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RESPONSE trial thread

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Marchgirl · 04/05/2015 19:50

For anyone who had joined or is thinking of joining the RESPONSE medical trial for recurrent miscarriage

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Marchgirl · 04/05/2015 19:57

Let's start with a recap..
Me 37, dh 44, dd born aug 12.
4 x mc between Jan 14 and Feb 15. Rmc testing normal. Awaiting uNK test results from Coventry implantation clinic.

First cycle since signing up for the trial. Smiley yesterday Smile, so now in the dreaded 2ww

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Genwah85 · 04/05/2015 20:01

Just joined but a quick summary...
Me 29, dh 26, ds born Oct 07
3 x mc since August 2014 last one being at 8 weeks natural miscarriage just last week.

Going for my first appoitment about trial at 1pm tommorow...

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clairemorgan81 · 04/05/2015 20:08

Recap.....
Me 33 dh 30 we have ds born Jan 13.
3x miscarriages between June 14-Jan 15.
Still awaiting test results from trial bloods which were taken back in February (sigh)
Been ttc again since Feb. Just ovulated on Sat so now 2ww and start preg testing next weekend.....which I hated last month x

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girliesaints · 04/05/2015 20:23

Here's my recap;

Me & Dh 37. Dd born Jan 11. Try since Jan 14. Three mcs Feb 14, May 14 & Sept 14.

Bfp, 2 weeks ago and 6 week scan to tomorrow.

Handholding for everyone starting two week wait x

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LouiseM1987 · 04/05/2015 20:30

Hi joy and genwah

Good luck tomorrow girlie ...
My recap

Two mmc July 14 and feb 15 found out at 10-11 weeks both but died at 6-7 ish weeks
One natural at 5 weeks

Joined the trial in March after mmc got a bfp first month. Got my 6 week scan Thursday.
Xx

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Kazz2112 · 04/05/2015 21:35

My recap:

I'm 31. DH is 37. 2 missed mc discovered in May and October. Both stopped developing between 6 and 7 weeks. Third mc was a natural mc in January this year.

Finally saw a consultant in rmc clinic last week. Saw a sign for the trial and went back on Friday to sign up. The tests I was told I'd have to wait 12weeks for! Were already back and cckear. However, couldn't take bloods for the trial due to Bank Holiday. So back there tomorrow for bloods. Major limbo as have been ttc this month and due on on Wednesday. If my bloods are positive for pregnancy tomorrow and I am pregnant now I won't be able to be randomised!!!! So actually hoping our efforts have been in vain this month!!!

Good luck with your scan tomorrow Girlie. Will be crossing my fingers for you!

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Kazz2112 · 04/05/2015 21:36

And good luck Louise for Thursday!

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Joy2713 · 04/05/2015 22:12

Good luck for those whose have scans this week :)and sorry if this isn't allowed but those talking about G Level and private clinic, which hospital is that? As it's exactly the same as mine,

I've only just joined but my recap,
me 27 Oh 27
2yr old boy
5 mmc

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girliesaints · 05/05/2015 05:28

Welcome Joy. Indie and I are referring to Princess Anne Hospital, Southampton x

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clairemorgan81 · 05/05/2015 05:54

good luck girlie hope you managed to get some sleep.x

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Marchgirl · 05/05/2015 06:52

Good luck today girlie. Keeping everything crossed for you xxx

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Indiedog · 05/05/2015 07:07

My recap-

Me32 DH 38, DD 7 next month.
Four MC in a row since 2013.

Currently 9weeks pregnant.

Good luck Girlie xx

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sizethree · 05/05/2015 07:36

Gosh, I've been off for a few days and exciting to see new thread and newbies. So sorry you find yourselves here under the circumstances, but welcome joy and genwah
My recap, me 35, DH 36.
No children yet.
3 miscarriages. MC 1 November 2013 at 12 weeks - heartbeat seen at 7ish weeks. MMC stopped developing at 8+5. Medical management.
MC 2 July 2014 - natural miscarriage at 8 weeks. Heartbeat seen at 8 weeks. MC 3 - miscarriage at 9 weeks (stopped developing around 6-7 weeks) D&C.
Currently 13+5 weeks pregnant, and still very nervous.

