April 2013 TTC girls, where we ALL get our babies!

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Ducky23 Mon 13-Apr-15 10:20:14

We quickly ran out of room on the old thread so here's a shiny new one grin

lillamyy1 Mon 13-Apr-15 12:10:08

Thanks Ducky grin
I hope the doctors manage to sort your DS out this time. Poor little chap flowers

Ducky23 Mon 13-Apr-15 12:25:25

Haha that's true it was probably written by a man!

They didn't say anything at the drs, just that his chest is clear, not very reassuring! I'm fed up of going there now because they kind of look at me like 'back again?' And they talk to me wierd now confused it's not my fault they took 2 weeks to diagnose cmpi! And I don't think anyone would just leave their baby pooing blood! confused Never mind confused

This is the thread your baby will be born shockshock

I didn't know whether to put it in ante natal now as everyone has a BFP (don't they?) but thought id just keep it in conception grin

lillamyy1 Mon 13-Apr-15 12:44:52

Yes they do! But we started here in conception so I think it's fine to stay here smile
Poor DS, is he pooing blood again??
OMG you're right - this is the thread where I'll have my baby! Eek! shock

Ducky23 Mon 13-Apr-15 13:00:02

No there's no blood now thank god! He is just hardly eating and sleeping all day confused

I'm trying to think if these anything you haven't tried to evict your baby!

Ohhhhh I know!!! When I went in I was told to walk up and down the stairs sideways cus it helps to get them really low! grin

LuluJakey1 Mon 13-Apr-15 14:40:10

Found it. Thanks Ducky. You'd think the GP would be really careful with DS given how lng it took them to diagnose him properly in the first place. Don't let them put you off.

Lilla- it will be any day now. Are you fedup now?

Wonder how Sairie and her baby are getting on today?

SIL is comng up tonight until Wednesday so that will be nice. Is bringing the boyfriend. DH says he is going to quiz them about their plans- needs to mind his own business. smile

Cupcake92 Mon 13-Apr-15 19:00:47

Here u are!! smile smile

Aw these poor babies sad I hope they are all okay and start to feel better again soon Ducky and Siarie. flowers

I'm feeling so bloated today and fat lol. I have a tiny bump already so when I'm bloated it suddenly looks massive!
Tmi moment but did anyone have increased cm when pg? Since being pg mines increased loads and I feel like I need to wear a pad all day on some days! It's awful I don't like It sad

Cupcake92 Mon 13-Apr-15 19:02:09

That'll be nice to see ur SIL Lulu smile bet Ull have a lovely few days smile does she like DS a lot?

And Lill u just need to pop this baby out now! Lol grin

lillamyy1 Mon 13-Apr-15 19:28:16

Haha yes I do Cupcake! Ducky, I'll try the stairs thing for sure. I've got 4 tins of pineapple in the cupboard as well!! Lulu, I am really fed up now yes!!

Cupcake I had a lot of cm around 12 wks onwards and did wear a pad most days. blush Got thrush as a result as well blush It lasted pretty much throughout the 2nd trimester I think, and then decreased enough to not have to wear a pad around 3rd trimester but I think it can last all the way through hmm If it's watery though it can be a symptom of strep B (my friend from antenatal class had to be checked for that but it was fine) so it might be worth mentioning when you see the doc or midwife next.

lillamyy1 Mon 13-Apr-15 19:30:58

Ducky, I hope DS feels better soon. Maybe you should make an appointment to see a different doctor?? It makes me angry that they're not concerned about his eating and about him being so sleepy. If they're all rubbish at your practice maybe you could move to a different one?

Ducky23 Mon 13-Apr-15 19:32:32

Ah lulu bet shel have a lovely time with ds. smile

Cupcake, I did have increased cm when pg but do mention it to mw smile

Lil, get on those stairs!

Cupcake92 Mon 13-Apr-15 21:32:20

Ducky I hope these doctors start taking u seriously ! U should bring him to my surgery lol the docs are lovely! N children are number 1 priority there.

I'm not liking the sound of increased cm till 3rd trimester!!! shock seeing midwife on 6th may but seeing consultant after my scan a week tomorrow. Should I mention it to him or keep it for the midwife?

