My partner and I really want to have a baby. I've recently been diagnosed with rectocele and have to have surgery in order to repair it. I have been told by the surgen that he won't preform the surgey because I want another child as it can cause a lot of risks and complications, but I'm constantly in agony and I'm still not ready to have one just yet. I'm only 22 and I already have a 2 year old from a previous relationship and her farther no longer wishes to have any involvement with her. I think I'm mainly terrified to have one as I dont want the same happening again but also feel that I'm being rushed into having one now as I really want and need this operation :( plus to top it off he also told me that I would have to have a c-section. This is just all to much for my head to process!! ugh any advice?
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