Will be thinking for you for your scan today girlie Hope scanxiety stays at bay.
genwah hoping bmi calculation works out in your favour.

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Joy2713 · 05/05/2015 07:37

Yes i thought so! Thats ny hospital too :)

Good luck Girlie :)

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sizethree · 05/05/2015 07:38

Oh girlie yes please to recommendation. I'm here and trying to relax as much a possible and enjoy the sunshine. The resirt is loveky and we've been on a few strolls but it would be great to venture out for some food.

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philippa88 · 05/05/2015 08:04

Hey girls!! And welcome Kaz!! I got a fright when I read 'thread closed'!! Glad I found you haha!

I'm on day 18 now and thought I was going to get a smiley today but nothing, the lines started getting lighter again after day 12 so
I started to worry, but luckily they are gradually getting darker again!!

Sorry I've not been chatting much :( I'm trying to keep myself out of the obsessive stage and not get too 'into it' if you get me.

I love how there's a big group of us now, let's keep the positivity and hope going :) xx

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philippa88 · 05/05/2015 08:07

Oh and my recap...

I'm 26 and my oh is 28.
Been ttc for over 2 years now and have endured 4 early miscarriages. The furthest I've ever got is just before 6 weeks...

Here's to plenty of baby dust!!! X

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Choccywoccydodah · 05/05/2015 08:18

Recap for me!
Me 35, dh 40
Ds 3.9 almost, conceived month 3 no problem.
Ttc #2 since sept 2013.
8 consecutive mcs since Nov 2013 all before 6 weeks.
Started trial Feb 2015, currently 15+3!

Thanks for new thread March!!

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girliesaints · 05/05/2015 08:35

Thanks ladies. Feeling very nervous this morning, will check in later (gulp)

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Choccywoccydodah · 05/05/2015 10:04

Louise just been talking on the phone to D about you :) Obviously nothing in depth, just how you've got your + etc and scan soon :)
They're getting busy with more referrals in Cov and hopefully 2 more bfps in the pipeline this week :)

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girliesaints · 05/05/2015 13:02

Back from scan and not good news. Whilst they could see a pregnancy sack, it was smaller than it should be according to my dates and nothing could be seen in side it. So it either means my dates are out or it's not viable.

So got to go back next week for another scan to know for certain. Going to try and stay positive but not that hopeful as been here before. ??

Oh and some bugger hit my car outside the hospital and has left me with a repair bill!

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Kazz2112 · 05/05/2015 13:09

Oh no. So sorry to hear that Girlie. Try to stay positive and dont give up hope.x

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LouiseM1987 · 05/05/2015 13:11

Oh girlie ... Fingers crossed next week shows more. A week can show such a big difference. Are you 6 weeks today ?
Stay positive !

What a twat... I take it they didn't leave any details ? Xx

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girliesaints · 05/05/2015 13:17

Yep 6 wks today. Apparently it had happened before on the trial and gone on to be ok but as I've been here before I'm doubtful but I'm carrying on the trial until such time as we know either way.

Louise- no they didn't leave details but I think it's a bus as some of the dent is pretty high up and it's left red
Paint- ggrh!

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mummytaylor2903 · 05/05/2015 13:29

Hi ladies!

We were initially invited to join the trial at our first rmc appointment, told we would be accepted even though I've got an under active thyroid. Then saw the consultant last week for our results who told us we wouldn't be able to join because of my thyroid! So weeks of stressing, researching & decision making was for nothing! Those of you who've started the trial do you know if what we've been told is correct? Just doubtful after being told opposite things!! All our results came back normal so TTC again with no change of new hope is daunting! We've got a 4 year old DD by the way & had 3 late first trimester losses in the past year! X

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