So, my husband and I are in our mid 20s. We both have stable jobs, a new home, nice car etc. We were high school sweethearts and married a year and a half ago. We've been living together for over 5 years so are pretty used to each other's quirks etc.
Recently my thoughts have been turning to babies. Now, I am not maternal in the slightest, as is my mother, have puppies not babies, was the motto I've been brought up with. But, on the other hand, it's been on my mind for a while, try a year! It's the reason I stumbled onto mumsnet. I currently have a contraceptive implant which is getting removed end January. I guess my question is the oldie; how do you know when you are ready. In our case, I can't accidentally get pregnant, it would have to be a conscientious decision to either renew the implant or chose not to when the time comes.
My head keeps going in circles, on whether I think we're ready or not (does keeping 2 cats alive count?!). Hubby is pretty onboard with the idea, although slightly terrified by it to. We're going to have a good chat about all the pros/cons closer to the time. I mean, my career is going nowhere but well paid and secure. I would have plenty of support from both sets of grandparents and my husband. We are hermits and don't go out/party much so I wouldn't be 'missing out' but OMG a new life! One that depends on you and doesn't go away for 18+ years! It's one huge leap of faith that you can't take back, how do you make that brave decision to step off the ledge?
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Cnmorgan13 · 28/12/2014 18:44
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