Ducky23 Mon 13-Apr-15 21:50:35

Personally cupcake id tell both smile

I'm feeling very very down today hmm I found Out that girl had her baby (who had dd's name) one of her family members came up to me today and said 'she's had a beautiful baby girl' (not mentioning babies name) and tried to show me a picture. I just walked away, now everyone is telling me I'm out of order. I really don't know how to deal with this sad

lillamyy1 Mon 13-Apr-15 22:29:48

Oh Ducky flowers Just ignore them. Anyone who tells you you were out of order is completely insensitive. I'd have done exactly the same thing in your situation. That woman was a total heartless bitch to use your DD's name and If other people can't see that they're idiots flowers Anyone who isn't sticking up for you in this situation isn't worth the time of day flowers

steph1204 Mon 13-Apr-15 22:41:17

Found you ;)

Cupcake92 Tue 14-Apr-15 08:24:36

Okay I'll mention to both smile may as well lol!

And Ducky just like what Lill said u don't need people telling u ur out of order! I need people being considerate to u and understanding! I'd also do exactly the same and walk away. I wouldn't be able to bare seeing the baby as it would have brought too much back. No they ree should be sticking up for u and they need to stop being stupid and selfish. I can't believe she can call herself ur friend! It's so rude.
I knew someone from school I have her on my Facebook but don't ever speak anymore, she also lost a baby girl at around 26(?) weeks. The name she gave her baby was the name I wanted for DS if he was a girl and I'd wanted that name for years as its my favourite but we ended up changing our name choice out of respect because we knew if we had a girl and people posted pictures with her name Etc it'd be heartbreaking to them. Or even worse send them into a depression and I didn't want to do that to them. Obv DS turned out to be a boy lol! But even so I just don't get how she could have done that to u. That's not a friend at all and she should be ashamed.

Ducky23 Tue 14-Apr-15 12:03:27

Thanks guys, its just like no one else can see why it's so wrong shock

Been in the hospital all day with ds, his breathing got worse, he stopped eating and his rash became worse too confused I should just rent a room here grin waiting for the consultant, but it's the horrible one so I can see this turning into an argument!

ToriB34 Tue 14-Apr-15 12:08:20

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lillamyy1 Tue 14-Apr-15 13:11:21

Oh no Ducky, poor little duckling! I hope the consultant is nice you and finds out what's wrong. Do you think he might have another allergy that no one's realised yet?
Tori, how's your iron levels? And have you eaten enough? You mustn't overdo it if you're not feeling well.
I can't believe how warm it is today!! Good job since the only clothes I can for into now are large dresses and the only shoes my big hippo feet can fit into are flip flops!!
Just been to the charity shop across the road and got a pair of baggy, cool trousers for after the birth and a funky sleeveless shirt/blouse for breastfeeding in.
My nursing bras also came today and the good news is they seem like they'll fit well, but I don't know how easy it'll be to breastfeed in them because they're padded and they don't have an inside bit to hold your boob in place iyswim, so when you undo the cup you have to kind of fold it down because of the padding and then there's your whole boob exposed and kind of resting on the folded down cup confused I've got really big areolas so was hoping for a bit more coverage blush blushblush

Ducky23 Tue 14-Apr-15 13:43:02

Tori don't overdo it! Put your feet up! smile

Oh no lil! Maybe you can get one of them cover things? I have no idea wht they are called but I saw them and they give full coverage when out and about.

Well ds has bronch again.. I knew it! Second time the gps have missed it! I didn't see the horrible consultant in the end, the pead that looked after ds after he was born was there so he saw him. Got to keep an eye on him for the next couple of days and if he gets any worse he will be hospitalised again hmm

Cupcake92 Tue 14-Apr-15 13:48:36

Aaww no Ducky poor DS! Hope the consultant helps u! sad

Tori I had that with DS and was told it was because he was lying on a nerve. I ended up having to go on maternity leave early because of it.

Lill, I have those bras hahaha grin tho I never breast fed in them I wore them after DS was born and I so know what u mean about folding the padded but down lol!
Have you look at one of these maybe? I'm going to buy one and it gives u complete privacy when breast feeding smile
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Cupcake92 Tue 14-Apr-15 13:49:12

Wow that's a long link! Sorry lol!! grin

ToriB34 Tue 14-Apr-15 14:02:49

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Ducky23 Tue 14-Apr-15 14:03:43

That's what I was thinking of cupcake grin

Ducky23 Tue 14-Apr-15 14:09:11

Here's a pic of ds as I haven't uploaded one recently :-)

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