency trip to the hospital in an ambulance, a weekends stay and a couple of drips alongside somedairly invasive scans and procedures. All fine now however and we were told we could try again.
There was a small issue with me that was picked up from one of the blood tests which has been rectified, so we started trying again 2 months ago.
Today I got my period and although I was disappointed I just feel kind of flat. I'm not a very emotional person and feel I have dealt with everything really well and it hasn't been too difficult but I think I'm struggling knowing that we are no further along in the process than we were 8 months ago.
I feel like we are back to square one? I'm a big believer in things happening for a reason but I just don't understand the reason.
Due to an upcoming pre-paid for holiday we have now decided to wait a few months to try again to ensure we can still go away (both very happy with this decision)
But I'm just not sure how I feel about everything else.
Sorry for rambling, I just needed to get it out. Has anyone been in the same position? I'm sure it will get better and I'm just not used to feeling out of control or unsure of myself?
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Fedupithink · 10/08/2015 21:37
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